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Chi 05-30-2010 01:55 AM

Oooh.. x.x

I'd say talk to Aaron beforehand so you guys can set up a schedule beforehand to talk to the kids about. I think it's cool to have company over, but I also think it's more than fair to kick everyone outside for some play time if it's for extended visits. You guys will need your sanity too! :XD

Izumi 05-30-2010 02:00 AM

I think I'm the one who needs the sanity...Aaron still has work to go to to get away from them for a little bit. I'll be the one playing full time mom. :XP

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Mmm I wish I bought the fondant set from emporio palazzo when it was part of the event. The Fondant fur trimmed cape looks beautiful. I gave aaron my white fur cape. :XP

I still have the white version of the dress...but ouch at 400g a pop for the pieces it's going to be a really expensive dress to buy.

Chi 05-30-2010 02:02 AM

There is that. :lol:

But seriously, just talk to them about your schooling. Even if they just settle in quietly with a movie you should be able to get your work done. Kids like breaks too from parental figures anyway.

Now you give me a strategy for telling my newborn to entertain herself while I do my homework. I'm trying to think that one through. :XD (I kid. Cole and I will be on shifts when it comes to our homework.)

Izumi 05-30-2010 02:05 AM

LOL. I was going to say there isn't much reasoning with a newborn. The only response they know is to cry and what it is they want or need has to be deciphered. :P

Chi 05-30-2010 02:07 AM

I hope it doesn't take me too long to figure out the "I'm hungry" versus "I'm bored" or "LEAVE ME ALONE!" and "I'm wet" cries. :XD

I definitely don't want to have to feed her every time she cries. I could luck out and she wants chill time of her own, like on a play mat in front of me or something while I read.

Izumi 05-30-2010 02:11 AM

I think it's a trial and error thing, and once you get the kid into a routine you know when to expect the 'I'm hungry' cry as it'll be almost on que. The dirty diaper thing is hard to miss too as you can either smell it or feel it and you know.

My friend next door went through three hellish months with her colicky newborn as he just would not settle down into a nice routine and she was constantly telling me she hadn't had a full 8 hour sleep since the kid was born. He's finally getting to the point where he takes longer and longer naps and she's slowly got him into schedule. He will cry because he's bored or lonely though and doesn't like it when you put him down. He'll fight sleep too which is annoying.

Chi 05-30-2010 02:13 AM

My nephew always slept well once he got to bed, but for a long time he would also fight sleep. He didn't want to miss anything going on.

But we lucked out raising him since he started sleeping through the night well before 3 months old. I want to say that he was sleeping through the night within a month. He wasn't one for night feedings. Too preoccupied with slumber I guess? He was fat (and I do mean fat) so he definitely had enough food intake during the day! :XD

Izumi 05-30-2010 02:19 AM

Awww. I bet he was a cutie. :3

I'm going for the sexy french maid look but we need more items to pull it off I think. A nice short frilly apron. And that funky maid hat for the head.

Chi 05-30-2010 02:20 AM

I wonder if the Ayumi's Hat thing would work well with the outfit? You have a nice start on it!

Okay, I think I'm gonna wander off to get that shower and then crash for sleep. I'm up way past what-has-been my bedtime lately. :XD See you hopefully tomorrow!!

Izumi 05-30-2010 02:21 AM

Ohh I didn't think of that! I'll have to go look now.

Rest well and hopefully you won't be such a stranger. ;)

Chi 05-30-2010 02:22 AM

I shouldn't be. I'm not sure how active I'll be, but I'll at least pop on. :XD G'night!!

steelmagghia 05-30-2010 03:18 AM

Hey guys! I'm back. Dinner was delicious.

Izumi 05-30-2010 03:19 AM

WB Steel. Both Kin and Chi have gone for the night. I was gonna stay up and watch an ebay auction but it's gone past the limit I can bid now. I'm a bit frustrated. :/

steelmagghia 05-30-2010 03:23 AM

Aww, that sucks. I hate it when that happens.

You look rather adorable!

Izumi 05-30-2010 03:25 AM

Thanks steel! You look really cute too! :3

Be thankful you're single right now. I'm really kinda rubbed the wrong way with Aaron atm. He's being a bit of an asshole.

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Finally had enough of his shit and walked away into the bedroom. Whatever happened to the if you don't have something nice to say, don't say it at all...

I told him I'm not feeling well. It's rather warm in the living room and I've been feeling queasy and he's giving me shit about how it's over that auction. Well no I'm not very happy about that, seeing I was prepared to stay up until 2am to win it...but at the same time me not feeling well isn't due to it. Then to have him say jackass things like that.

I'm going to tell him tonight is a wonderful time for him to go sleep in the kid's bedroom as I don't want him near me right now.

steelmagghia 05-30-2010 03:37 AM

Heh, it's always fun and games until somebody gets jerky.

I'm rather enjoying singleton, actually. It's easier than putting up with someone else's crap.

Izumi 05-30-2010 03:41 AM

Well it's funny he's reverted to acting like an asshole again. We pissed eachother off last night as we were super annoyed about our internet flaking out. We called the ISP and according to them we weren't suppose to get it back till they swapped out our modem, which wasn't going to happen until Thursday. Well I'm suppose to go get my books on Tuesday and I was hoping to get an early start on my classes before then.

Then he came home for lunch today, brought me something too from McDs and was all nice and lovey dovey. We had a quicky, he leaves for work, then he's come home and sat and bitched about how he hasn't gotten to play any golf and once again saying he should sell his clubs.

Then he starts getting all nasty with me when I'm already not in the mood for it and seriously going to do him a favor and throw his clubs away for him so he can no longer bitch.

He's like get ahold of your friend so she can get me in to play golf at Arcadia Bluffs (really expensive golf course) cause that's the only way I'll get to play. (I haven't really talked to her in awhile and I feel so bad asking as it feels like I'm using her...)

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He's also further pissed me off by some of the things he's said about MY hobby.

This is going to end up in a bitter fight as he'll bitch and whine I have all the fun money and he's left with nothing, while he sits and screws around on World of Warcraft which I was NOT happy about him getting in the first place. Ever since he's registered he's spent his ENTIRE nights after work fucking around on it.

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And yah sorry for the rant but I'm really wishing I had a driver's license so I can spend the night at a friends and just have some space.

steelmagghia 05-30-2010 03:49 AM

Aww man. It sucks when fights escalate like that. But you can rant to me.

Izumi 05-30-2010 03:50 AM

Thanks steel. :)

I'm glad since I really don't want to say anything to further screw things up. I just wish he'd realize what a jerk he's being...

So how are you this fine night? Hopefully life is treating you good. I haven't seen you in AGES and have been thinking of you.

steelmagghia 05-30-2010 03:53 AM

Yeah, you definitely shouldn't say much, since it tends to just make jerkitude worse until the person is ready to calm down.

I'm doing really good, actually. It's nice to be making a decision and a change in life. It feels really good.

Izumi 05-30-2010 03:55 AM

I remember you said something about moving. Why you decide to move? I bet your friends are gutted. You seem like a pretty awesome person to hang around.

steelmagghia 05-30-2010 03:59 AM

Awww, thanks hon!
Yeah, basically I'm moving back because the University here has worked with me so much better than A&M has. And I can get the same degree and get a vet job easier. Plus, cost of living is cheaper.

Izumi 05-30-2010 04:00 AM

Awesome! Good to hear you haven't given up on living up your dreams. :)

I wish I hadn't thrown in the towel the first time around. Trying to go back to school now is definitely more challenging. Saying that at least I'm not having to put up with my mother anymore.

steelmagghia 05-30-2010 04:04 AM

It's hard to give up on a dream you've had since you were six. I'm pretty much going to have to be beaten over the head with a big fat "no" stick several times before I give up. It's just going to take a lot longer than originally planned.

Izumi 05-30-2010 04:07 AM

That sucks on it taking longer. :/

Man I'm 100 coins short of getting something from the shop that I think would help complete this outfit. Tried playing fish on my netbook but it's not having it tonight. Bit choppy with lag.

Hopefully I'll get some more tickets from doing tasks today.


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