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Kat Dakuu 12-31-2009 07:19 AM

I'm glad we people in the cone dress look so yummy to you Nenna...

sailor star rainbow 12-31-2009 07:20 AM

Dose any one rembere there first love are there first crush?

Hayzel 12-31-2009 07:21 AM

My husband was my first crush. and I was his. It was seriously love at first site.

Kat Dakuu 12-31-2009 07:22 AM

I haven't had a first love yet...*sigh* no crushes really either

Nanenna 12-31-2009 07:22 AM

I don't think I've ever really had a crush until I met my husband. But most of my emotions feel pretty muted to me (apparently people who've known me for a while can pick up what's going on better than I can and my husband can read my like a book!) so I can't really be sure...

sailor star rainbow 12-31-2009 07:22 AM

Oh my how sweet Hayzel

love shiine* 12-31-2009 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Mirianna Fayth (Post 1766037534)
Oh I;ve learned that, it's just when I give it thought, those pop into my head first, I just hate how the world, decides all your friends need to date but you don;t need to. Then when I mention this to my friends, they all give me that same crappy, you don't need a boyfriend, and you'll be fine stop being so petty. I think oh that's to say coming for someone in a relationship, and I never said I needed one, it would be nice, and I want to be not single for once since freaking high school, hell I'll settle for a date, or even one guy who I dislike romantically at least liking me.

Yes I know exactly how you feel. And none of my friends understand when I try to rant to them. I even try to my closest friend and she just says how it must suck. But she doesn't sound like she actually cares and it just makes me more upset. I just get these nights where I'm just super upset for no reason and most of my friends can't even try to understand it.
Okay guys have liked me in the past but they were so obsessive and creeperish that they like suffocated my life. I kid you not. One tried to force his way to my house and another kept harassing me for naked pictures. The second guy was more tolerable than the first, believe it or not. And I admit I liked the attention but obviously that's not the kind of person I trust to have a relationship with. I just don't know how to go about anything. Ever. =/

Hayzel, I'm alright. Just a bit tired. It's late where I am.

Ivvy 12-31-2009 07:28 AM

Sadly the first boy I loved broke my heart.. but we are still friends now. We are spending New Years at his place actually. He after 5 years of dating came out of the closet so to speak. So it wasn't that he didn't love everything about me.. I was just not a boy. >.< It was awkward and painful but better that he was true to himself. Our friendship grew out of that. And I met my fiance.... after I moved to a new school shortly after.. he was just so perfect for me.. even more so than my first love. And well they are nothing alike. >.<

Nanenna 12-31-2009 07:29 AM

Ah hah hah! I am done making EIs! Now onto making at least 29 bowls so I can get the commons! *Crazy laughter*

Stageman87 12-31-2009 07:30 AM

Alright I added the honey to my tea. It nice and sweet but next time I will probably not add it to me Oolong its not the kind of tea that need sweeting. I do have lots of tea with fruit in them that would tasted great with it though.

P.S. Got enough ginger to get my festive background. Very happy Goal achieved

love shiine* 12-31-2009 07:31 AM

@Ivvy one of my friends told me that she dated a guy through 4 years of high school and then after graduation, he came out to her. She said she's still kind of disappointed but she understands the situation. That is kind of rough but I'm sure it's okay now. At least it wasn't anything personal.

Kat Dakuu 12-31-2009 07:31 AM

that''s so much Nenna! I'm so poor right now...

Nanenna 12-31-2009 07:31 AM

I'm glad you experimented, Stage. That can be a brave thing to do. And you learned something from it, I'm proud of you. *hugs*

What the? Where'd all my ginger go? D:

Hayzel 12-31-2009 07:32 AM

My husband is my absolute best friend. He knows all my secrets and knows me better than anyone else. and somehow he still puts up with me. ^^

Kat Dakuu 12-31-2009 07:33 AM

exactly Nenna. that's what I've been saying for half an hour now! where'd my ginger go?!

Mirianna Fayth 12-31-2009 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by love shiine* (Post 1766037604)
Yes I know exactly how you feel. And none of my friends understand when I try to rant to them. I even try to my closest friend and she just says how it must suck. But she doesn't sound like she actually cares and it just makes me more upset. I just get these nights where I'm just super upset for no reason and most of my friends can't even try to understand it.
Okay guys have liked me in the past but they were so obsessive and creeperish that they like suffocated my life. I kid you not. One tried to force his way to my house and another kept harassing me for naked pictures. The second guy was more tolerable than the first, believe it or not. And I admit I liked the attention but obviously that's not the kind of person I trust to have a relationship with. I just don't know how to go about anything. Ever. =/

Hayzel, I'm alright. Just a bit tired. It's late where I am.

Well that's understandable, with the friends thing, I don't even mention it to my friends anymore. They don't care, and I'm not gonna let them make me feel like crap, though it sucks to hold it in since, you know you have no one who cares enough to hear it. I've never had a creepy stalker guy, I had an ex who turned out to be a creepy kid, he threaten to kill me. So yeah.

My first love broke my heart in two, and even though he said he loved me more than anything or one in the world, within a month or two after we broke up, he was dating a friend, of mine. They broke up, and he then screwed another friend of mine, him and I aren;t on bad terms, but we don;t talk.

Nanenna 12-31-2009 07:34 AM

Egads, those houses just ATE up all my ginger! I better scramble for what bowls I can get. When does the event end?

Sovie Kays 12-31-2009 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Stageman87 (Post 1766037648)
Alright I added the honey to my tea. It nice and sweet but next time I will probably not add it to me Oolong its not the kind of tea that need sweeting. I do have lots of tea with fruit in them that would tasted great with it though.


I told you not to honey.. tsktsk..

Adding my own personal tidbit to the topic, I'm a love-virgin myself. Never seriously crushed, nor been crushed on. I've.. 'experienced' secondhand 'love' and I didn't like it much. It ended badly and it was built on solid foundation too. But I hold that I'm too young. Young people should be able to bounce back. I feel like love isn't something that should be messed with and that both parties should go into a serious relationship armed with the knowledge that they're looking for serious. And if it's not serious, then that fact should be acknowledged.

star2000shadow 12-31-2009 07:35 AM

Kate I LOVE your Siggy XD

love shiine* 12-31-2009 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Mirianna Fayth (Post 1766037677)
Well that's understandable, with the friends thing, I don't even mention it to my friends anymore. They don't care, and I'm not gonna let them make me feel like crap, though it sucks to hold it in since, you know you have no one who cares enough to hear it. I've never had a creepy stalker guy, I had an ex who turned out to be a creepy kid, he threaten to kill me. So yeah.

My first love broke my heart in two, and even though he said he loved me more than anything or one in the world, within a month or two after we broke up, he was dating a friend, of mine. They broke up, and he then screwed another friend of mine, him and I aren;t on bad terms, but we don;t talk.

Ah that's kinda awful. I wouldn't talk to him either after that! >:[

Hayzel 12-31-2009 07:35 AM

come on... I need one more ginger x.x

Kat Dakuu 12-31-2009 07:36 AM

thanks Star. Kah just up and drew it for me. makes me feel so special!! I think I was cute and there that day so she drew me!

sailor star rainbow 12-31-2009 07:36 AM

My first crush was back in garde school but once I tolled him. I had a crush on him and he tolled me no body would ever love me. I porved his tail wrong I found my 2 crush in middle school but he moved away. still dose not know what ever happen to him at all.

Mirianna Fayth 12-31-2009 07:37 AM

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Originally Posted by love shiine* (Post 1766037703)
Ah that's kinda awful. I wouldn't talk to him either after that! >:[

There is much worseness to it, but I don't wanna put it out there since I'm over all of that it was 3 years ago. My favorite ex is the one that dumped me over facebook. I'm kidding about him being my favorite..XD. The funny thing is Lady Gaga's Bad Romance song just came on LMAO.

Hayzel 12-31-2009 07:37 AM

Sailor, good for you for proving him wrong.


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