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Have you ever REALLY disliked someone? PLEASE share.
Have you ever really hated or disliked someone? And you had a valid reason for it? Had such a passion about not liking them because of things they do, did or are? Please share your stories.
I made this thread to make sure I'm not evil for feeling the way I do about this girl because I know i'm not the only one who has disliked someone this much in their life and I would like to hear your opinions. Heres mine: Last semester, I befriended a girl. I will not name names, so I will call her Lucy. She seemes really nice and struggling with some teachers we had at school that favored comic illustrations and did nothing but the like. She would come and vent to me and get some pointers on the comic work because It is my specialty, and being the nice person I am, I helped her to understand it. I stayed up all hours of the night teaching her photoshop, step by step, how I go about inking and scanning, and hearing her constant rantings about this teacher. Then she completely started ignoring me. I figured it was mid-semester jitters and I just brushed it off. The studio has 23 of us girls in there and we were all cramped. 8 of us were in 2 pods of four in the middle of the room with no wall to hang stuff on, like reference or whatever, where the rest of the class got a wall (some even epic corners and space) One night, I was in the studio, feeling really down and alone and I was the only one in there. I just had gotten finished with a fight with one of my friends and I really needed to talk to someone. She came in. I looked upset and she pulled up a chair "whats wrong?" I told her that the studio space was stressing me out, and the end of the semester was coming close, and I had just gotten in a fight with my friend online and I was upset about that too. She was looking around the room while I was pouring my heart out to her and she suddenly stood and backed away. "Oh I cant be in the same room with you, youre making me sick, I cant be near you, Im gonna puke' and kept saying that until she finally backed into the door of the room and vanished. I was crushed. I thought we were friends. She never apologized. She used me for what i knew and moved on, thats how I felt about it. Shes a work nazi, and does nothing but work, doesn have any close friends because she is so cold to people. The studio situation has gotten a little better, and after losing her own studio space, her own room(was a BIG secret last semester but we all knew about it) she had nowhere to work BUT the studio. 'Now that shes in there, the last time, me and a friend were each in there on a computer. I was listening to my ipod and she was talking quietly on the phone with her boyfriend when she left. There wasnt any hostility. About 10 minutes later a guard came in and told us to be quiet that a girl had come down from this studio and said there was alot of racket going on. Me and my friend were clueless and shocked because we weren't even talking to EACH OTHER. Well, Lucy came back and my friend told her if she had a problem with sound to talk to us first. Her response: I was getting a pencil. I pay alot of money for this studio and I have work to do. If you wanna talk about it, we can set it up with the counselor. Me and my friend were floored. She had just texted one of her friends that just left the studio asking if she had talked to a guard, but she responded that she saw Lucy talking to a guard. Lucy lied to us about it. Me and my friend collectively decided to leave after angrily typing instant messages to each other and left the room. Tonight though, at about 10:30 PM, NOT studio hours, my friend was giving me a much needed message, I had been hunched over my desk for about 9 hours inking and it was great. We were swapping fun stories and the like. Lucy turns around and says "This isnt a lounge its a studio" my friend was shocked and abruptly stopped and left and went home. I decided to as well. I am at a loss. I dont know what to do. I cant be in the same room with her because she gives off bad vibes and if I cough she tells a guard about it. I just, dont wanna be in that room anymore. If I need to ink stuff, I guess I'll havta go elsewhere. When I start coloring my work on the computer again, Ill hide out in a computer lab someplace. |
I hate alot of people. There's this one guy. He's a senior (in highschool) and kinda of nerdy. But, he's a stupid nerd (If that makes any sense...) Kinda like a gamer, with all the cards and stuff like that, only...I don't know. He's just...erg. And I don't even know why I don't like him. He's just...annoying. There are a whole bunch of people like that in my school. Their just being there makes me hate them.
However, alot of people I don't like are just stuck-up snobs, know-it-alls, or plain out jerks. |
@Tut'ankhamun
Why don't you like him? Has he never acknowledged you or asked you to join in on the card game? Do you hate him more than the stuck up snobs and jerks?? Was he ever mean or hostile towards you in any way, Tut? I am a complete nerd. I like anime and -secretly- loved playing YuGiOh and in my younger years, Pokemon trading card games. I was hated because I was different. Some hate because they dont understand someone, or they are just plain out jealous. *shrug* |
I just realized that at first, I misread your question, thinking you asked if we didn't have a reason. And so I typed out my whole response based off that, then went back, and checked, and realized it, so I came back and deleted my first line, forgetting that the rest of my post was also talking about not having a reason.
I've never really wanted to play the card game with him. And he hasn't been entirely hostile to me. I have nothing against people who play cards or anything like that. In fact, most of my friends do, and the guy I like plays Magic: The Gathering (I think that's what it's called.) It's not that he plays cards taht makes me dislike him. I don't really understand my reason. It's just...he's so annoying with everything he does. So, I'm sorry for misreading your first post. Now, on the topic of actually having a reason for it: There are these girls at my school that at anything I'd say, they'd say something against it, or just be completely rude to me when I hadn't done anything to them, and headn't even been talking to them in the first place. |
@ Tut'ankhamun
No worries ^-^ about mis-reading. Magic the gathering, I LOVE the artwork on them but can't understand the game. I collect them for the pretty illustrations. There is a girl in my class who is VERY annoying at everything she does. I dislike her, I dont hate her, shes just annoying. Never pulls her pants up so we see CRACK all day long, her phone goes off religiously during class time and critiques every day and she hovered over your desk to steal your ideas and make them her own. She also talks about herself and how rich she is all the time, is a really high pitched fake voice. ¬.¬ The group you speak of, I have experienced that in so many ways, i can completely agree with you on that, and its just so catty and juvenile. Some people just need to GROW UP and get on with life, and stop worrying about everyone else. |
@Sonic:
I know people exactly like that girl you speak of. I also know a bunch of guys like that. I just want to go up to them, smash their phone, and grab them by the back of their boxers nd yank it up. Yesterday, my drama teacher had to take away 6 cell phones. The sad thing is, they are two years older than me, and sometimes I think I"m more mature than them. |
@ Tut
You most likely are more mature than most. Especially cause you're a girl. Seems these days, girls grow up more maturely than the boys do, in the teen generation this day, anyway. The boys in my HS ALWAYS had their pants to thier knees so we saw boxers ALL day. Then on hot days, if girls wore skirts or shorts too short, we'd be sent home. >.> In my high school days, teachers collected ANY devices you had. CD players, cell phones, pagers, Game Boys. They kept them until the end of the year. I learned my lesson XD I got my gameboy taken away one cause someone was teasing me about it, and holding it over my head so I couldnt reach it. The teacher took it away and I nearly cried. After class, I begged for it back and told him of the circumstances that i wasnt even playing it. Ha gave it back and told me if he saw it again he'd beat my Mario game and trade it in to Gamestop O.O' |
@Sonic
The girls at my school always wear really short skirts, no matter the weather. It's kinda gross. The guys do the same thing with their pants, though. I try to ignore them, seeing as they'd probably be all up in my face if I ever tried to confront them about it. Hehe. That kind of sounds like my teacher. (Drama/Choir) He's a young teacher (24, this is his first year teaching) and he's a total gamer. He would probably take your gameboy and play it. On second thought, he might not. He plays things more like Final Fantasy. (This is the same teacehr that took 6 phones yesterday). |
@Tut
Sounds like hed take my Gameboy. I prefer to play Mario, then switch off to Pokemon any day LOL. You should ask him if he has played Pokemon. In my High school, ALL the girls were really revealing like that and it was totally gross. To a point where I can see their butt cheeks from behind. UGH.... Thongs are not the proper attire to wear with a skirt *barf* I must get to sleep now, farewell Tut <3 |
I try not to dislike people until I get to know them first, thought this worked for me until I got my english teacher for this year. *shudders*
I've found a lot of people annoying before, but she just takes the first place prize!! She's extremely picky, one day she'll find one thing wrong, when you fixed it the next time she'll find something else! Other teachers tell you what they are expecting, her expectations change ALL the freakin' time! The worst thing is, she thinks she's telling us what we need to know. She only gives me the format (ie double spaced, in pen etc.) and not the CONTENT. I CANNOT get a good mark if I don't know what to do, can I?? It's not just me either, no one, and I mean no one, get above an 80% in her class. There's this other teacher who's sort of mean and has favouritism (towards students who are nice to this other one) and lots of people complain about her too. But at least the other one gives out 80's and 90's. It's like my teacher hates everyone! Not only does she not tell us what the content is, she expects us to not have any creativity!! (Ok, some students over do it with the creativity I must admit, but surely a little is not all that bad?) e.g. We had this media assignment where we had to pick out an ad and deconstruct it. She told us we will be putting up out ad on a stand sort of thing, Ok that's fine. She also said don't do anything to the ad (like mark it or ciricle stuff like that.) That's also fine, acceptable and reasonable. One group when presenting put their ad on a big white bristle board with the main info outline on it. And she tool off marks because it wasn't EXACTLY like she wanted. It wasn't EXACTLY like all the other presentations. She also took marks off from my group because apparently we didn't present all our separate sections at the same time. (person1 has section 1,3,5, person2 has 2,4,6) We thought it would be ok to present in 1,2,3,4,5,6 order with switching turns because we don't want to other person to stand still awkwardly during talking. She said it was because it made it hard for her to mark. WHAT kind of teacher does that?? Take off marks because they found it hard to mark?? (I don't mean messy writing, or ripped paper hard to mark.) What about our content? Aren't you going to mark that?? It's like she wants clone copies of the same projects. I swear she can't think out side of the box, or even remotly close to the wall of the box. Phew. That feels good. It's been on my chest for a while. |
Lucy sounds like a bitch, to be honest. I know you considered the two of your friend so it probably hurts or did , that she can behave in such ways but don't you dare back down and hide from her! If she goes to a guard with bullshit reasons and you're innocent nothing can happen, it's not as though you walked up and punched her in the face darling, even if you are talking guess what, its a public studio or you pay to be there too so that's too bad for her!
I'd really say to ignore her and pretend she doesn't exist, she sounds like a really toxic person and not someone you would even waste the time for. As for not liking people, ohhhh yes! There is a girl that is friends with my best friend, she more or less caused drama ever day, we didn't talk because we would fight about this girl. She up and disappeared and things were great for us all. She came back and me and my friend aren't doing so great now :< Not very detailed but yes I horrible dislike this girl. |
@ Sonic
He probably has. He's a total nerd. But a nerd that everyone loves. At least the girls at my school wear spankies or spandex or shorts under their skirts, no matter how long they are. Our school is just really sports oriented, so most of the girls who wear skirts are in some sort of sport and have some sort of shorts that they always wear. The girls are more revealing with their shirts (or lack thereof). Good night. |
Wow SonicSweeti, you having to deal with Lucy is unacceptable. Your level of school sounds really independent as in solving problems by yourself. xD But I'd still suggest talking to a teacher or counselor about it. If she can't accept that you are a part of that class too, then she should leave, and you should probably tell her so. In a thought-out manner if she does something completely unforgivable.
Anyways.. I really hate a lot of people, I am much too sensitive. I know a boy, lets just call him Jeremy. When I first met him, he was nice and quiet. We were both in ASL class, we were both the same in a lot of ways. But after a while, I noticed he hugged me a lot, really uncomfortable, not-letting-go, soft hugs. Then I noticed he started to follow me, wherever I went during nutrition and lunch. Sometimes he wouldn't even talk, he'd just watch me. After a uncomfortable amount of days, one day he was just starting right at me and getting really close, and he asked me out, I flatly denied. The day after, I realized how much I hated him. I hated everything about him. Honestly, I want a guy thats funny, confident, and easy to get along with, not someone who is exactly like me. XD Even though I told him no, he still followed me and hugged me when I didn't want to be. So I started to change the areas where I went to lunch and nutrition, but one time he saw me and the next day; Jeremy was there. I picked my stuff up and walked away, I didn't care that I would have to hide away while he was with my friends, I had to get away. I think that day I was so sick with stress and anxiously I stayed home the next day. When I came back on Monday and I think he finally got the message, now he passes by the area I stay in lunch every couple of minutes and waves to me. I think its understandable to hate him? I will go crazy if I see him again, really. Sorry I'm not a very good writer. D: At this point, I think thats the only person I truely hate, there is another boy, lets just call him David. He is extremely annoying to EVERYONE. He takes my friends food, takes our stuff, punches us, pokes us, screams, ANYTHING to annoy people. From what I've heard, in class he is the same way. He makes disruptive noises and when people tell him to blunty shut up, he responds, "Make me." It kills me to the core that there is nothing I can do about it. I will snap one day xD I am known among my friends as the only one who doesn't cuss, but he will break me. He will. |
O__o David sounds more dislikable than Jeremy is.
For those two I think you have a reason to not like them (one wouldn't get a hint and the other just cannot shut up) |
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NO WAY. Jeremy is PURE EVIL. In his own way. He's nice but SHEESH D: LEAVE ME ALONE! I nearly went crazy. One time he was on a ramp which was raised about 3 feet off the ground with about a 4 foot tall railing, I was walking by and HE BENT DOWN AND HUGGED ME. I was extremely pissed inside. |
I used to hate this girl a lot. She was with me in high school and we were classmates for the longest of times. Unfortunately, she joined the same college and university as well.
I hated her because she really was bossy. Even though we were at the same 'level' as her. she always thought she was superior and even when she knew she was no better than us, She just assumed that we would do everything for her because she felt like she deserved it or something. I really do not know her intentions but she just kept asking people to do things for her. And those are things that she very well knew she could do herself, and when we asked her for favours, which is rarely since we knew she wouldn't do them anyways, she made up all sorts of excuses. I hated her probably more than my other friends because she seemed to stick to me a lot and I always had trouble saying 'No!' and she knew it! So she made use of that and took me for granted. I know that there were times that I did things for my group which she was in, she would take he credit even if she didn't do any shit. And when I felt like I didn't fill her in on something even if she didn't need to know, I always felt guilty and told her and she enjoyed me feeling guilty and rubbed it into my face saying, 'Wow! This is what it feels like to make people feel guilty!' I can't believe she had the nerve saying that in her high and mighty voice. She also tried to steal my friends away because she didn't have many people close to her so she tried to steal my interest and even my personality to get into my so called clique, which are my closest friends. So the way she talked, the way she acted, everything was almost similar to me. She even stole the stupid tagline I made for myself. Who on earth would bother copying the way I announce myself which is, 'I like eggs!' I mean, its really stupid but it was my tagline and people recognized me for it? O.o And she copied it. I didn't take it as admiration or anything because I found it highly annoying. I tried to make up with her in university after having not really talked to her for a long time and I really though she would have changed. But no, she didn't! My friends in university have been complaining about a girl who doesn't do her work but wants credit for it and could never bother putting in effort for group assignments. Apparently, it is her! So I realized that I don't think she would ever change! And I will continue disliking her... |
@ kitkat - yeeee, he seems a little...touch happy..*shudders*
Seemingly nice on the outside and evil on the inside... That reminds me, there's the boy who likes a friend of mine (call him Bob, and her Mary.) Bob is so so creepy. And not in the usual heavy crush kind of way. It's almost as if he reads bad how to date girls manuals. You know those tights that girls wear? One day, Mary was wearing those (dance major) and Bob asked her why do girls wear tights. Mary: because they are comfortable?? Bob: but the last time I asked you said it's because girls like to show off their Ass-ays. Mary: ok then...maybe girls like to show off their asses... Bob: they seem not that comfortable, they are SO TIGHT. It was disturbing. And scary to boot >x< |
There's a co-worker I can't stand, no matter how hard I try. The icing on the cake was at election time, I asked her how she voted on a few issues, one being gay marriage, she said she voted against it because she thought gay people are more dishonest than straight people and would marry to scam for more benefits. Everything about her has always rubbed me the wrong way though.
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@Jesweet: -hug- :3 Its nice to actually tell someone the whole story :gonk: I actually like this deaf boy in one of my classes and today someone from the other side of the room told me to pass a note to him, so I did so and it turns out they were being mean to him D: lets just call the other-side-of-the-room-person... Jake and the deaf person, Sam
Jake: I heard you pushed a boy because he slapped you on the ass Sam: Yeah Jake: Why? Sam: Because I'm not gay Jake: Are you sure? then jake crumpled up the paper. D: I was really sadd because I was laughing sorta didn't know what the note said until afterwards.. I've never signed to him because I'm too shy D8 Anyways XD That Bob guy does sound kinda creepy D: But one time this boy in my class said "You always wear tight pants, but its okay its hot" XD or something like that. |
Aww, don't be shy. Go up and sign to him!
It takes courage and the right amount of willing-to-lose-something-ness! Jack sounds like a mean dumbbutt. Let's hope he slips on a banana peel. |
But.. D: I'm too shhyyy too scaredd he'd probably be wondering why I didn't talk to him at the beginning of the semester last year >__< jack is usually harmless so I was surprised when he asked something like that D: http://s237.photobucket.com/albums/f...ns/th_064_.gif |
>: O don't worry about it that much.
Just go ahead and do it! What can you lose? Usually harmless? Hmm, maybe it's other mean people pressuring him to ask something like that? You never know.. |
I generally like most people. There are a few exceptions.
The first is this kid I've known since I was little. You all remember Sid from Toystory? I swear, they're the same person, just throw in a little overt misogyny, heterosexism, racism, and threats of physical violence. He's a brat. A few people I'm fond of like this kid, and I can't for the life of me figure out why. He's a vile person and has no compassion for other human beings. The second is a kid I go to school with now. He seemed okay at first, and then I realized he was completely self-absorbed and took everyone else's faults as personal affronts. He's judgmental with a nauseatingly arrogant conception of himself. The third is a girl I used to go to church with. She is literally the most annoying person on the face of the planet. She's really loud and never shuts up, but never has anything worthwhile to actually say. She just jabbers on for no aparent reason. She's not smart, she's not funny, she's not interesting, she's not any fun, and generally she has no redeeming qualities what so ever. The fourth is a girl I went to camp with. She was extremely talented, but made sure to rub it in everyone else's faces and ridicule those who weren't as good as she was (according to her, of course). She was cruel to a few really nice girls she was supposedly friends with, which is something that really bothers me. Those are, like, the only people I can come up with, though. I really do get along with most people. :sweat: |
SonicSweeti-
the person you where talking about sounds like a robot. only here to work. finds no joy in people around her. i feel bad for people like her. but no your not being evil about sayning that u dislike her. she really did use you and left you in the rain to fend for yourself. But i dont think how your dealing with her is the best. you kinda letting her get her way. making everything worse. But then again better to get out of there before tempers get to high and things or actins are takkin that you'll regreat later. hard to say. as for myself. there are a few people. its very rare for me to truly dislike a person. The most recont girl thow.. ima call PIPPY! nways this was all last year so luickly i dont have to talk to her any more (she was a year ahead of me) Pippy had to re-take a juinor mathclass cuss she 'supposly never turned in the work cuss it was so easy.' i really dont believe that. but anyways. The main reason whys she on the list of 'do not like' is her action where truly based as selfish. I mean im a people person. but actions ALWAYS are louder by words. words are simply that. I tend to doodel alot during class and whenever sombody approches me to talk about art she has this homing becon race ocer butts into the comushion to talk about her art, her epreson then quit litrly takes that said person away to talk.Now i dident mind this for the first few months. dident really phase me.. up entil ANYbody who talked to me shed take them away. leaving me raither lonly feeling. the only person i could talk to was her. and when you talk to pippy. you always talked about her. so after 30 min you feel drained and like i dont know empty. after 6 months of this i kinda felt like i was nothing. She either had the best or worst life The worst experence where nothign you could ever say could be bad enough of her life. PLus the way she treated men. i well sy this. her bra size was dd and she used them. she got this raither cute bf. so cute and handsome freshmen but handsome. she got him to fall deeply in love with her then started to play mind tricks horrable mind games then broke up with him and made out with anouther boy on that same day. this distroyed the freshmen. i truly thought he was gonna kill himself. she did all this for the excuse of 'true love!" "blah." anyways. thats my story. ^^ |
I will not name names, so I will use different names...
There's this friend of mine I'll call Chelsea... and we were friends because of this ministry we were in... then we had A LOT of conflicts... from clothes to colors to tastes to views... (she wants preppy clothes, I wanted gothic ones; she loves pink, I love black and purple; she's into pop song like the Pussycat Dolls and I'm into rock like Evanescence; AND she thinks that Catholics are not Christian while I say that Catholics ARE Christians...) Then she has a bad attitude in terms of... well, she's usually airheaded and barely listens to others' opinions... <_< And she's kinda hysterical over a lot of things and she thinks just because I'm goth, I like everything black, goodness no... And attitude wise, she needs an adjustment... And she's just so shallow and close-minded... Ugh... |
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