Oi... you take care of yourself yahear?

Ehh trying. I mean first upset tummy then infection and now this stupid cold.

Aww...
Do you have vitamin C tablets or anything? I hear those help.

Yes i do actually :)
I think i'll take one before bed and a lemsip.

^^ good to hear. I hope you get well soon.

Me too.
Thanks hon <3

Bleh... sleepy but lots on my mind but too loopy to focus on any of it D:

Like what?

Just... been thinking a lot that I should probably stop being a stick in the mud about being friends with people... but not sure how I should redefine what I consider a friend... (people seem to think I'm too picky)

Then I'm also sort of questioning how I view a relationship too...

I figure... single and almost friendless... no better time than now right?

But anyways... nothing all that important... lack of answers simply bothers me

Haha that's my ex and I (who are still great friends). But you finding that reminded me to update my Pinterest picture...we broke up in October 2012 XD!YES! I think you should stop being a stick in the mud. Everyone should be considered a friend until the mess that shit up. I mean you have your SUPER CLOSE FRIENDS, and then you have friends. And I suppose you also have enemies 8X

But there shouldn't be a "defining" what makes a friend. Just for what makes an enemy xD All friends are different 8D

How you view a relationship? In what sense?

Sorry for butting in, I'm nosey 8D

ROACHIBBY FEEL BETTER ): *sends you feeling better vibes*

Wow fail... a whole year later XD

I view relationships as... well basically as a friendship... not much more besides the supposed perks of it...

Nosey away... I'll probably say more details in skype rather than mene lol

XD Yeah lol. I don't use pinterest like ever.

A relationship to me is the greatest friendship. You become the closest, know everything about each other, tell each other everything. You share every part of yourself - emotionally, mentally and physically.

But it's after work hours, I log out of Skype XD

Share everything? o.o
I didn't share everything with even my exwife... some things are better not brought up.

Really? Why not? I share everything with my partner.

Really depends...
I'll trust someone with marriage long before I'll open up about bits of my past.

We are very different I s'ppose!

indeed... here's a cathulu plushie instead
https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/6692524544/h4137BD94/

Oh he's so cute and squishy!

Guess who is home early and in bed? :(

Poet - I agree with Randeh. Stop being a stick in the mud. And like she said. You have your close friends and then just friends who you chat too now and again & friends who haven't really earned that kinda trust yet.
But honestly, it takes a long time to get to know someone. So you might be waiting a very long time to make any good friends hon. Stop putting so much emotion into your relationships. I think your trying to hard to find that perfect friend to be honest.

And yeah i agree Randeh. You tell your partner pretty much everything there is to know about yourself and vice versa. I want to know about someones past, their girlfriends, the struggles they have been through. I think you build a closer relationship that way. I don't want to be a friend in my partners eyes. I want a soulmate.

Not the perfect friend... just people who wont stab me in the back...

As for a partner... I just don't want to sleep alone anymore...

But that could be anyone. How would you know, without having to spend a lot of time on someone?

I dunno... I'm just tired of getting hurt that's all.

Awe Roro! You need to stop getting sick. Your body hates you for realz right now! I want to inject you with grade A oomph to make you better! That sounds naughty and I like it 8D

Absolutely! I too want to know everything there is to know about a person I'm with. I want to understand what shaped them to be the person they are today. Everyone has a journey, I'd like to see what theirs were and go from there 8DYou have to stop letting past experiences guide you. Everyone has shitty experiences but you get over it.

My ex of 4 and a half years cheated on me for 3 of those years. I should be upset and hate him right? Nope. He wasn't for me. Our journeys didn't mesh. He knows has a little girl with the girl he was cheating on me with and they are happy. Kudos to them~!

What randy said. You gotta let it go.
I mean its ok to be angry and hurt and upset. But once your done with that let it go. Because the only person your holding back is yourself. Because your ex doesn't give a shit that your miserable.

And yeah, stuff like this happens all the time.
I've had my fair share of bullshit in relationships. Wasted a lot of years on stupid guys. But hey i learnt something from each of them. And to be honest i'm quite happy i am where i am today. If all those things didn't happen to me i wouldn't be who i am today. And i wouldn't have found David. Who is the best bf i've ever had!

I know. Ooo i'd love that ;) :P Lol.

Yup agreed!

Sorry to hear about that rands.
He shouldn't have done that, that's a shitty thing to do. I mean it's simple, tell them your no longer feeling it right?! Ahh well, but if your ok with it now, and happy for them, then kudos to you! You seem to have got on with it, which poet should be doin :)

Ohhh bby 8D

Thanks. It is totally cool though! I was a bit upset about it in the beginning for a while but eventually realized it made me who I am today. Things can always only go up from bad experiences if you learn from them :)

How about we go see Poet and shake the bad out and inject him with grade A oomph too!!