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loveiswhatilack 08-09-2008 03:44 PM

Don't you hate it when...
 
You make plans with someone and then when you call to make sure
those plans are still going on, they either:

a. Don't answer the phone when you call
b. Complain if you get there late
c. Don't meet up with you at a certain place

Discuss:
things that irk you
things you hate
situations you hate ect.,

Dayla 08-09-2008 03:51 PM

Depending on how late I was, I could understand them getting mad that I was late, but not if it was only five minutes or something. Same if they were late. I wouldn't mind too much unless it was really, really late.

Probably the thing that irks me most is rude behavior, especially if it's over something small. I get terribly embarrassed if the people I'm with act rudely or make a scene.

A i 08-09-2008 03:52 PM

i rather hate that when we've planned something up...
and when its almost time... i'm the one who usually have to call them to confirm it..
then they suddenly said they couldn't come..
meaning, if i didn't call, they would most possibly cancel it last minute..
i hate it when that happened >.<

loveiswhatilack 08-09-2008 03:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dayla (Post 3806028)
Depending on how late I was, I could understand them getting mad that I was late, but not if it was only five minutes or something. Same if they were late. I wouldn't mind too much unless it was really, really late.

Probably the thing that irks me most is rude behavior, especially if it's over something small. I get terribly embarrassed if the people I'm with act rudely or make a scene.

Oh my, that reminds me of my sister, it doesn't happen all of the time,
but whenever we go out in public she says the most embarrassing things out loud

yar im pocky 08-09-2008 03:55 PM

Yes, i do. DX

flowerpuff 08-09-2008 04:18 PM

I hate it when stuff like that happens, you don't want to get angry at them but still its very annoying. It doesn't happen a lot luckily for me.

diehly 08-09-2008 04:25 PM

I get blowen off way more then I should and it makes me pissed. Like right now someone just kinda dropped me off at my moms house and left me here so now what am I going to do?

Marina Toriama 08-09-2008 04:33 PM

I hate when people invite me to tag along with them somewhere and then ditch me until its time to leave. >.<;

loveiswhatilack 08-09-2008 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marina Toriama (Post 3806746)
I hate when people invite me to tag along with them somewhere and then ditch me until its time to leave. >.<;

>< Oh I hate that!

Cardania 08-09-2008 05:10 PM

I have some friends that will call me to makes plans on the weekend, then they take forever to call me back when I'm trying to figure out a time to meet them. They are terrible at returning messages, it drives me crazy!

One time, I called one of these friends to say hi and catch up on things (I hadn't talked to her in a month) and she kept breaking up on the phone so she said she'd call me back later that night. I didn't hear from her again until 2 weeks later. Argh!

Mivaelianyn 08-09-2008 05:11 PM

It is a huge pet peeve of mine if I have plans with someone and they are extremely late without calling and if I call them and they don't answer their phone.. OR if they don't show up at all at the meeting place and they call to say they can't go anymore after you've already wasted your time. I've had a lot of friends that do that to me. I HATE THAT!!! >:(

Ebil 08-09-2008 05:14 PM

I work on the "Three strikes and you're out" system, so they can get away with doing that a little without me getting too annoyed.. .but if someone's going to be a constant let down, I'll cut them off dead. I don't treat people like that, so I don't expect others to do that to me.
The lateness bothers me more than anything.
If I say I'll meet you at 10am, I will be there at 9:45, so I expect others to be early or on time too.
I'd rather someone didn't show up at all than arrived late (unless they have a very good reason).

Ginger 08-09-2008 06:15 PM

Obnoxious people, who just keep trying to call attention to themselves.

loveiswhatilack 08-09-2008 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ebil (Post 3807437)
I work on the "Three strikes and you're out" system, so they can get away with doing that a little without me getting too annoyed.. .but if someone's going to be a constant let down, I'll cut them off dead. I don't treat people like that, so I don't expect others to do that to me.
The lateness bothers me more than anything.
If I say I'll meet you at 10am, I will be there at 9:45, so I expect others to be early or on time too.
I'd rather someone didn't show up at all than arrived late (unless they have a very good reason).

Yes. I know it can be very understandable if it's for a good reason.
It's true, if they're gonna be late, they might as well not show up at all.

applepie54 08-09-2008 06:26 PM

i hate it when that happens. it happens a lot to a friend of mine.

Sforzando 08-09-2008 07:04 PM

LOL. Me and my best friend have been planning to go shopping for like 6 months, but it still hasn't happened. But I don't hold her against it. It's not her fault.

Psychondriac 08-09-2008 07:07 PM

I really REALLY dislike it when people bite their nails, or constantly scratch themselves. XD I end up always saying something like "Stop moving so much, dangit!" and I grab their hand. XD My friends are so challenged. XDDDDD <3

Sagitar 08-09-2008 07:12 PM

oh yeah, I hate it when people change their plans.. >.> sure, if it's a GOOD reason I can understand it, but if it's like " I made other plans with my other friend " or " I forgot" or something like that then it really really makes me angry :roll:

like my friends were supposed to take me to dinner this year for my birthday, but they freakin' forgot. and I didn't feel like calling them, because it was their fault for forgetting. they even came to the city, but just forgot about me.. I think it was not accidental :/

Ryko 08-09-2008 07:48 PM

I hate feeling like they're blowing me off. I understand that things come up that might be a reasonable excuse, but if there isn't a good reason, it makes me mad.

ryuu 08-09-2008 08:01 PM

Yeah, I hate that too.

Aelin 08-09-2008 08:35 PM

Oooo.
I can't stand lateness.
If I bother to show up 10-15 minutes early and they're a half
hour late, I'm pretty peeved.
B/c 40 minutes were waisted.
And if I plan to meet them again, I'll know to take
my time.

raindroproses 08-09-2008 08:48 PM

I can't stand it when I'm driving and people honk at me for no reason, like they think I don't know what I'm doing. The other day I was driving and I was trying to cross a large two way street with a turn lane in the middle. I was at the intersection (no light, just a stop sign) and I wanted to turn left. So I looked to my left and there was no one coming... looked to my right, and there were cars. So I decided it would be a good idea to just pull into the middle lane so I didn't miss out on the one side being cleared... started to pull into the middle lane (rather slowly mind you, I didn't whip out into the lane) and this idiot on the other side of the road lays on their horn like I'm not seeing them or something. It made me SO angry! I hate it when people think I'm some kind of an idiot. I wasn't even CLOSE to them!

*is done fuming*

Sorry... but you did ask what makes us mad :P

Cemetery 08-09-2008 08:53 PM

Oh god do i hate that!

I also hate it when people are ten minutes late for something and don't call to tell you this.

Shrimp_Man 08-09-2008 08:53 PM

I hate it when I have plans to do something with my best friend and she either forgets, can't make it, or doesn't call me back. But what I really hate is planning things with my best friend and she kind of ditches me to hang out with her boyfriend at the same time. It just makes me feel lonely. *pouts*

tywulf 08-09-2008 09:01 PM

Bah, my best friend used to do that a lot when we were younger. He'd call me in the dead of the night, making tons of plans involving me in the early morning, and I would usually cave in. Said morning comes, it's already almost noon, but he's still in bed. So much for our big plans. Later on the same day, he'd want to meet up at a certain time, then change the location, then the time, then finally couldn't make it it all of a sudden because he remembered he had something else to do. That attitude followed him through most of our teenage years, and I took it all, because well, apart from that quirk, he was that good of a friend. He never called off or cancelled anything important for me or us in general, and he'd always be there when trouble arose. He's a father now, and he's a changed man. He just had a huge inferiority complex going on, but that didn't make him any less a good man.


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