Leenalia: I think I'd be about the same way. Sloppy making out with another girl is probably as far into "cheating" as my fiance would even go, unless he was drunk enough that he passed out and she blew him or something (but I wouldn't really count that last part against him completely)

I don't mind if my boyfriend talks to ther girls or hangs out with them. He has a lot of friends that are girls, but they're also my friends. Of course I get jealous if they flirt with them, but I know that nothing will happen between them. My boyfriend and i are completely devoted to eachother, so I doubt anyhting would happen that wouldn't count as rape or mullestation.