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What's it called when hubby and I don't mind having another lady in the bedroom with us? >3>;;
I wouldn't mind having another dude either, but hubby thinks he'd get jealous even though he wants to be accepting of the idea, so we just kindof avoid talking about it. I guess it's just good luck that we haven't found a guy we both think is attractive enough for it anyway xD |
Haha. One could slangly refer to that as a Menage a trois. Or a threesome. :lol: Have you actually had said threesomes, Keyori? Or are you just considering it? If you don't mind me asking.
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problem is, rob's really sensitive. if i say anything to him about it, he'll instantly think i'm trying to break up with him or something. :gonk: |
Awh. D; I'm sorry, Ruth. Ce n'est pas bien. :no:
Well if you don't think he's secure enough to know that you're not trying to leave him, and that you just want to express how you've been feeling, maybe it's best to leave it alone if you want to stay with him. He should understand, though. What about any friends that you have? Any close RL friends you've considered confiding in? |
I was talking more about what the preference is called rather than the actual act xD
No, we haven't had one yet. We did agree on a few girls for it, and only had the guts to ever ask one of them (who turned us down... I don't blame her though). But, it's something we've talked about at length, and we're both curious to try it some time, but if it doesn't ever happen we won't get bummed about it. |
oh my gingersaurus! :squee: i would never have guessed but good on you girl! I'm guessing you have seen my post as well?
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Ahh. I understand Keyori. Is the word you're looking for "bi-curious?" And I understand that. As long as you're happy with your husband, that's all that matters. :yes:
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well, i have thought about it. i suppost if i confided in my closest friends, they wouldn't be overly bothered, seeing as they all joke about it anyway, which is good, but i'm just not sure if i feel ready to say anything about it yet. /: |
urm yes! your sitting next to me in (Spencer's/Harrison's) lesson no matter what and geo is covered anyway thanks to Gosden! :D and Ruth dear you could have told me, we're both in the same boat after all :)
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That's all right. I understand. I remember when I first came out to anyone. It's truly one of the most difficult things in the world to get yourself to do. :hug: That's why it's in the rules of the hangout. To be patient. Because it really is difficult, even if you're coming out in a truly supportive environment such as this/Menewsha.
At least you have Grumman_Goose. And you're free to talk about it here. Get how you've been feeling off your chest. |
I used to be married to a man and had a live in girlfriend for nearly the whole time. I don't find that kind of thing odd at all. I did love her and I still do love him even though we're not together. It's a different kind of relationship and isn't for everyone since it's very easy for someone to be hurt due to misunderstandings.
Polygamy is another term for being in more than one loving relationship. It's not the same as a threesome or just having the other person for sex though. |
yeah. i just wanna wait to see what happens. i actually just told the girl over facebook that i like her, and she's actually said that she feels the same. :3 |
Awh! I'm glad that she likes you too! Just make sure you don't cheat on your boyfriend. He might be cool with you dating her while you're with him, I don't know, but I would definitely advise against attempting to behind his back. Not that I think you WOULD.
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agh, no, that's not what i was planning at all. :P |
:lol: Like I said, I didn't think that that's what you were planning, but I felt I should express that for formality's sake. I'm glad it made you feel better. :]
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Might as well post here.
Hello ;D |
Welcome, Monsieur Terrible! :D
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How are ya today, Alice? :3
*pets Rat III* |
Ruth you know that you can tell me anything and i will keep it schtum, and yes monday will be epic... nuff said ;)
Oh and Ms Moogle I have noticed that you are not wearing any undergarments for you nether regions, i just thought i would point that out.. xD |
I am good. About to start work on a very long technical report. *sigh* XD
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@Alice: Good luck with that. xD;
Hope it doesn't cause too much pain |
Thank you thank you. XD I hope not, either.
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Well stop procrastinating!
Get on it! :P |
But Menewsha's so addictive! :insane:
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The internet in general is addicting D:
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