I'm thinking the same!

@Jen - Why are you hiatusing again? I think i missed that.
And no probs, whenever your ready hun :) <3. Prob take awhile to get here anyways xD.

@Su - I got cousins that i use to be close too, and we're not anymore. Quite sad. Though one did come and see me recently. But thats only coz we meet up at her dads funeral, after not seeing each other for 5 + years.
Haha i was thinking the same thing, but it's cool to get creative and stuff ... :D

@Snow - LOL that is soo weird. Lucky though ^^

I have a friend that i'd be tempted to just suddenly mail him a letter, but then I wouldn't know what to talk about. We use to text everyday and he was in love with me and I was very close with him, but we got in a big tift one day and he hasn't spoken with me much since. He was doing it because he thought I didn't want to talk with him, but now I think he just doesn't care to talk anymore, really. I try to text him from time to time, but he's usually busy. He'll say he'll text later, and never does. :/ Makes me feel like crap, honestly.

@Su - Thats really weird? What was the tiff about? Something silly?

Night snow, sweet dreams <3

Well, since I won't be around on the computer, I'll have quite a lot to talk about myself. :lol:

I am moving. And while I'll have internet access, I just don't think I'll be spending my time online. I'll be too busy having fun with my friends that I haven't spent time with in years. And then I start school soon! Which is something I'm very excited about! It's kind of weird though, because I'll be going to the same college as my 25 year old cousin. We're not very close, but I know we'll be in a few classes together, which I think might be awkward. :lol:

@Jen - Ohh true, well that's cool. College takes up a lot of time so understandable :).
How old are you jen, if you don't mind me asking?? And what are you going to be studying?

I am 21 myself. :yes: I'm just going to start on my general studies for now. I'll only be attending a community college, namely the College of Southern Idaho. Because where I am going is still a pretty small town (well, about 10,000 people) and there are no major universities around here. I'm stoked though!

Ahh true, well that's cool. I wish you the best of luck <33

It was kind of a case of we both really liked each other, but we have different views. Also, he lives in Wyoming and I live in California. So, he was planning to come move to California for a year or so before he went off on his mission (he's a mormon). I was fine with that, to an extent. I wasn't happy with him going on a mission. I'm an atheist, so i'm really bitter about most religious things, but I couldn't talk him out of a mission. His siblings have all done it, and he wants to go too. I figured that whatever, if things went well with us while he was down in Cali, then I could probably just wait and see if things would work once he came back after 2 years, if neither of us were involved with someone else by then. Well, one day his phone broke and we couldn't text at all or anything. It drove us both nuts, because we were use to texting each day and stuff and missed each other. Well, evidently within that time he decided that it was a bad idea to come here and things wouldn't work anyway. We'd already talked about every possibility between us and what not, and he mentioned all the things that i'd said I might have troubles with and pointed it on me, saying that he could never make me happy and what not. It hit me really hard, because even though we weren't dating at all (I wont date long distance), it felt like we really were dating and its like we practically were, so it just felt like he suddenly broke up with me, or at least like he was suddenly breaking our friendship. He'd said he'd loved me and everything, so it just slammed down on me like when my ex broke up with me (really bad break up that left me pretty empty and depressed and it hurt me a hell of a lot). I was really hurt by it all and got upset at him over it and we stopped talking for awhile. He wouldn't really say anything to me for some time and I had no way to contact him because his phone was sill broke, and he wasn't getting online. All in all, it ended up in months between him getting online and saying hi or anything, and I finally caught him online and he said he'd text me once he got a new phone in 2 weeks from that. He never ended up texting me, and i'm too stubborn to just text him because it makes me feel pathetic and like i'm being clingy or something. So, all in all, was 6 months before I saw him online again, and our other friend pushed him to talk to me and say we were still friends, and evidently he had lost my number when he got his new phone and what not. I gave it to him again, but he never texts me anymore. Really, the whole situation has really hurt me because I feel completely betrayed by him. It seems that whenever I do text him and he'll say he'll text me back, he doesn't and then something horrible in my life happens and i'm in shambles and he isn't there to help anyway. Like the day he was supposed to text me back, my baby bird that I had raised died when I came home to visit it. So, as much as I honestly really really miss him and always want to text him, I wont because I feel like he doesn't want much to do with me anymore and doesn't care to talk, so I feel pathetic just texting him. *sighs* And that ended up being reeeeally long and probably very whiny. :x Props to anyone that read all of that. Haha. And sorry you had to deal with that little rant.

@remaja: have you gotten any offers on the squid o 3o

OMG i miss out the whole conversation thing :gonk:
I blame the class I had :cry:

aww suo you will be able to find the one for you :hug:
and and I wanna do penpal too :illgetu:

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yes. a light spell but i have one already and dont wanna double. D:
yayyy for you gonna have school again! xD am so excited :insane:

A mission is a pretty big deal to elders in the LDS church. I used to be Mormon myself, glad that I am no longer with the church. Though I am not Atheist, I classify myself as a Deist.

Anyway, it's worth contacting him I think, Suona. You both don't really talk already, right? So poking him might be effective in rekindling your friendship.

Lisa - I'll be your penpal! I could send you yummies (candies) here from the US. And maybe smuggle some other awesome stuff. 8)

smuggle :rofl:
i want that drug! :insane: lol just kidding
yes yes I want as well :eager:
do you want my address now jenn jenn? :D I can pm you the address. :D

Yeah. I'll write it down and then write to you when I move. I don't know my mailing address yet, otherwise I would give you mine, too. But that will be on the letter when you receive it. :)

@Su - What is with you and mormons? Lol. Or is this the same guy? That is getting married to a mormon girl?? *can't recall*. All in all, you should prob at least get some closure. Eh? I mean i was in a similar situation recently with a guy i really really liked. And we both did some stupid things & he went all weird and stopped talking to me and stuff. So i wrote him an email, and even though i said some harsh things he actually wrote me back and told me what happened. We're friends, and i wish we could be more, but i understand that he needs to sort out his shit first. But before then, when he wasn't texting me back or replying at all. It was crazy! I couldn't sleep, i couldn't think ... but once i got that closure i felt so much better. Even just writing the letter/email and not getting a reply in the end can be good too. I did that with an ex of mine, he said he'd reply to me, and tell me what went wrong - but in the end i just said forget it lol. I said what i wanted and that was it, i didn't feel so bad. :)

Oh, this guy she is talking about is planning on getting married? I can understand him wanting to marry a Mormon girl. Considering that getting married in one of the LDS temples is another thing members look forward to. And you can only do that with someone who is also Mormon. You cannot even attend the wedding ceremony if you are not Mormon.

Hey Roachi, do you just want the address on the letter? You don't want your name included (or maybe I could put "Roachi") :XD

no no.... suo is the girl and the mormon is the dude D:

@Leasfy - Yes we know that, But she had a relationship with another mormon guy - i wondered if it was the same guy or not.

@Jen - OH i should prob tell u my name right xD

Never date a Mormon, especially if you're not Mormon. :XD

I remember you telling me your first name a long time ago, but didn't know your last name. Anyway, I'll be sure to write to you after I move. I'll have more to include in my letter if I wait until then. :XD

I wouldn't date anyone who was deeply religious anyways lol. I don't like people telling me who and what God is and how i should live. So i just avoid those types of people.

Haha, sweet :D

I like discussing religion if it's the LDS church. Mostly just because I used to be Mormon and I am not now. :lol: But otherwise, I don't much like talking about religion. Unless it's a pretty friendly discussion and not a debate.

I just logged on FB and realized you added me. Awesome! :D

oh yea.... I have not a good impression of mormon anyway... i highly recommend suo to not pursue this relationship D:

lol So much confusion going on. @[email protected];;

Okay. You guys are thinking of my ex boyfriend. He is jehovah witness, actually. And he's married and I think his wife recently had their baby. He's the one that I was saying really screwed me up with our break up and what not.

And this guy that I was saying is an online friend that I made through Warcraft III. He's the mormon. He's actually a very very nice person. And he's really nice and so great. He'd be perfect for me in so many ways. He's very passionate about his religion, but not in a way that he ever tried to push it on me, and he has no problem that i'm atheist. He doesn't mind in the least. His reasoning is that he thought that he couldn't make he happy enough if we were together because of the religion thing, but he said he could never be happier than with me, basically. It was his way of trying to "let me have a better life," so to speak.

And I actually texted him not that long ago (since my little bird died on the 27th of last month), and he hasn't replied since. I texted him since then, saying hi, and got no reply. So, I dunno if I should just text him back and see whats up, or drop things. I wish I could just drop it all and stop trying to contact him and let him go, but its really very hard. In the time that we would talk all the time, he had basically become my best friend. My RL best friend was never around for me and she can be pretty selfish, so he became the one that I relied on and cared for me. He was always there and just texting him made me happier and picked up my mood. I've been pretty lost without him since we stopped talking, and its probably made me for closed off to people.

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lol And honestly he's not a psycho mormon like some of them. xP;; In fact, he usually complains about how crazy the other ones are and what not. He says he tries to always avoid most of the girls because they're usually really weird and hyper and super religious, or major sluts. xP;; And the guys are pretty weird, too. But he's a lot like me, actually.

awwww suo :hug: one day you will find the right one

yea i know he is not into the religion but i have heard few stories about how the church separate a couple because the other partner is not a mormon D: