he asked me once why would not i get a bf ><
i dissed that out by saying am not pretty
and he replied that I should not worry about it and i should find the one who would accept me the way i am
i really wished i typed back "i wish that guy is you" but i didnt type that

also also he once said "lisa i bet you dont really hate me. every time i see you, you always say you hate me. i dont believe it"

Awww, you flirtin' with him. When people tease/harass/bully each other, it's usually because they're crushing on them. I used to do that that a little bit when I was younger. :XD And I had people do that to me, heh.

From what you just said, I would say he finds you attractive! You should definitely talk to him! It's worth a shot! Take a risk and just go for it.

really? D: not because am friendly? D:


but but if i go out with him, what kind of things i do with him? D:

Just ask him on a date! Go to dinner, have lunch together, movie or something. Whatever you enjoy doing. It all might turn out better than you think.

Speaking of guys, I added a guy on FB that I haven't talked to in almost a year. We've been messaging each other back and forth for the past few hours. It's made me really happy, I'm smiling. I used to live near him! We talked on the phone all the time and we would write each other letters. We would even send each other random stuff (like stuffed animals, candy, books, et cetera). He's now telling me that he has a crush on me and has for a long time. He has even kept all the letters I sent him. He's so sweet, I cannot stop smiling. :)

i am too afraid seriously :gonk:

omg omg jenni :O i am so happy for you! you should go for it :D

Perhaps just ask him as friends. But suggest that it just be you and him only. That might help start things off.

Aww, he wrote me a message that says:
That is the sort of comment that just makes you want to bite your bottom lip, smile and blush. I would go for it, but he lives about four hours away from me right now. I don't like long distance dating stuff. We do plan on meeting in the Fall or Winter to hang out. Maybe things will happen then. :)

friends? what kind of friends since we are a good friend... even tho we met through our mutual friend, we rarely talk to her since she has changed heaps...

OMG OMG even I, who read it, bit my bottom lips and could not stop smiling XD yea but you guys can skype all the time :D

Just say, "Hey buddy! Let's go have lunch, just the two of us!" If you're worried that he'll ask if it's a date, just tell him no. Just say you want to hang out as friends, just the two of you. Maybe get to know each other more. :)

I know! I still can't stop biting my lip and smiling whenever I read that. I've read it about ten times now. He said some other stuff that made me smile too. He's such a sweetheart. I am so twitterpated right now! :XD

I wish I could Skype. I do not have webcam right now though. I used to, but not anymore. It's be cool to chat that way. For now, it will just be constant IMing or talking on the phone.

*butts in*
Thats soo sweet jen :)
I wish someone would think of me that way lol :P

It's all really sudden for me. I haven't spoken to him in a very long time. I have felt the same way for him, and now those feelings are coming back. The more he says these things, the more I'm falling for him. Here is another excerpt from a message he sent me:

I haven't had someone feel for me this way...ever. It really makes me feel good.

ello roachi :D

jen jen: no i wish i could but i rarely see him at uni D: he is in his last semester so he is way so busy with his study D: and am afraid to ask him for lunch out D:

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dont worry :D soon you will see him
words can be enough as well

Well if he ever has free time, you should ask him. You really might hit things off with him, Lisa. And you'll end up feeling pretty good about taking the risk. And who knows, you might end up a couple! :)

am still afraid :squee:
gah jenni am too nervous just thinking about it ><

@Jen - Daaw! He sounds like such a nice guy ... i hope things go well for you, if you decide to pursue that path ... You deserve it! <33

Haii Leasfy :) <33

hi roachi :D i still admire your outfit :drool:


and yea i agree with you! i want jenni be happy in having relationship

You'll figure things out, Lisa. You always do. :) If you're still to shy to ask him out, just start talking to him more as friends. Even if you don't go out for lunch or anything. See if you can't hold a conversation longer on IM, or in person.

Thanks, Roachi! He's an amazing guy. And for being young, he's already got his own house, vehicles, a stable job. It would be nice to be in a relationship with a guy like that. The only reason I may not want to persue him is that while he is pretty much perfect for me, we also have a few differences that can be a bit difficult to work out. He is a very hardcore Republican! My political views are pretty crummy. And a lot of what he has to say about our government just sort of irks me sometimes. Politics suck! They have a way of ruining a relationship. I don't mind that he's Republican, but it just means we butt heads about a lot of different issues.

well if he is republican, even tho i dont know what it is, you can always avoid talkin about politic :XD
whenever i talk with my male friends i always end up bullying them... well sort of bullying them in friendly way :XD i just dont dare to do that to my crush tho :XD

i would? D: but how? he rarely goes to msn and whenever i go msn i rarely catch him online

He's a hardcore Republican, it's almost impossible to avoid the subjects of politics. :lol: Here in the US, Democracy is generally favored more than Republic, since most Republicans are old school and like to abide by old laws. It's complicated. I hate politics! This guy is all about politics. I know he wouldn't really discuss that stuff around me if I asked him to, but that doesn't stop him from having an opinion (and it shouldn't). So we'd still but heads on some issues.

Come on, flirt with him! It might help him notice that you're interested in him and find him attractive. :) Phone him, e-mail him...

no no no i dont dare :gonk: like seriously never dare. all of his female friends are too pretty am too ashame

ah so that is republican :O

And you're not good enough? LIES AND SLANDER! I bet you've got just as great of a chance as anyone else. You're really beautiful, Lisa. You're smart and funny, you're a lot better than you think you are. If things are meant to work out, then they probably will. So if you're not going to advance on your feeling for him, at least be less shy. :)

Heh, it's more complicated than you think. Tis why I hate politics. I've dumbed myself down so I don't have to understand it all. It creates too much havoc. Especially when two people are on two totally different sides/parties. It gets messy.

@Jen - Ahh well every relationship has it's challenges eh? If everything else is perfect, why not try? :)

@Leasfy - Why thank you hun. Its all thanks to jen i got this squidy :)

trust me am not. you know asian women are meant to be slim and skinny and if i go back to my parents' country the size clothe that would fit me would be XL D:

dont worry he would understand it and if he loves you enough he wuld definitely avoid that topic ;)

Yeah, I'm still definitely going to go for it I think. He's too amazing to pass up. He is like...the perfect husband material. I'm not saying that we'll get married, lol! Although who knows, heh. But that is just how amazing he is. He's very respectful, kind, attractive and so many other things. And I'm very picky! It's one reason why I haven't even dated in well, never. So that should say something.

I see pictures of you on FB, you look rather slim already. :gonk: I'd love to be that skinny! And I wear XL...:ninja: Only because I like my clothes to be rather loose fitting. I am generally a medium (still a bit loose, but almost too clingy for me). You don't think that King finds you somewhat unattractive because of you're size, do you?

@Jen - LOL i have no idea. I don't get involved with politics at all. I could probably be brainwashed into believing whatever someone tells me xD.

lol married would be awesome tho :insane:
yea of course! guys tend to show their kindness whenever they are beside the girl they like :D

i am not slim D: am over weight D: and i wish that XL in asia size can be so loose on me T_T i think because of my size he would think of me as unattractive one D: spot on!
hmm i wanna sell my spare jelly squid but am not sure if the demand is high enough D: