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Why everyone thinks I'm perfect? I have flaws! ¬¬
There's one thing in my family that annoys me: Everyone thinks I can't do ANYTHING wrong!
I have a horrible memory. I forget about everything. When people don't say I have to do something,I WILL FORGET! So,I didn't went to my classes. I got late... Everyone is yelling at me. I'm fucking angry... And my aunt don't even help me. She don't do anything to help me. and treats me like a slave. :-x Saying almost that I MUST do everything right,that I can't feel rage... I know I'm not right,but...C'mon...I never said I was perfect. They should HELP me. Not yell because I have a fucking flaw that I want to get rid but I don't know HOW TO. |
*hugs* It's ok honey. But first, I have to say that skipping class is not a good thing... but thats beside the point...
I have the same problem. People expect things from me, and when I don't do it, it lets them down. And I'm empathetic, so when I let people down, I get depressed... It's like me and my brother are taking the same college course. I'm getting 7-80's, and all I get is a "thats what we expect from you". My brother is 4 years older than me, and getting 60's and everyone says "Well done! Thats amazing!" So first time I failed an assignment, it was ike this great family disapointment. Theres nothing really you can do, except remind everyone that you're not perfect, remind them that you're only human. Try asking your parents about anytime they screwed up. Tell your aunt that you are allowed to have a life. |
*hugs*
most people have flaws, i have flaws greater than yours; i hardly don't lissten to people, and your family expects you to do well cuz they are used to the fact that you do things well. the yelling part will pass, dont worry it will all blow over once you do something amazing! |
@Syraanna: *hugs back*
I know that is not good. I need to study hard this year... and I'm not doing it D: Me too,but when I'm sad,I really get angry. It's my horrible way to express... I almost always fail. they just yell saying lots of things that just means: "YOU SHOULD DO IT PERFECTLY WAH WAH WAH" they don't help me to do better,they just yell and say things that don't help me,even a little. I remind them. My mom acts like she hears,but soon after,she starts all over. It annoys me. A lot. And she doesn't even try to help me the way I need to. My aunt doesn't understand... D: @Aine: *hugs back* It's strange a person that don't have even a little flaw... O: Or they are RL mary-sues or they are good actors/actresses! But this whole year I'm failing. Just they don't get that I need help. and yelling stupid things at me don't help. I need to find something good to do... I think I'm kinda better now,I will tidy up my room(the second time in 2 months,I'm so lazy XD) *giggles* Everyone was so nice on awnsering my thread! <3 |
Sparklypoo, i bet your anut didnt give you dating advice when you where like 16 did she? mine did
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ok neither of you had your aunt come up to you during Christmas dinner when you were 14, asking if you had a boyfriend
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