I missed the times I shared with my friends but it's good to know my friends from high school, my real friends, I still have after all these years.

hmm yeah thats kind of what I'm scared of LOL i dont want to lose everyone ahahaha

you won't, I mean some you may lose touch with but the ones that are really important you will pick up where you left off.

hmmm yeah true.... but still I'd rather not lose anyone at all
I love allo my friends at school LOL

I only have lost one due to the circle of life. Life is strange that way. None of us think about it until it happens, and of course losing people while at school is always hard too.

Losing people in general is hard.
Hmm oh well I guess if you lose them than you lose them. It can't really be helped sometimes

No it can not, it is the way things are, sad, but I have learned to live with it as much as I can. Life goes on, changed, but it's kind of nice in a way because you know the person would be happy to see everyone else they knew and loved go on living their lives.

exactly..... but as you said it's still sad :(

So glad to be off work. I had the worst day ever. I was basically told by my boss that one of the parents considered me unsafe to be alone with their child.

Liu dear what's all this drama with you hating on your work? I keep seeing your FB riddled with sad things~~ TT What are they doing to you? Do I need to kill them?

Voooooeeeeee loe loe loe oooeeeee.
Yes, lol.

No, here is the thing. I have had nothing but issues with this job since I got here to Japan and really, it is kinda because I am an American working at a Japanese school with American children. My boss is Asian but American and lives in Georigia right now. I have had problems but the straw was when a parent considered me unsafe and was LIVID that I took his child for a walk. Well truth be told, I see both sides, careless and as naive as it was I should have just not taken the child for a walk. It was hard for me to realize this since while we are at the park, I take the children to the bathroom, which involves a walk, sometimes alone, back to school with 1 child, maybe 2. Letting children change their clothes if they have had an accident. I knew about the parent being mad but it was only confirmed by my boss yesterday and confirmed the child will now be pulled out of our class and put in another. Now the walk alone is not the sole reason the child is leaving, it's for other things too. The child was my only kindergartener and it was suggested by my boss to take the kindergarteners on nature walks and things. We discussed the parts of the life and ate snack. The way I see it, if their child was in any danger the child would have told it's parents as the child does even when they have to do class chores and was then told my their mother they didn't have to clean.
Truth be told, yes it's good that the child is being moved because the child's parents are drama. At the same time I have learned my lesson and understood completely why they were upset, I personally DO NOT want to work with children again and find another vocation. As I am turning 30, I hope I find it soon.

And see not many know, I think you and Deilen and Vicky may that I had to pay to get here myself, the military didn't pay for me to be here. So with that also comes a restriction of where I can work. So it's tough finding another job. I almost had another one but I said no, let me stick the shitty one out, it's getting better, well it gets better, then worse, better, then worse and I am fucking done with this shit, to put it bluntly.

woah! that sucks!!! some people are so rude!!!
it sounds like your boss can be a pain.....

Liiiuuuuuu li li lii. :drool:

You took a child for a walk and the parent went insane? What the hell? Does this parent have some kind of huge grudge against you what's with that? Even from the parent's point of view I can't really relate to their concern unless you randomly went across town with their kid or some odd as fuck thing like that. >w >;

What kind of jobs can you actually try to go for, though? How annoying, Liu. What drama.. -__-

@sweet, she can be at times, my coworkers get frustrated as well. It does suck, I have decided to chock it up as lesson learned and move on, though I was truly hurt.

@Voe-Agreed, I was like okay we went on a 20 min walk and were around other people and were at a place that we sometimes take the kids. I don't know Voe, I know I can work on the marine bases or off base. I was in the running for a travel agent job and decided not to go to my 2nd interview, worst mistake ever. It is very annoying.

Now, to boot, I find out that one of the children "ready" to do extra work with the kindergarteners is not ready after I told her mom that she was because my coworker told me...so I rally for other children to do the same when I shouldn't have even tried for ours to do kindergarten in the 1st place, we only have 1 maybe 2 ready...grrrr.

hmm yeah... still a bummer though

I agree sweet, on another note, where did this cute little cat to my right come from?

it was sent out if you were active during the halloween event *sad face* sweet thought she was active eough to get one but didnt

Say what!? See then that is cool but lame. I saw you around, I mean, I wonder what makes one active and what makes one get 2 or even 1? Is there a thread about them somewhere?

yeah Sweet thought she was active enough..

Did you go back and try to count? I didn't realize I posted as much as I did.

LOL nah i'm to lazy hahahaha

Yeah I am too that is why I had no clue how I even got the Catnip pixels. I didn't even know where to look for the thread.

Luinesta, wow you look simply amazing! -jaw drops and bows before you-

Thank you, I am vicious kitty! RAWR! ha ha.

LOL yeah its okay hhahahah

pretty kitteh!!