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RisikaFox 10-27-2009 12:57 AM

@Fuyumi: Haha, yeah. The dumb, obnoxious, overly nice teen girl seems to be a really popular female lead in many manga... Like Tohru Honda, and Tea(YGO), etc... xD Too many.

O.o I dunno, I'm already into the Looking Glass, and I didn't find anything 'creepy' persay. Naturally, it's very confusing and full of riddles, some of which I don't quite understand. Perhaps I can get someone to decipher it for me, haha.

@Everyone: I'm afraid it's bedtime for me. :cry: Good night!

For-Chan Cookie 10-27-2009 12:57 AM

@Fuyumi - O_O You won't be a crazy cat lady, you'll be a crazy kid lady. For realz! Because all those kids would drive you crazy.

Good night Risika.

Alexz 10-27-2009 12:58 AM

@Risika- Goodnight!

@Fuyumi- I've heard of that movie, but I've never seen it.

Sexy Blue Candy 10-27-2009 01:03 AM

Hola Cookie!!
@Risika: I do that too! xD
Uh.... I think I posted this before but im not sure... >><

fuyumi_saito 10-27-2009 01:10 AM

@Risika
oh, I heard it was suppose to be a scary book XD

yeah, a lot of girls are so dumb in anime. Then again, I think that is because women in Japan are expected to act naive, and talk in high pitched voices.

@Cookie
yeah, but I'm adopting 3 or 4 of them. A lot of adoption laws require to you be a certain age. So while I may have two or three kids when i'm 30, I'll have one that is probably in highschool when I'm 40, then I'll adopt another kid(Cause there is a country that requires you to be 40 years old @[email protected] crazy)

but yeah, I want to adopt little girls from China(has an age expectation), South africa(Same), and India. Because girls in other countries are often treated very poorly.

For-Chan Cookie 10-27-2009 01:11 AM

@Candy - You can't delete your own posts. You have to report it as a double post.

@Fuyumi - I love the thought of adopting. I do not love the thought of adopting from other countries. There are soooooo many children in need in our country. It feels like stealing away happiness. This will sound mean, but why take a child away from all that they know to "improve" their lives when you can have a child from here. Because the child from here will realize what they're missing by being stuck in the system. Parents, privilege, all that stuff. I'd go for a local child every time.

Sexy Blue Candy 10-27-2009 01:13 AM

awwww. okay.
There's something wrong with my quick post. It isnt showing up right after I post it. >.<

EDIT: Its time for me to go to bed. Night All

For-Chan Cookie 10-27-2009 01:19 AM

@Candy - Yeah, quick reply is being weird. =/

Cadiwyn Bree 10-27-2009 01:23 AM

Hey guys. How is everyone tonight?

For-Chan Cookie 10-27-2009 01:25 AM

Hey Cadiwyn ^_^ We're ok in here. But I guess they're working on the site and it keeps hiccuping. I had a quintuple post before O_O!! And quick reply is being wonky. And now funny little icons are popping up like http://images.menewsha.com/forum/sta..._livetopic.gif

fuyumi_saito 10-27-2009 01:29 AM

@Cookie
Well, if they are young enough chances are they will not even remember. Same with a baby. I know there are many kids in the system. I myself have been in that system. The fact is, as mean as this sounds, most people don't want a child that already has someone they call mommy and daddy, plus theres also the fact that the parents have a better chance of getting the kids, unless they are orphans. Plus a lot of people prefer younger kids to teenagers. There are so many teenagers in the system. In most cases though, it is the parent's fault that their child is in foster care. and teenagers probably don't want anyone adopting them anyways. After age 11, I think most kids don't want some random person adopting them, no matter how kind that person is. Idk. I could go on and on as this subject.

The point is, is that people who are in the system are taken care of. They can go to college for free a lot of times, they might have a consistent foster home..Then again, there are the ones who put themselves into foster care(Some kids break the law, and rather than letting them go back to their parents, the court decides to put them in foster care for a certain amount of time.)

Anyway, I know this, cause I have met a lot of other kids, most of them put themselves into foster care, and they wouldn't want to be adopted. Then there are the kids who have sucky parents. Is it really the responsibility of some random nice person to adopt those kids, if they're just going to treat the people like trash, then go back to their old parents and never talk to the ones who adopted them ever again? (there are some cases of this.)

The fact is, is that people often times love their parents. Cause they are their parents, no one could ever replace them, or even try to take the parental room from them. The kids won't let them, and in some cases neither will the parents. In some situation it works out great. In others its just a lot of heart ache. Often times foster care parents don't want the kids anymore and send them to another foster home. There should be better foster homes, but in a lot of cases there aren't. I don't think a lot of people do a very good job of taking care of kids. A lot of kids in foster care get taken advantage of. This is the governments fault.

Really the whole system is messed up.

white2fire 10-27-2009 01:49 AM

@fuyumi: Wow long post.

I'm back! *attacks Cookie*

For-Chan Cookie 10-27-2009 01:53 AM

@Fuyumi - Well, they'll be your kids *shrugs* If you have the money to adopt seven kids from foreign countries, go for it.

Hey Wifey! *glomps*

white2fire 10-27-2009 01:54 AM

*huggles* So how are you?
And where did you get the Yin Yang from?

fuyumi_saito 10-27-2009 01:56 AM

@Cadi
hello, how are you?

@White
yes XD

@Cookie
well..that is what I want. Though I don't plan on adopting all 7..for all I now my future husband might only agree to 4 XD

cuppycake_geek 10-27-2009 02:00 AM

Hallo people how is everyone

fuyumi_saito 10-27-2009 02:02 AM

@Cuppy
I'm alright, how are you?

cuppycake_geek 10-27-2009 02:04 AM

Saito:good I got yelled at for eating bacon tho. But then I went and got candy!

Alexz 10-27-2009 02:05 AM

I'm back. I had to take my dog for a walk.

white2fire 10-27-2009 02:09 AM

@fuyumi: So anything happen while I was gone?

@cuppy: hello! And how are you?

@Alexz: Hi there! Don't think we've met. How are you?

For-Chan Cookie 10-27-2009 02:13 AM

@Wifey - I'm ok. Just finished Dancing with the Stars and now Castle is having me rolling all over the place :rofl:

I donated $5 to Mene this month :D

@Fuyumi - Good luck with that ^_^;;

Alexz 10-27-2009 02:15 AM

White: Hello! I'm a bit hungry at the moment. It's been a while since I had lunch. How are you?

fuyumi_saito 10-27-2009 02:15 AM

@Cuppy
bacon and candy XD how healthy. Why'd you get yelled at?

@Alexz
welcome back. I wish I had a dog to walk. Then there would be an actual excuse other than exercise, to go walking.

Maybe I can ask J if I can walk Filini..

@White
Not really. There was a weird thing where people posted multiple times

@Cookie
I know I'm weird XD but thanks for wishing me good luck.

cuppycake_geek 10-27-2009 02:17 AM

White-Good

Saito-I'm kinda going along with my friend and her diet plan deal so she spazzed when she found out I had 2 slices of bacon.

Alexz 10-27-2009 02:20 AM

Fuyumi: I know. Sometimes the only exercise I get is when I have to walk Krum.


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