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I'll deal with this myself. *LOCK
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Well...I'm not really sure about this one. My roommates had this situation before, and it got resolved when my friend fell in love with somebody else. She never bothered telling him because they had dated before and decided it wouldn't work.
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Thanks for the input. xD
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Well, when he flirted with you, did you flirt back?
'Cause if you didn't, he may have saw it as that you had no interest and stopped because he didn't want to freak you out or something. That's how my best friend worked when he would attempt to flirt with me and I wouldn't do it back. He said he was afraid to push me away altogether. Maybe he's working the same way, I don't know. |
Maybe...you should just go, so you don't have to deal with any emotional pain...?
This happened to me before, except he didn't like me back. He ended up moving to San Clemente... |
Maya:
Well, I haven't exactly been the most... sweet.. person around, but I do believe that I flirt back now. *nods* It seems to me like now he's really starting to flirt more and more, and I guess I'm being more responsive. I mean, he's heard me say that I would never date him in the past, I mean, it was right in front of him.. and now I wish I hadn't. :/ I just never thought I'd want to. Lala: Go where? O.o |
Well, tell him that before you didn't know how you felt about him, and that after a while and thinking about it, you fell for him and you realized that you wanted more.
Maybe he'll understand. :/ |
I dunno. I am seriously considering just up and telling him how I feel, flat out. I just really don't want to screw up the friend ship, or embarrass myself.. Both of those are more than liable to happen. :/
But thank you for your advice. |
Well, actually, being more honest just might help the situation a little bit more. And if he's going to embarrass you over it, he's not very friendly.
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Well, I mean, he won't embarrass me about it, but I mean that it will just be an overall embarrassing situation.
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oof, that's a toughie.
I think you are getting paranoid that he doesn't like you, because you do. It seems that, that is always the way it goes, you're thinking of course he doesn't like me. But then that thought becomes more of a problem because you can't help but think of that, and though you wish so much that he does, because you do. Which you probably have figured. I don't know what to say about him moving. If it's certain that he is, then there really is nothing you can do. Perhaps tell him before he moves, stay in touch with him, you can still be friends, but try to get over him. |
Yes, he's for sure moving. ):
Even if I didn't like him, I would still be upset about this, because, I mean, ya know, he's my best friend. D: He's moving because of his dad's job. So yeah, I have no say in the matter. *grumbles* |
Umm, what is the point of this thread? Like, what kind of answers are you expecting to get? First you contradict yourself by saying "My problem is that I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me," then go on for a few sentences about how obvious it is that he likes you. Then you say that we aren't allowed to tell you that you should tell him how you feel.
So here is the only alternative left: don't ever tell him how you feel and just sit there feeling sorry for yourself and conflicted but it's okay because nothing is going to come of it anyway, and despite the fact that since he's moving you won't have to worry about making things awkard forever anyway, you should definitely not tell him how you feel because GOD FORBID he felt the same way like you have said a hundred times he does and you get to spend a few months happy together instead of sitting there with all these questions and conflicts eating you alive. Because it's always better to spend your life wondering what could have happened than to actually take initiative. </sarcasm> |
Febreze:
None of what you said made any sense. Aside from that, get out of my thread. |
What the hell? I just gave you 100% legitimate advice, but because I'm not showering you with complements and spoon-feeding you exactly what you want to hear, I have to get out?
You basically just made the equivalent to a thread saying, "Tell me what I look like, but don't tell me I'm unattractive." You asked for advice but told people not to give you the answer you don't want to hear, when the only reason that people would have told you that in the first place is because it's what you need to hear. Yes, I snapped at you, and I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings or something, but I didn't even insult you. I told you what I thought you should do, and if you don't like it then don't do it but you can't make an advice thread and then ignore all the advice that isn't "go make cookies you lovely thing you". If you have no intention of taking action on the matter, why are you making a thread in the first place? |
Excuse me, but what you gave me is not 'advice'. I don't care if the advice isn't peaches and cream, because that is not what I want. I want truthful answers. What you gave me, was a long set of sarcastic comments and you told me how stupid I was.. Since when is that advice in any form?
I never said I had no intentions of acting on the matter. I simply am looking for advice on the situation, possibly from people who have been through the same thing. I also said that I don't want the classic 'just tell him how you feel answer', because that is what people always put. I am CONSIDERING telling him how I feel, but I personally don't think it would be a smart move on my part. Also, I don't appreciate you snapping back into my thread after I told you to leave it.. I'll just deal with this myself. For any mods who read this, this thread can be locked. |
Locking thread at owners wish.
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