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"Best Friend"
Hello all, I'm a tad new here, but I decided to post this anyways. [If you don't want to listen to this rant, skip to the end where I summarize it]
I don't know how to start it, so I'm kinda jumping into a random day... I've been in choir for awhile now, so freshman year, highschool I notice this certain group of people, I can't describe them in to much detail, but: There is three girls, One black African looking girl, one with blonde hair, one with black hair, and one boy, with black hair also. They are all really beautiful, they seem [from the distance] very nice. So over the next few days I take to watch them from a far. Then, the black haired girl[we shall refer to her as CB] came over from where she was standing towards the other girls. [The black girl is to be known as G and the blonde one as NW] She was crying and what I heard NW saying is "VS again?" [VS is the black haired boy] CB nodded...fast forwarding...somehow they ended up making up..then breaking up..then I was friends with NW, who was friends with VS, so I just got a boat load of friends at once....now after hanging around with them after awhile VS has a girlfriend again [cupcake] the cupcake seems very familiar to me..I consider her a friend also and now tonight NW texted me saying Quote:
The thing is, I've liked him for longer than he's known me, so I'm a bit confused on what's going on.. Well, I have two little birdies telling me that VS likes me...so yea.. |
Hmm.. some advice for the future... from a diplomatic stand point, try not to get too involved with "he said, she said"Between any of these people. If anything like that ever happens, just go to the person involved to get the story. It will make it easier for you in the long run. I myself used to get caught in the middle. For right now just see where it takes you. Also if this guy is your friend and did you wrong somehow you need to let him know.
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Although you like him he seems a bit like a heartbreaker, so i would avoid getting in that kind of relationship with him.
I also agree with Rupert_Lestrange - never rely on rumors or gossip |
At first, when you talked about being attracted to them and spying on them, it sort of reminded me of Twilight (not that I'm a fangirl). Their nick names are very interesting. I wonder what they symbolize, or even if they do.
Anyway, VS doesn't seem like the good guy to hang around. He made up and then broke up with CB, dated cupcake, and then decides that he wants you. *raises eyebrow* By what I've heard from you, he's not good news. Not the person to get involved with. The group itself radiated a negative vibe (to me). If you date VS, you're bound to make enemies with CB, and probably the rest of the group. I don't really know the explanation, but he seems like a player. |
I agree with Cyraus. VS Sounds like bad news, and unless you want to make enemies, I wouldn't date him either. If you have liked him before, maybe now is the time to find another potential bf.
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A lot of people have said what my first thoughts were immediately after reading, that VS just dated all of these other people and he's just going to date you for a bit and then find someone else.
But people do change and do find a love they can rely on, you know? And I KNOW that even if 100 people warned you, it wouldn't change the fact that you like VS and have liked him since before you really knew him. So how about this? Find a way to test how much he actually cares for you. If he cares for you and doesn't just want to date you and leave you, he'll be willing to chase you a little. You need to play hard to get and make VS work for your affections. If he and the girls are as beautiful as you say, VS is probably used to girls just melting in his hands easily. Don't be a melter. Make him court you a little. If he is unwilling to do that, he doesn't really care. |
Thank you all so very much for the advice...Ionait: I think your advice is the best...and true! Thank you! <3
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