I post-stalk if I need to talk to someone. C:
And if I just want to talk to them again, I still post-stalk.

It's weird, because on Gaia I was very PM-dependent, and would always use that as a primary way of contacting people.

But on here, I suppose I'm more... open? Less exclusive?

If I need to tell someone something important, it's never too important that it excludes others. So if they overhear/overread (lol, new word? 8D) what I'm telling someone else, so be it!

That's just me, though. C: I hardly PM people, but when they PM me, I answer!

some people are really bad with them, they're really good at ignoring them. But I'm not sure how PM's work on this site. I haven't gotten any and I can say, from having gotten one friend notification, these notifiers aren't very good as far as grabbing your attention goes. I only happened to notice I had one by chance. Having come from Gaia I'm used to a big annoying bubble popping up next to my avatar, so I tend to click it because I don't want it sticking around there (I'm a little OCD like that. Haha)