agree... if he is just hurting you end it. even if you dont have another guy to go to. END IT!! we do not need men to be who we are. we are women and we do not need a man.

You two are right, Elysium and celestial.
*huggles Rose* You are so right.

Mehi: You're probably quite depressed, and seriously should talk with a counselor. I've been to see several, some of them not useful, some incredibly helpful and life-altering. If you want to be happy, go to a therapist.

did you see my post? were all unanimous you should b more selfish >.<

I used to see a therapist about my depression. That was over a year ago. Mom won't let me go back. She said I didn't need to see her because I really didn't have a reason to be depressed.

Thanks guys. This will be a change for me. I am not used to being selfish.

hahah. . . iin a sad way, that is so true, all the good one's are gay *sigh*

Mehi-- you dkon't need a boyfriend to be happy. And you don't need a boyfriend to have a life adn find fun things to do. Honest, it is not necessarry to have a guy to be able to live. Don't you have a girlfriends you can hang out with to jump start your independence again?

*Sigh* If I knew you in real life I would come over to your house, drag you out, and show you what happy is. But, because I can't, I'll tell you here that happy comes from within you. Not from others. Not from possessions. Not from anything outside of you. It all comes from your soul. I also know for sure that it definitely does not come from the male species on most counts.

Until you are happy with yourself you can't be happy in anything else. Get the darkness out of your life. Start with that boyfriend. It may be the scariest thing you've yet to do, but there will come a time that you look back at it as the best thing you've ever done for yourself. Happy is a process, love. A process we all have to learn. We aren't born knowing how to be happy.

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Lol, yes: be selfish! It's necessary sometimes. Fight for yourself.

I second ElysiumFate. Remember the Dementors from the HP universe? The only way to fend them off is through your own happy memories.

I second this... it was not untill I dumped my last boyfriend that I started seeing a new world out there. I now go out with my friends and done think about needing a boyfriend to be happy. now one would be nice to cuddle with but I can live without until I find the right one.

Ok guys!! You all win. I will get rid of the boyfriend and find my own happiness. I promise!!

Yesyes! Do please let us know how it goes -- if it takes longer than the event, I'd love to see you in the Life Issues forum, where I'm usually to be found.

Someone take a picture of her post so she cant break the promise :) :hug:

I will be sure to track you down, anime!!

Cloud, I won't! I will do it.

if I have to I will do what a friend of mine did. I will bug you about your interests then find out what city you live in and find a group of people that have the same interests as you.
my friend made me promise that I would go to a RCSteampunk meet up. it was the best thing that happend to me.

Done! Let me just put it up on photobucket...

@Anime: Is your ear grey? *cough*

@Mehi: Yes, please don't let it end with Mene! Actually do it! You might hate every second of the doing and you might still not like it for a couple of weeks, but you will eventually be proud of yourself. Go for it!

http://i637.photobucket.com/albums/u...at121727AM.png

@Elysium: I think you're right. Is this something I can fix myself?

Anime-- good

Mehi-- you will be quizzed on the outcome later.

Mehi, just out of curiosity, how old are you?

*looks at Anime's ear* *blink* hahahahha

Yes, just go to the place where you change your avatar. Go to the ear bit, and re-save it. This should fix it. If it doesn't, toggle between the ears and then go back to the one you want and save it.

Anime-- do you have an item on that might only be sticking out a tiny bit in that spot?

23, anime, I'm 23. Lol at the ear.

Nah. Tis the ear. Sometimes it gets stuck that way if you change skins too quickly.

it is like Gaia's green spot of DOOM *points at the ear*