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And plus, even if a fetus has a heartbeat, it doesn't have a brain or a conscience (well, at the early stages that is). All it is, as Keyori put it, is a clump of cells living off of the mother. Almost parasitic, as Naluc said. :o
I'm not necessarily for aborting a fetus that has begun to mature into a baby, but if an unwanted pregnancy happens, and it's still really early, I see no trouble. I mean, unless expenses come into play, why wouldn't someone abort at the early stage of pregnancy anyways? Now that's not a serious question, I was just saying... I remember hearing, on the radio, that some insurance agencies are beginning to deny women help in funding for this operation. I forgot the specific details, but I was on the road when I heard it and I remember feeling bad for those women and, perhaps, that is why a woman ends up waiting till a later stage before she can afford to abort. I have contradicting beliefs within myself. I feel that a child is not a punishment, irregardless of the situation, and if you don't want a child, then use condoms. However, I do know that humans are a sexual race. Sex is a part of what we are and things happen. Yay for "where do we draw the line"-topics... |
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1) Aborting based on the undesired sex of the fetus (which is illegal in several states, but I personally think should be illegal in all states). 2) Are unaware of their pregnancy until late into term (several women even carry to term and don't realize they're in labor until they're in a hospital bed pushing out a child... it's weird, but it happens). 3) Terminating a pregnancy that risks the health of the mother or fetus due to complications that were not detected earlier in the term. I'm about to go to lunch, so I don't have any sources off-hand to back this up, but these are what my initial thoughts on the matter are. Edit: I found a study. Quote:
I realize that these figures add up to more than 100%; My guess is that the women were allowed to choose more than one reason. I'd also like to footnote by saying that the study was done about 20 or so years ago, so these percentages may have shifted. I'll continue to look for something more recent. |
Nah, I was a bit tired this morning and forgot about those additional things.
The first one that you mentioned, especially. I had just recently gone over that with fellow students in my Crit-reasoning class. edit: that is an interesting study you found, there. I can agree that one of the problems is Improper education or no education at all when it comes to sex. I know that this was brought up way earlier in this thread, but some women totally abuse, what I think, the true purpose of an abortion. I may be wrong about this, but this is how I see things. I've always seen the core value of abortion as a method of relieving the woman of the stress of either a surprise/unwanted pregnancy or complications which would put the mother's health at risk if the baby was born. I just can't stand that some women would intentionally have unprotected sex and then shrug it off by thinking they can just abort OR abort just for the sake of gender preference. I know that gender preference is, for the most part, a cultural thing in some parts of the world, but I still feel it's an abuse of the method. /end rant ^^; |
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Again, I think this is an education issue. A lot of women who are on the pill, for example, can become "super-fertile" if they suddenly stop taking it (the pill was originally developed to help cure infertility by forcing a woman's body to overcompensate hormonally after a period of chemically-induced infertility). So this might be part of it, as it isn't really in the pamphlet you get with your contraception. I think the common conception is the opposite--that it takes a while for the chemicals to "flush out of your system" and will thus keep working for a period after you stop taking them. I'd also like to note that almost 90% of abortions occur before the 12-week mark. Meaning, second-trimester abortions are rare (and are usually done by teens who wait too long). Third-trimester abortions only make up 1% of all abortions, and are extremely rare (and extremely difficult to obtain). 80% are even before the 10-week mark, when an embryo becomes a fetus. |
Yeah, I don't know these percentages, so I'm left with using "some" women. xD
I am, actually, glad to see that, but there is still that small percentage of women who do what I mentioned above. Those women are the ones who just don't use contraception at all and go to abortion as their savior. Indeed, another issue is women who do not consistently stay on their birth control. There are definitely other methods of preventing pregnancy like getting the tubes tied. I'm sure it's much more expensive than a pack of B.C. pills, but it's definitely an alternative. Better yet, it's reversible. My mom did that some number of years after she had my sis. |
You know, I understand why some people would get an abortion. Like Rape victims or when it endangers the mother's health, however I disagree with the fact that the majority of states in the United States don't even require parents notification of an abortion of a minor. I think abortions should be saved for the people who really need them instead of stupid kids and inconvenienced women.
But then again, only about 6% of abortions are done for the health of the mother and less than 1% are done because of a rape or incest. |
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Which would you prefer: a child being born to a mother who doesn't want it and/or can't care for it and having an unhappy, unloved, and possibly impoverished life, or that same child never being born and not having to suffer that life? It needs to be a woman's choice whether or not she gives birth. If it isn't, the world becomes overpopulated with children born into unhappy lives.
Furthermore, what if the woman or the fetus has a medical condition that will cause either the baby, the mother, or both to die if she goes through with it? Should she really endanger both herself and the child by trying to give birth? Unwanted childbirths ruin both the baby and the mother's lives. The mother might not have a job yet, might not be able to finish high school (much less college), might be kicked out of her parents' home, might be in an abusive relationship, might simply not have the resources, time, or love to give an extra person. The baby might be born into poverty, born to a mother who never went to college and therefore can't keep a steady career, might be born homeless, or to an abusive father, or to a mother who can't care for it and/or can't find love for it, because she never wanted a baby in the first place. |
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Are you saying retarded people aren't people too? There is always a chance of survival because Doctor's don't know everything. Quote:
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There are some "fetus' " that also survive abortion, especially late abortions. If we're killing a fetus that could survive by breathing and being able to eat and pass waste then that's murder. Also, about 51.8% of all abortions occur to women whose yearly family income is greater than $30,000. What about those women? Almost 70% of all abortions occur in women who are 22+, being that 22 is the age the average person graduates from a 4-year college. Source |
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Additionally, even though these contraceptives aren't "expensive" to you, most of the girls getting pregnant are already below the poverty line, and if they're a minor, they're likely not using insurance because their parents would find out (and that's assuming they have any). My old low-dose pills were $56 a pack for generics without my insurance coverage. I could easily spend that same $56 on two weeks of groceries for myself. If we can't, as a nation, pull our heads out of our butts and properly fund comprehensive sex education, contraceptive education, and STI/STD/HIV education, and couple it with unrestricted (but not necessarily free) access to contraceptive services, then we're sure as hell going to see more reactive birth control methods (such as Plan B and abortion) than preventative methods. Quote:
You're also assuming that the pregnancy and birth is without complications. If the girl has to have a cesarean (as nearly 1 in 3 births are), she reduces the chances of any of her future children surviving childbirth. So basically, you're saving an unwanted child now, just to inadvertently kill a wanted child later. Source. |
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Why not, instead, promote the proper education of sex and contraception? It's less expensive than abortion OR adoption! Why not, instead, promote research for things such as artificial wombs? Cryogenic stasis for embryo? Of other methods of postponing or transferring pregnancy that we haven't even thought of yet? Why does it have to be "have the baby or keep your legs shut?" That's narrow, backwards thinking, in my opinion. Edit: I missed this one. Quote:
Next time you respond to this thread, get some freaking facts. No one cares about your "b-b-b-but the embryo!" arguments. Legislating morality is what keeps us in the dark ages. Try to come up with some ideas that will actually help instead of punish women and condemn them to lower classes, furthering the gender gap. |
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Also what about the risks of abortions? Abortion has been linked to long-term mental problems such as eating disorders, sexual dysfunction, alcohol and drug abuse, suicidal thoughts, depression, and relationship problems. Physical problems include breast cancer, damage to internal organs, death, severe bleeding, infection, lack of fertility, and has been shown to dramatically increase the number of miscarriages that happens in future pregnancies. Source With modern medicine, the maternal mortality rate during childbirth is incredibly low, however there is no actual mortality rate for women who undergo abortion procedures because many go unreported. Here's something interesting. 30% of women who have a single abortion, and go on to later have children will have a tubal pregnancy(It's in the falopian tube instead of the uterus). If they've had more than 1 abortion this number is x4. 12% of women who have this problem will die from a pregnancy-related death. So of all those teenagers that have 1 abortion as teenagers, almost 4% of them are certain to die from pregnancy-related death. The current maternal mortality rate is below 4.7 out of 100,000 births. This registers lower than .1 percent. This includes any death relating to pregnancy, childbirth or relating to the pregnancy within 42 days after childbirth. Also, the whole thing about it being riskier for teenagers to give birth is a myth. If given proper care, the babies will fare just as well and there are no increased risks for teenage births than there are for older women giving birth. Source Quote:
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I also prefer you don't put words in my mouth. I said don't have sex. Not get punished for having sex. Also, show me a figure that states how cheap education is. Why is it narrow-backwards thinking?(not that it's credible since it's just an opinion) If someone is not going to use contraceptives and does not want to get pregnant, then they shouldn't have sex. I find it funny how you totally skip over part of my posts and only quote one line from here and there that you don't like. HUMANS are the ONLY race that has sex for a purpose OTHER than baby-making. That's fine, but let's make sure we define sex here. Sex -> the act of a male and female coming together in a process to create offspring. It is the action of procreation. That is how our bodies our designed, to procreate when having sex. That's what sex is. The fact that it feels good is a nice little bonus. Compare it to driving. If you don't want to get into an accident then 1, don't drive or 2, drive safely. It's not a punishment, it's just something that happens as a result of something else. And btw, I am all for tracking men down to pay childcare. Men have risks too, they can just as easily contract STD's and there are laws requiring a man to pay for a child he fathers. Despite it not seeming 'fair' that women get 'punished' for sex and men don't, here's a simple fact: we're different, and therefore it will never be fair. Women live longer than men, is that fair? Men get taller than woman typically, is that fair? The gender's are different, and if someone has a problem with that, they really need to get over it. Quote:
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P.S., you also have to assume that the mother somehow knows that the father even got a wage increase. If I were him, I'd shut my mouth about how much I make around her, if I talk to her at all. |
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Abortion also typically does not affect future pregnancies. There is no correlation between abortion and infertility/ectopic pregnancy/etc unless an infection complicates the abortion. Abortions performed in the second trimester can occasionally lead to future premature births or low birth weight, but not significantly. In addition, complications that actually require hospitalization occur in less than .5% of abortions. Here's something interesting. 21% of women experience a pregnancy complication of some sort. By comparison, .9% of women studied here experienced a complication following abortion, and hardly a fraction of them had a complication serious enough that hospitalization is necessary. Seems to me that pregnancy has a lot more issues. Quote:
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To look at it this way: That life you speak of couldn't care less if it never comes to fruition. I mean, the only reason one can care whether or not they were aborted is because they obviously WEREN'T. Is it really, honestly less cruel to bring a child into a world where it is completely unwanted and reasonably unlikely to ever end up living above the poverty line, or even having a family? A fetus doesn't give a damn if you abort it. A child certainly cares if they aren't loved and well cared for. |
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-> If they are not ready to have a child, what is the justification of having sex? -> 50% of abortions happen to women who are making more than 30,000 dollars a year. -> I'm not condemning anyone to life of poverty. It's their choice to risk getting pregnant in the first place. -> If they can't afford the child, Adoption has basically the same emotional toll as abortion and ALL MEDICAL BILLS are paid for by the adopting family. Plus the family now gets a child that will be loved and cared for. So that's 18 years of happiness and life at the cost of 1 year of discomfort. Quote:
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B. My study was newer than yours. C. The studies came from the same source (Guttmacher). D. The newer study I provided does not support your assertion. I'll post it again since you seem to be blind. Quote:
Additionally, you saying that "high schoolers" aren't poor because they have parental support doesn't mean anything. Grandparents are under zero obligation to provide support for their grandchildren. They're also under zero obligation to provide support for their own children beyond basic needs such as food, shelter, a clean living environment, and an environment free from abuse or violence. None of which necessarily translate into money that the teen can use to support her child. When I was in high school, I got zero money from my parents. I got my lunches made for me, my clothes bought for me, and I lived in my dad's home. Any cash I wanted for myself, I had to earn. I'm still a dependent of my father, due to my status as a college student, but if I had a child right now, neither he nor I would be able to support it, because A) I make less than the poverty level and B) my dad is unemployed and doesn't give me a dime in anything, including college tuition or housing. Just because a girl has parents doesn't mean she has support. You cannot equate the two. Additionally, the father of my would-be child makes half of what I do, and he is his mother's dependent, who is currently in debt for a number of things and would also not be able to support said child. I'm lucky enough to have a disorder that renders me, for the most part, unable to have children, so it's not something that I have to worry about. My fiance has made it very clear that he opposes the notion of abortion, but understands that, were such an unlikely pregnancy happen, the only way we will be able to pay off our school debt (which can't be forgiven by bankruptcy, by the way), get decent jobs, and basically, avoid poverty altogether, is to abort the child. Adoption is not an option--that takes me out of school far too long and will cause my debt to skyrocket. I will also lose my health coverage. Quote:
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I included all complications of pregnancy, like I included all complications of abortion. Even if you assume only a third of those complications are actually serious, the rate of complication for pregnancy is still way, way higher than the rate of complication for abortion. Quote:
Your argument here appears to contradict your others. If the fetus' life is of value, why is it morally okay for some women to abort? Last I checked a fetus conceived by rape or to a poor woman is still intrinsically of the same value as all other fetuses. Or, alternately; why do you care about the plight of some women and not others? All women have reasons to get abortions, and if you asked I'm sure you'd find they are perfectly valid. Quote:
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A human fetus prior to the development of certain brain functions can't be considered any more "alive" than a human body that has experienced brain-death*. Both may be considered biologically living and both may have a beating heart, but neither has the capacity for the brain functions necessary to be considered, in the medical world, a live person.
Personally, I view this issue from a less fetii-centric perspective than most, and I think the most important thing to keep in mind is that there is no fundamental right to live inside or off of another person's body against their will. This right doesn't exist for fetii, and it doesn't exist for born human beings with full rights. |
in my opinion abortions are discusting i would never do that to my body and my child
but i guess i can understand why some people would do it, a baby can screw up your plans |
I believe that for something to be considered alive*, they must have a heartbeat AND a brainwave. Anything before those two criteria are met, and it's just a bunch of cells. So, up until that point, I'm ok with abortion, because the only thing you're really aborting is a tumor with a heartbeat. Yes, I said tumor. Because that's what it is, a group of growing cells that is feeding off the mothers body to grow, in sometimes harmful ways, and other not so harmful. So, maybe parasite would be a better analogy. Either way, you get my point. Also, the whole "Life is precious" thing. Why is an unborn, non-living life precious? Obviously that cow, which was fully alive, had a heartbeat and a brainwave, and was killed in a more inhumane way than the unborn, non-living thing probably would have been killed, you ate when you had a hamburger's life wasn't precious. What makes an unborn and non-living baby any better? To go with that statement, you have to also say ALL forms of life are precious, and not just those of your own species. For those who say; "Well, how do you know the fetus isn't living? It could have feelings." Let me say this, feelings are processed emotions, emotions are a form of thought, and thought processes take place in the brain. Said unborn, non-living has no brain. How do we know it has no brain? We don't, not for sure, however, it possesses no brain wave, so we can assume. But we can't prove that plants don't have feelings either, yet people could care less about plants. Again, referring to the whole "own species" thing. So, up until the unborn has both a heartbeat and a brainwave, it isn't considered anything in my book, and if you can't support it, then I'm fine with it being aborted. Just don't let it happen more than twice (Unless in danger of death or complication). That's where I'm stop caring about weather it's living or not, you're just being too careless by then. Because after twice, there's really no excuse, you should have learned and you should have the right of abortion taken away, and the child once it's born. Because, honestly, if someone can't be sure to not get pregnant after two abortions, then they can't be trusted with a child. That's all I have to say. *By alive, I mean living breathing animal. Plants and cells while still considered "living" they don't have any form of consciousness, making them just as unliving as the clump of cells that's a fetus. In my book anyways. |
Koatic if you don't mind I'd like to expand on your post. Not just to the cow, but what about Veal? Veal is baby calf. Its wonderously delicious when cooked right, but to pro-life, why does the calf have less of a right to live then than a fetus, when the calf is killed after being alive for only a few days?
Me, I like sex. Yes I do! And yes I am careful (birth control and condoms), but if I were to get pregnant I would abort. My life has no place for a baby right now, when I am just learning how to take care of myself. I have no problem with people who are pro-life. You want your baby, you keep your baby. Me, I can't even stand to baby-sit anyone under 5 years old, so how would I stand with a crying baby that I couldn't give back? Choice. Thats what I'm about. Everyone deserves choice. I read some posts about 'if your don't want to get pregnant don't have sex' (I'm not properly quoting because I'm not getting into back-and-forth arguements about it), well I'd like to say, try and stop me. Sex feels good. It can strengthen a relationship, and a married couple aren't going to be absinant just because they don't want a baby yet. Theres some easy thinking here. Look, I know I usually end up getting chewed up in the debate forum for lack of sources, or this-and-that. But really. Why can't we all just be pro-choice. You choose to keep it, I'll choose to abort and we'll stay out of eachothers way. |
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