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Emma Corrin 07-20-2012 03:27 PM

@Roachi: Aww - I hope the fundraiser is a huge success!!
Is there no way of it getting into remission? :(

@Nivvy: <3<3

Lol!! I can imagine!!
My friend is expecting a girl and she's just as antsy as you are!
I think she's at 27 or 28 weeks now :3
I think she's already gone on a frenzy shopping in preparation xD;
It's so hard not to shop for a little one!
Another friend of mine who frequents the shop just got a loaddd of presents for her coworker who's expecting a baby!
I think by the end she ended up with a memory time capsule for all of the baby's measurements, sonograms, etc., a tractor diaper cake, at least 10 outfits, and I don't even know what else LOL
baby clothes are just too cute to pass up, ya know?
When you go in that section you just want to put everything in your cart!!!
I could never go baby shopping alone - I would honestly need someone to restrain me and tell me no and put me on a budget xD;
Otherwise I'd probably drain the bank!!

Yeah, that's just really rude. This is your first baby, the first time you've considered the DVD, it's normal to have questions about the process. My mom had a nurse who was a rude jerk like the one you had during my delivery - she kicked the nurse out of the room and told her she hadn't dare set foot back in the room. She kept saying things like "We don't care about your safety and comfort, we just care about delivering that baby. We need to save that baby, we don't care about you."
(I had the umbilical cord wrapped tightly around my neck as I descended and my heart would stop when my mom was in certain positions)

Some people just honestly shouldn't be delivery nurses or nurses in situations like yours - giving sonograms for babies - it honestly just kills the moment and almost ruins the whole experience.
I mean, it's only $20 - but why waste it and just throw the money away to a hospital that surely doesn't need $20 that desperately!
Anyone in their right mind would question that and be annoyed, especially when being presented the information like that.
I probably would have rescheduled my ultrasound and gotten someone new after that xD;
Or asked that someone else do it that day if possible :3

I know exactly what you mean - and that's a sensible thing to do!
Why get the DVD when you can't see the baby clearly for some odd reason, and waste the money and the time. Check first, then get it. I'm sure you're not the only person to think that way :3
But I completely agree - I wouldn't have done it with that nurse anyways lol
Who knows if she would have done it properly!
Is there any way you can get another one for next time?

hummy 07-20-2012 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Roachi (Post 1770948319)
Oh i took the sash down hun coz i didn't get an offer i liked. I prob should have specifed offers over 180k only. lol



<3



Yeah that's true lol.

Haha no its just that it's friday, and i left early today for a fundraiser for my partners niece who is dying of cancer. Theres a big event her family has organized tonight. Had to get home and ice some cupcakes and stuff. :)



okiedokie, Roachi♥.
prayers and good wishes for a successful fundraiser for your patners neice.
[angel]

Roachi 07-20-2012 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Nivvy (Post 1770948337)
Ohhh righty, that's not as bad as I was expecting X_x;; Good that she's getting those tests and stuff. Wow! How weird xD!!! She's gonna be bootyliscious! Bet her husband is happy about that mwahahaha!

Yeah it's confusing X_x;; There's like the actual age of the fetus, and then the conception age which is longer. Like with my dates, and with the fertility clinic monitoring stuff, I'm 20 weeks today, which is counted from the first day of my last period lol. So weird! I'm due December 7th =) I have a feeling he's going to come in Nov though.

Sooo cute! I hope he has a button nose X___x;; Looks like he's got big chubby cheeks too lol. We'll see his face in more detail at the next scan, when they do it so it's a 3D shot of him. I'm just soooo relieved he's healthy! I musta typed that out wrong, he measures a little bit bigger than his age lols. UHH OHHH!!!!!

Clucky alright! I think it freaked Joe out bahahaha

Yeah, it's prob nothing. Hmm i dunno if it's good junk in the trunk if ya know what i mean lol. She's gotta stop eating stuff like KFC and MC ds though lol. Otherwise she's gonna have heaps of trouble losing it once baby is born.

Ahh i see that's interesting lol. True true, that's not too long away eh? :) Have you started buying stuff??

Ohh true that's cool!! Sarah didn't get anything like that. You must be paying good money for all of this? Lol, ahh i see. Maybe he's older then they think lol.

It did? Why? Lol

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Originally Posted by Emma Corrin (Post 1770948578)
@Roachi: Aww - I hope the fundraiser is a huge success!!
Is there no way of it getting into remission? :(



She has a rare cancer called rhabdomyosarcoma. It's too far spread apparently it started in her foot and has traveled up to her stomach. She has been getting radiation and chemo and she's responded well. I mean i hope she has longer then a year and she gets better, but with it so far spread they just don't think she'll live to see her daughter grow up.


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Originally Posted by hummy (Post 1770949326)


okiedokie, Roachi♥.
prayers and good wishes for a successful fundraiser for your patners neice.
[angel]


Thanks hun <3
It was pretty fun. They had a hypnotist there, it was interesting lol.

`Kitami 07-20-2012 11:43 PM

-glomps the Roro-
[ninja]

hummy 07-21-2012 01:21 AM



did you get hypmotized, Roachi♥?

Liztress 07-24-2012 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Roachi (Post 1770946782)

Aww yay, at least she's got something going for her after all of that. And in good time when she's in a stable relationship and on her feet may have a child she can keep in the future :). But for now she should be proud and happy she could give someone deserving their own bundle of joy. I always commend woman who can do that. For their strength. But also for the baby's well being.


Yep, I feel the same way.

Roachi 07-24-2012 06:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by `Kitami (Post 1770949604)
-glomps the Roro-
[ninja]

*glomps kita back* :)
Hows it goin hun??

Quote:

Originally Posted by hummy (Post 1770949687)


did you get hypmotized, Roachi♥?

Nah not me. I don't think i can be lol.

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Originally Posted by Liztress (Post 1770954249)
Yep, I feel the same way.

<3

`Kitami 07-24-2012 11:31 PM

Its going okay.
I don't know if you've seen it, but when I replied to you in my exchange thread, I told you about the car accident. @[email protected]

hummy 07-25-2012 02:11 AM




i would love to be hypnotized, Roachi♥.

Nivvy 07-25-2012 05:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Emma Corrin (Post 1770948578)
@Roachi: Aww - I hope the fundraiser is a huge success!!
Is there no way of it getting into remission? :(

@Nivvy: <3<3

Lol!! I can imagine!!
My friend is expecting a girl and she's just as antsy as you are!
I think she's at 27 or 28 weeks now :3
I think she's already gone on a frenzy shopping in preparation xD;
It's so hard not to shop for a little one!
Another friend of mine who frequents the shop just got a loaddd of presents for her coworker who's expecting a baby!
I think by the end she ended up with a memory time capsule for all of the baby's measurements, sonograms, etc., a tractor diaper cake, at least 10 outfits, and I don't even know what else LOL
baby clothes are just too cute to pass up, ya know?
When you go in that section you just want to put everything in your cart!!!
I could never go baby shopping alone - I would honestly need someone to restrain me and tell me no and put me on a budget xD;
Otherwise I'd probably drain the bank!!

Yeah, that's just really rude. This is your first baby, the first time you've considered the DVD, it's normal to have questions about the process. My mom had a nurse who was a rude jerk like the one you had during my delivery - she kicked the nurse out of the room and told her she hadn't dare set foot back in the room. She kept saying things like "We don't care about your safety and comfort, we just care about delivering that baby. We need to save that baby, we don't care about you."
(I had the umbilical cord wrapped tightly around my neck as I descended and my heart would stop when my mom was in certain positions)

Some people just honestly shouldn't be delivery nurses or nurses in situations like yours - giving sonograms for babies - it honestly just kills the moment and almost ruins the whole experience.
I mean, it's only $20 - but why waste it and just throw the money away to a hospital that surely doesn't need $20 that desperately!
Anyone in their right mind would question that and be annoyed, especially when being presented the information like that.
I probably would have rescheduled my ultrasound and gotten someone new after that xD;
Or asked that someone else do it that day if possible :3

I know exactly what you mean - and that's a sensible thing to do!
Why get the DVD when you can't see the baby clearly for some odd reason, and waste the money and the time. Check first, then get it. I'm sure you're not the only person to think that way :3
But I completely agree - I wouldn't have done it with that nurse anyways lol
Who knows if she would have done it properly!
Is there any way you can get another one for next time?

Aww your friend is a smart cookie xD! My husband is being really relaxed about preparing for the baby, where as I'm starting to freak out. I would have preferred to have everything ready by now, but he wants to take it insanely slow. I have a feeling we're going to have our little boy with us, and still be lacking in items for him </3 It's quite annoying. Husband decided last week he wanted an e-book reader, and it arrived like 3 days later. It's been over three months, and he hasn't lifted a finger in getting anything for the baby. Yikes!

Roachi gave me this really cool book, where I put in all the special moments, and milestones =) Really looking forward to filling that out. I love going through all the stuff my mother kept from when I was little. Aww, such a good co-worker to be buying up stuff for other people's babies <3 I've always wanted to buy up for a friend having a baby, but all of them live so far away xD! and anytime I ask them what they need, they say they don't want anything lols!

Ughh I looove walking through the baby isles <333 I've done it for years and years, just going nuts over how cute everything is. All the cool little toys and stuff. Stuff it, I think I'm gonna start buying up for this baby, without husband's help. Just so keen to get in and see what's available!

Omg! Good on your mum kicking that nurse out, that's just insane!!!! That's so horrifying, and especially since it's a really important time in a mother's life. Geeze, I hope that nurse ended up getting in trouble somewhere along the line, for treating her patients like crap. She shouldn't be working with people, with an attitude like that.

What annoyed me with this lady, was that she's a receptionist. Usually, they're really helpful and lovely. I was just so surprised that a receptionist at that sort of place, would be so unhelpful and cold about it all. I mean you're right… it's my first time going through all of this, and I'm really high on emotions, and fear and everything. Some nice treatment, at such a high stress time goes a long way X__x;; I so should have rescheduled, but I was at the point where I was so terrified our baby hadn't made it - because I couldn't feel him kicking. I guess the need to have an answer was stronger, than wanting to avoid that silly woman.

Since all is well with the baby, I'm definitely gonna go ahead and get the DVD =) I don't think I'll be filled with the scary feelings I had, at the last scan. It's the 3D one, so we get to see the detail of his face =) It's kinda weird, but just looking at his profile 2D picture, I think he looks more like his dad lol.


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Originally Posted by Roachi (Post 1770949515)
Yeah, it's prob nothing. Hmm i dunno if it's good junk in the trunk if ya know what i mean lol. She's gotta stop eating stuff like KFC and MC ds though lol. Otherwise she's gonna have heaps of trouble losing it once baby is born.

Ahh i see that's interesting lol. True true, that's not too long away eh? :) Have you started buying stuff??

Ohh true that's cool!! Sarah didn't get anything like that. You must be paying good money for all of this? Lol, ahh i see. Maybe he's older then they think lol.

It did? Why? Lol

Ohhhh dear lol! Has she got that exploding hip kind of thing, where a chick will expand in the lower half? Yup, so true. The less you gain, the less you have to drop X_x;; I don't know if it's true, but I heard breast feeding helps you drop a lot of weight, because of what it does to your hormones.

Not yet </3 I wanted to get started to buying stuff ages ago, but Joe was all anti - in case it jinxed the baby's development or whatever lols. Now I'm so regretting not just going ahead and doing it without him. He has researched the essential items, for decent prices though. We'll probably hire a car seat, capsule, and bassinet thingy though. They're quite reasonable in price. We're not gonna have heaps of kids, so it's not like we need to keep them - and take up space we don't have.

Oh weird? I haven't paid a cent for the sonograms. I've been going to the scanning place in Sylvia Park. We had the option to do private scans, but the midwife told us there's no point really. It's just a status thing, that some mothers like to throw around (which sounds crazy to me lol) Nah his age is correct, because of the fertility monitoring with the fertility clinic, he's just a big baby :S Yikes, maybe he's got Joe's big head? xD;;

I think Joe is freaked at me being clucky, coz I've hated almost every other kid I've come across LMAO!

Roachi 07-25-2012 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by `Kitami (Post 1770955553)
Its going okay.
I don't know if you've seen it, but when I replied to you in my exchange thread, I told you about the car accident. @[email protected]

Oh yeah i saw that, sorry i only had time to read it at the time. I was at work. I'll hunt your thread down lol.

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Originally Posted by hummy (Post 1770955810)



i would love to be hypnotized, Roachi♥.

Really? It's pretty funny watching people who get hypnotized.

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Originally Posted by Nivvy (Post 1770956218)
Ohhhh dear lol! Has she got that exploding hip kind of thing, where a chick will expand in the lower half? Yup, so true. The less you gain, the less you have to drop X_x;; I don't know if it's true, but I heard breast feeding helps you drop a lot of weight, because of what it does to your hormones.

Not yet </3 I wanted to get started to buying stuff ages ago, but Joe was all anti - in case it jinxed the baby's development or whatever lols. Now I'm so regretting not just going ahead and doing it without him. He has researched the essential items, for decent prices though. We'll probably hire a car seat, capsule, and bassinet thingy though. They're quite reasonable in price. We're not gonna have heaps of kids, so it's not like we need to keep them - and take up space we don't have.

Oh weird? I haven't paid a cent for the sonograms. I've been going to the scanning place in Sylvia Park. We had the option to do private scans, but the midwife told us there's no point really. It's just a status thing, that some mothers like to throw around (which sounds crazy to me lol) Nah his age is correct, because of the fertility monitoring with the fertility clinic, he's just a big baby :S Yikes, maybe he's got Joe's big head? xD;;

I think Joe is freaked at me being clucky, coz I've hated almost every other kid I've come across LMAO!

Pretty much. I guess she was wearing the wrong pants too, made it look bigger too lol. But i wouldn't dear say that, she'd cry lol.
Yeah it's true! My friend at work is still breastfeeding her 1 year old. And she said she lost heaps of weight because of breastfeeding. But i dunno, if i was gonna return to work i would take baby off a month before i had to go back to work. As it is, she has to go and express during lunch time otherwise it leaks out etc lol. But if i was gonna stay home - i'd just breastfeed for as long as i could. But not too long. I think breastfeeding at 1 is a bit much. Because i find that the mothers that do that, their kids are really clingy and wingy. And it's way harder to get them off it. As my friend at work is finding lol. But then again it's meant to be very good for baby, and i guess each to their own.

I guess i can understand. A lot of people do that before the 3 month mark and they miscarry etc. I think at 5-6 months is a good time to go crazy. :). Oh yep that's a good idea. I told sarah to do that, but they ended up buying one of trademe for the same costs, and its one of those adjustable ones that can be used when they get a bit bigger. Dylan did all that research stuff too, cute doting fathers lol. I can't wait to have someone like that :).

-- OH i forgot to tell you, that Rob and i broke up. I wanted to talk to you the other night, but remembered you had changed emails & that you hardly use your own cell. Pretty sure joe didn't wanna hear my suky lala lol. I miss our rants lol.

OH well i don't know - i thought you had to pay for fancy 3D stuff lol. But sarah told me it was free last weekend when i saw her. She goes to the same place in sylvia park.
Ohh yep, oh crap >__<, have you thought about the actual birth/labour? Sarah doesn't wanna hear anything, anyone has to say about that haha. She said she'll deal with it at the time LMFAO. Fair enough i say.
Haha, probably. You can blame and curse joe while you push it out lol.

Haha it's new to him?? Don't worry i kinda feel like that towards some kids too. You just know instantly if they're little shits haha.

`Kitami 07-25-2012 07:40 PM

You do that. It rarely gets attention anymore. Although that girl who's trading me for her captain's hooch is being VERY patient with me, which is super nice. [sweat]

Roachi 07-25-2012 07:46 PM

Will do when i get a bit of time. Prob fri or sat. I barely only have time to check my thread, then im out again lol. Like now, off to work :). Ohh you gathering gold for it??

hummy 07-25-2012 07:47 PM




*pounces on Roachie before she poofs again*
[hug]
have a happy hump day!


TelstelNSG1 07-26-2012 07:16 AM

Hello all again, sorry darting off, was busy getting familiar with Mene again, lol.

hummy 07-26-2012 04:14 PM


your avi is looking awesome, sweetie♥.
hope you are enjoying menewsha.
[woof]

`Kitami 07-26-2012 11:06 PM

Roro:: Fri or Saturday, its a date. [;)]
Really though what's keeping you so busy hon? [:(]

Not exactly gathering gold. I have the gold part. See before I went on Vaca, I was supposed to finalize a trade for 47k pure and then a Full Month CI set. But I got side tracked and didn't do it. [sweat] So I explained everything to her, including the part where I didn't have internet the whole two weeks I was in Missouri, and she's still going to let me trade for her Hooch, only now she's waiting until I can get an AUG set because I don't have money for the July set and I don't get paid until 1st of August.
She's being rather kind. [:)]

hummy 07-27-2012 02:07 AM


paypal is buggin' out now.
jelly said she will keep the contribution items up as long as the problem lasts.
insomniac is away from home and that is where the information is to fix the paypal problem.

TelstelNSG1 07-27-2012 07:15 PM

Thanks Hummy, i haven't changed my avi yet though, lol.
I've still yet to get to the wardrobe section, busy posting and catching up on things, plus searching for new threads to chat in...

hummy 07-27-2012 07:18 PM


you can always chat with us, tellie♥!

Roachi 07-28-2012 07:35 AM

Omg im so tired today, i was fallin asleep at nivvys house LOL.
Hows everyone??

hummy 07-28-2012 07:41 AM


aw, go get a good nights sleep, Roachi♥sweetie.
you look adorable!

hummy 07-30-2012 04:17 AM


i miss you, Roachi♥.
i hope you know i love you.
[lurve]
that's all, i just wanted to make sure you knew.

hummy 07-30-2012 06:21 PM


*dropping off more [lurve] for Roachi♥*

Roachi 07-31-2012 08:23 AM

Hi hummy, thank you for stopping by and giving me love :). How you doin hun??


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