If you want to earn it from posting, then just keep posting but dont repeat everything. Like I said, make conversation. Its pretty easy and it adds up. :]
Did your gold go away? O_o;;
And yes, they'll most likely delete your posts for spamming, and i'm suprised they didn't give you an infraction then. I dunno.
Eh. Then you can just say that you're most often in your own thread. And tell them that they should search around in the Mene Nation and Community Discussion, because there are a lot of great threads there. Just try to make it more about them and a little less about you. That way they learn something about Mene and feel welcomed and aren't just being directed to one place. But if you do say that you're usually in your thread, then they could easily find that through statistics, or if they asked where that was then you could tell them, most likely.
You aren't supposed to do that either, really. ><;; I dont think its proper to divert everyone to your own thread.
You just have to mix things up. You aren't supposed to spam the forum, but rather actually talk to each user and say something with what they said and welcome them.