Smelyalata dahling(:
 

that's a nevershoutnever reference, in the title, incase you didn't catch that.
y'know. . .smelyalata. . .smell you later, see ya later...
ANYWAY

I was wondering if anyone has ever been in a situation where you just said goodbye to someone/something in your life that was really negative to your well being or something.
I've had to do it with a lot of friends lately that were really not my friends at all or weren't the type of people I want to be associated with and had to let go of.
Have you ever been in that kinda situation?

I recently did that with a job I had earlier this year. The job itself was fine, but the social environment was absolutely toxic and some of the things that the people in charge just let slide were borderline illegal. So, for the first time ever, I quit without having another job lined up immediately (I was supposed to have one start about a month later, but that fell through for completely unrelated reasons).

I did get invited back for another position, and for a simultaneous volunteer position, but I have since declined both opportunities. I really have no desire to further my association with that organization in any capacity. The whole ordeal resulted in me seeking counseling even, and I have never voluntarily done that before. It was so emotionally and psychologically draining to be there.

I saw my hs b/f yesterday it took so much strength to hold it together. But he cant be in my life im married and there is no room for him there. So i'm just movin on lol