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Kole_Locke 10-10-2009 10:23 PM

How do I delete my accout?
 
I would like to terminate my account and would like to know how. I don't appreciate false accusations which I will not get into.
I would like to have my donation money back and will be more than happy to give my monthly items back then delete this account.
I have enjoyed up to now this site, but regretfully I must say good bye.

Hatake Ayumi 10-10-2009 10:45 PM

... ; - ;
Awww...
Well, there is no way to delete an account. That's all I know...

edit: also, if it is a user problem, really, moderators can help a lot....

Kole_Locke 10-10-2009 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Hatake Ayumi (Post 1765202573)
... ; - ;
Awww...
Well, there is no way to delete an account. That's all I know...

edit: also, if it is a user problem, really, moderators can help a lot....

Thanks for your help. I'm just done with this site, I would like my money back then I will give everything away to other less unfortunate users.

Insomniac 10-10-2009 10:49 PM

Hi Kole_locke, I'm a tad confused at what the problem is here. I was told you're upset about being accused of posting something not written by yourself? If this is incorrect, please let us know.

The post in question is here http://www.menewsha.com/forum/1765192912-post5473.html

And more than likely the quote in question is here

Quote:

Sure, if they lost their jobs or got sick, I’m willing to help, but if they bought McMansions at three times the price of our paid-off, $250,000 condo, on one-third of my salary, then let the left-wing Congress-critters who passed Fannie and Freddie and the Community Reinvestment Act that created the bubble help them with their own money.
Which from a quick google search appears to be written by a one Robert Hall

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&s...&aq=f&oq=&aqi=

Are you in fact Robert or is this over a different matter?

Hatake Ayumi 10-10-2009 10:49 PM

... I don't know if that is possible. So I'll refrain from answering that part so that the higher powers can answer it more correctly....

Kole_Locke 10-10-2009 10:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Insomniac (Post 1765202599)
Hi Kole_locke, I'm a tad confused at what the problem is here. I was told you're upset about being accused of posting something not written by yourself? If this is incorrect, please let us know.

The post in question is here http://www.menewsha.com/forum/1765192912-post5473.html

And more than likely the quote in question is here



Which from a quick google search appears to be written by a one Robert Hall

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&s...&aq=f&oq=&aqi=

Are you in fact Robert or is this over a different matter?

That post I admit to copying a little bit of it, but I have to same feelings as he does. I tried to reword it and it was late, so some of it may in fact be a little on the wrong and I apologize for that. I'm not happy here any more, I'm sorry. I really just want to delete my account and move on.

Insomniac 10-10-2009 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Kole_Locke (Post 1765202615)
That post I admit to copying a little bit of it, but I have to same feelings as he does. I tried to reword it and it was late, so some of it may in fact be a little on the wrong and I apologize for that. I'm not happy here any more, I'm sorry. I really just want to delete my account and move on.

I'm glad that is cleared up then, I'm sure Robert Hall feels complimented by the quote :) I'm a little surprised a mod of our site recognized the quote to be quite honest. Would you be kind enough to tell us what gives you such a bad taste about your experience here? I'm sorry to say I haven't had time to follow users around lately, so I'm not aware of your particular circumstances.

Kole_Locke 10-10-2009 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Insomniac (Post 1765202650)
I'm glad that is cleared up then, I'm sure Robert Hall feels complimented by the quote :) I'm a little surprised a mod of our site recognized the quote to be quite honest. Would you be kind enough to tell us what gives you such a bad taste about your experience here? I'm sorry to say I haven't had time to follow users around lately, so I'm not aware of your particular circumstances.

I mean, I honestly feel like I have been treated like a child. I feel like I'm in grammar school, I'm not perfect and don't claim to be. I really feel some of your moderators do their a job a little too well. I understand you guys don't want this site to be a spam site like gaia and I respect you for your hard work. I understand rules are rules, and I just feel like one of your moderators really come off as more than offensive to me. My feelings are hurt, I'm sorry.

Hatake Ayumi 10-10-2009 11:02 PM

... If you are really hurt, then you can tell another moderator or a higher up... I believe... They aren't invincible beings, or else they wouldn't make amazing moderators (checks and balances, checks and balances....).

Kole_Locke 10-10-2009 11:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hatake Ayumi (Post 1765202698)
... If you are really hurt, then you can tell another moderator or a higher up... I believe... They aren't invincible beings, or else they wouldn't make amazing moderators (checks and balances, checks and balances....).

I mean, I know I'm not totally in the right, and I admit that, but I just don't appreciate being treated like I'm in a elementary grammar school. It's very demeaning to me.

Insomniac 10-10-2009 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Kole_Locke (Post 1765202682)
I mean, I honestly feel like I have been treated like a child. I feel like I'm in grammar school, I'm not perfect and don't claim to be. I really feel some of your moderators do their a job a little too well. I understand you guys don't want this site to be a spam site like gaia and I respect you for your hard work. I understand rules are rules, and I just feel like one of your moderators really come off as more than offensive to me. My feelings are hurt, I'm sorry.

I'd have to agree with you there, some of the mods here do a incredibly thorough job and it does come across a bit on the OCD side of things, and yes, at times it upsets me too. Let me give you a bit of an insight into the site and it's comparison to gaia (since everyone loves to make the comparison these days ;))

Yesterday we had 282 users join, 146 that never activated their account by email, and around 8 which were too young to be members. Out of those 282 users who completed the registration there were approximately 200 new fresh meat threads made, of which there is roughly four posts per thread, leaving 800 posts there alone for mods to go over. The mods deal with posts as they are made and try to make an general response to problems they see without stalking anyone in particular. In your case you received what I would hope is a friendly reminder about a lack of quoting - a rule which is in place to stop pointless spam. The problem with this whole situation is that there are only ever a few mods on at a time, and a few hundred users making posts.

Now lets compare to Gaia, they have probably 10,000 people in their forums at any one time, probably 50,000 new topics a day, and very lax rules. Honestly without lax rules they would have no chance of keeping up with even half of the posts, and are in fact a month behind on reports. Moderating Gaia would be a complete nightmare, so what happened? Gaia's general post quality went down the toilet, and rules were made even more lax (or less enforced.)

Back to us, most of the users here feel they want a safe enjoyable place to chill out, and want to be stimulated with something more than a thread full of bumps - and the staff feel the same way. At the rate we are growing it's unfortunately necessary to be a little less kind than we would normally be as it becomes difficult to follow individual users around or have more personal reminders. So unfortunately you feel you have been treated like a child, and for that I apologize and I'm more than sure it was not intentional. If you don't like something please give us feedback on it and we'll give our point of view. If you still don't like it then feel free to persuade us otherwise. I'm always interested to hear what users have to say about the site and how we can improve. Maybe we need to look at how reminders are handed out? I don't know, you tell me :)

jellysundae 10-10-2009 11:16 PM

You seem to be behaving like you're in elementary school in that thread you've made in the chatterbox on Gaia ;)

Kole_Locke 10-10-2009 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Insomniac (Post 1765202794)
I'd have to agree with you there, some of the mods here do a incredibly thorough job and it does come across a bit on the OCD side of things, and yes, at times it upsets me too. Let me give you a bit of an insight into the site and it's comparison to gaia (since everyone loves to make the comparison these days ;))

Yesterday we had 282 users join, 146 that never activated their account by email, and around 8 which were too young to be members. Out of those 282 users who completed the registration there were approximately 200 new fresh meat threads made, of which there is roughly four posts per thread, leaving 800 posts there alone for mods to go over. The mods deal with posts as they are made and try to make an general response to problems they see without stalking anyone in particular. In your case you received what I would hope is a friendly reminder about a lack of quoting - a rule which is in place to stop pointless spam. The problem with this whole situation is that there are only ever a few mods on at a time, and a few hundred users making posts.

Now lets compare to Gaia, they have probably 10,000 people in their forums at any one time, probably 50,000 new topics a day, and very lax rules. Honestly without lax rules they would have no chance of keeping up with even half of the posts, and are in fact a month behind on reports. Moderating Gaia would be a complete nightmare, so what happened? Gaia's general post quality went down the toilet, and rules were made even more lax (or less enforced.)

Back to us, most of the users here feel they want a safe enjoyable place to chill out, and want to be stimulated with something more than a thread full of bumps - and the staff feel the same way. At the rate we are growing it's unfortunately necessary to be a little less kind than we would normally be as it becomes difficult to follow individual users around or have more personal reminders. So unfortunately you feel you have been treated like a child, and for that I apologize and I'm more than sure it was not intentional. If you don't like something please give us feedback on it and we'll give our point of view. If you still don't like it then feel free to persuade us otherwise. I'm always interested to hear what users have to say about the site and how we can improve. Maybe we need to look at how reminders are handed out? I don't know, you tell me :)

I appreciate you taking the time to really show you care about my situation. That says something really good to me. I respect you a lot for that Insomniac. I understand you guys don't want spam on this site. A lot of time I read a lot of stuff online that I am in tune with. I find stuff sometimes and reword trying to make it my own, because they say it the best. That particular night evidently I must have not done a good enough job of it.(Not saying I do this all the time, but there are some things I feel exactly the same way! I have very strong convictions.) I'm 30 years old and have dealt with demeaning teachers in grade school and have had the negative experience of being made fun of in class because the teacher liked to point flaws out and talk down to me. I don't like how that particular moderator spoke to me. It really made me feel like that.

On Gaia I know they really have let their site go to pot. It's so true, it's all about money. I thought about becoming a moderator on their myself, because I can't stand to see the things I see go on in there. I spent almost 500$ trying to help the site and honestly feel like it's been wasted. I'm friends with a couple moderators there and even they say the same. I'm guessing this site is people who have left gaia to make a site as gaia should have become rather than the money grubbing shadow it is now.

Honestly, I, if I could get an apology I would feel much better from that mod.



@jellysundae ~ Look at the thread now. I'm sorry, for that I was wrong, I was angry and hurt. I have had a really bad day today! I apologize to the mod for what I said as well.

Insomniac 10-10-2009 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Kole_Locke (Post 1765202865)
I appreciate you taking the time to really show you care about my situation. That says something really good to me. I respect you a lot for that Insomniac. I understand you guys don't want spam on this site. A lot of time I read a lot of stuff online that I am in tune with. I find stuff sometimes and reword trying to make it my own, because they say it the best. That particular night evidently I must have not done a good enough job of it.(Not saying I do this all the time, but there are some things I feel exactly the same way! I have very strong convictions.) I'm 30 years old and have dealt with demeaning teachers in grade school and have had the negative experience of being made fun of in class because the teacher liked to point flaws out and talk down to me. I don't like how that particular moderator spoke to me. It really made me feel like that.

On Gaia I know they really have let their site go to pot. It's so true, it's all about money. I thought about becoming a moderator on their myself, because I can't stand to see the things I see go on in there. I spent almost 500$ trying to help the site and honestly feel like it's been wasted. I'm friends with a couple moderators there and even they say the same. I'm guessing this site is people who have left gaia to make a site as gaia should have become rather than the money grubbing shadow it is now.

Honestly, I, if I could get an apology I would feel much better from that mod.

We've all had our bad share of teachers so I totally get where you are coming from. IT sucks but we get over it. Why not chuck up a post about some of your experiences over in GD? Let out some frustration :)

Kole_Locke 10-10-2009 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Insomniac (Post 1765202954)
We've all had our bad share of teachers so I totally get where you are coming from. IT sucks but we get over it. Why not chuck up a post about some of your experiences over in GD? Let out some frustration :)

Wow, I'm really touched by your sincere kindness. I really mean it. I have to go back to work, and pull and all night shift. Then finish a ten page paper I have to write.

Shooga! 10-14-2009 03:20 PM

Well I am sure that the moderator in question feels awful that they have made you feel like this and want to leave, but have you spoken to the mod, told them how you feel? I'm sure that if you spoke to the mod and let them know then they will appologize. Maybe they were having a bad day too?
I hope it all works out soon for you!

Vickyll3 10-15-2009 05:39 AM

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Originally Posted by jellysundae (Post 1765202798)
You seem to be behaving like you're in elementary school in that thread you've made in the chatterbox on Gaia ;)

Lol I think he's mad enough. I guess in Gaia its OK to act that way. Well its been so long since I post there wow.

O sorry, Well good luck, I think you should give it another try. Do what I do if you get your feeling hurt, Let that person know.

Bartuc 10-15-2009 08:29 AM

I am going to lock this thread. I personally believe a point has been made by other staff members and if you have any further questions you are more than welcome to PM those who have answered your questions or given you guidance on this topic.


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