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*cusses and blinds* i hate this house T.T must go listen to loud music to get out of system
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i understand, yamiko. But I'm calling it as i see it. to the outside eye, you were defending your position on how you saw things, though you really could have done it differently. Be a little more sensitive to other people's feelings. Put yourself in Ruby's shoes. What if you had a brother with PTSD, has seisures, and probably couldn't talk about what he saw to help him feel better about things and someone said what you said to ruby. You'd want to defend him.
Instead of a week, i've decided that's pointless and harsh. you know the rules. no drama. It's CLEARLY stated. So, just come back tomorrow afternoon. and for both of your future references, if you have an issue, take if off the thread, wait till monday, or just don't talk about it or to eachother untill you calm down. It's REALLY not that hard. Ruby, I can tell that you were upset, but you need to understand, that the whole reason i have selected monday to let it out without any repercussions, is because people need to know that you're upset or offended by something. this whole drama thing could have waited till monday. and if you forgot about it, it wouldn't have made any difference. You'd have been a little upset for a while, but hey, you'll come around and talk to yami again, or maybe not. My problem is not that you two were arguing, it's that it made the thread feel dramatic. When people are upset, or one person's upset, and the other is being insensitive, it doesn't make a very happy atmosphere. Silent harmony was created to get away from drama. If you knew my past with other threads on menewsha, then you'd understand. (i.e. Black And White) ---------- Chey and Yamiko, Kudos on getting the random page prize grant! ^^ (to chey cause i like the page number and the number 4. To Yami for having 10000th post) |
Actually I wouldn't defend him, I'd tell him to get over it. my brother was army and the other is air force so it's very likely to happen at some point. I just happen to have no attachment to my family like most. anyway I'll probably not come back at all, although my feelings are fine I don't particularly like confrontation and once people hate me I don't expect them to ever like me again, nor do I care to try.
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Yami, i don't think any one HATES you. It's just i think you need to realize, some people are more sensitive to things than you are, and you need to respect them for that. I really wish you would come back tomorrow,as we do like you here. We do. I just don't want the rules to be broken, and actually... it was the first two rules that were broken. you might not have realized it, but what you said was rude, and it did cause some drama. the first rule of SH is to be kind. the second is no drama. take a look at them again before you come back tomorrow.
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and it dies again :/ i know lets write a play, that will be allowed drama, right? xD dont worry im just messing
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wow alot of drama happened here...ummm so whats up?
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the sky is up! i had an argument with my hubby cause his sister wound me up but 'this Halloween' makes everything better xD
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im great on halloween i will be 15 and learn how to drive >.< and so are the clouds how will this halloween will make it better o-0?
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hey hey hey... Since Yue's not near a computer... or wasn't last i checked.... go here really fast and then resume your normal activities :]
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I'm sorry that I added to the drama and frankly that's why I left because I didn't want to say something that was really dramatic. I prefer to walk away rather then argue but in this case I was defending my family. As I'm sure you can and do understand.
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i understand ruby yami can be mean somtimes.
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*Wanders in* Hello?
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Hi and bye Wynn, I am off to bed for the night. I feel so drained right now, I think I'm coming down with a really bad cold.
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Then get to bed silly butt. :P
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boys are stupid...
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*giggles* Hi Rena and yes they are. ^_^
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hi everyone
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Morning Desi
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morning wulf
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How's it goin?
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okay i guess,you?
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Doing alright. Just another night of work.
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ah.for me its another lonely and boring night where the depression sinks in.
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Awww...:hug:
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yeah though for me thats normal
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