my best friend..
 

my friend is a girl, when I came here in Japan I was totally bored because I don't have any friends and then one day.. my mom and dad enrolled me in junior high school here in Japan and the teacher said that they have also a new student that with the same country with me (Philippines) then after a few months of being friends I told to myself that she is my best friend and we feel the same.. but when we get a 1 yr best friend, a new philippine student girl has just enrolled in our school.. my bestfriend said "don't go to close to her maybe she got a bad influence" lol. then I said, "ok" after a few months, my best friend and the new student have been close.. and my bestfriend changed a lot. :'( and I don't know how to pull back all the happy memories we have done.. x.x but I said again to myself.. if she's happy with her new friends then I'm happy for her :] but still I wish she will remember not for being her best friend.. it's okay to be her friend. ._.

Times like that suck. A similar thing actually happened to me in second grade. Me and this one girl were super tight, but then there was a new girl. I didn't think anything was wrong with her, and my friend never said anything. But you know how kids are. They aren't instinctively welcoming into their cliques. We continued as we were, but then my friend for some reason or another said she was going off somewhere for a bit. I always said okay because I thought she would come back. She never did. She even wrote me an apology at the end of the year saying she would play with me next year. Of course it was a lie, but I appreciated the sentiment.

It's lonely, but you can find new friends--better ones who won't leave you. Yes, it will take time to find them, but it's worth it.

Where did she go? D: yea.. I wish I can find that real friend. :]

She went to go play with the other girl. >_> Blah. I think she started telling me where she was going after awhile, and I still believed she would come back, so I said okay. Talk about blindly trusting. Talk about stupid. ^^;

Ah well, things like that happen.

In a situation like this I think the best thing you can do is still be friends with her, if you can. It sounds like you might be a little hurt by her getting a new friend, but you don't sound mad or jealous about it. Maybe all three of you can be best friends?
The thing is: sometimes people change and people are always making new friends. Just try to keep the friendship that you two had/have going.

@haven: I would be nice if my best friend would still back the same.. but I don't want to be a friend of that new girl.. because she is different.. hmm.. she likes going out with some guys, drinking alcohol and some other stuffs.. and I don't know if my best friend turns to that kind of personality.

yea, true friend is hard to find but I thought as first that she's the one :'c

Sometimes you think the whole "she's the one" thing so hard that you try to make it true when it wasn't meant to be and end up disappointed. When I first went up to college I did that. I tried to latch onto the first girl I met, but we just weren't the same. Luckily, it was short lived and there weren't any hard feelings. Later on though, I found some great friends. It just takes some time and luck.

Sometimes, as Kah Hilzin-Ec pointed out, it's a convenience matter too. It just depends on if their people that are able to keep in touch. I for one am horrible at keeping in touch, so most of my long distance friendships fall away. It's sad but a fact of life.

the one I was talking about is my friend here in Japan, not in Philippines because I have a lot of best friends in Philippines that never forget me even though we don't have any conversations. :]] well, my best friend here in Japan is different to all of my best friends in Philippines when she does not yet meet that new girl. D: but my best friend and I still have a communication by texting sometimes..

Actually, she's my only best friend that I cried on. D: lol.

I would just try to make new friends if you're not comfortable with that type of person. Try talking to new people. I know at that age it's kind of hard because kids are often in their own little groups already, but it doesn't hurt to try.

i know i have only one

just talk to her about it and see i fthe tree of you can hang out

;_;

Hopefully there are better, more dedicated friends out there -- but there is an alternative thing to do.. stop by and become friends with the 3rd girl? O:

my friend is a boy, well he's not playing menewsha.he's playing rpg's on other sites lol:)