I put a lot of trust into those I get into relationships with, so I don't need to have them next to me (I still want them next to me though.)

@Yami
I love that. Though I also tend to randomly turn over and give them a kiss on the cheek or a random hug every now and then.

yami can't do that rad-kun......

the only man yami has ever loved was perfect for yami but because it was long distance and we both craved each other physically it hurt more to be together then apart..... that's why yami won't do long distance ever again

I'm not looking for any relationships right now, if it happens it happens, if not no big deal. :V

Mmmm.... I was long distance with my last girlfriend for a while. Almost a year... but then we moved in together, and all that time was worth it. That's why I'm still willing to do long distance relationships, as long as one of the two people are willing to do what it takes to stay together.

yami's lack of trust in people is probably what ruins yami's relationships :lol:

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he and I are both military, being together would've been impossible if we had tried anything short of getting married.

@Yami
*hugs* I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out. Are you both going to be career military though? Maybe something can happen in the future after one of you gets out.

he's definitely going career and I'm considering it. it's been 5 months though so I'm starting to move past it.....

If Yami goes career military, she could find a guy who isn't military, if she decides to find anyone at all~ Otherwise, just sex. But I can't just do sex with people, ;-;. I don't get anything out of it. I have to have an emotional connection with the person I'm having sex with to feel anything. Otherwise it just feels like masturbation.

I'm still a virgin. <.<

if yami was staying in grand forks then the guys she currently likes would be more then just a sex buddy >.>

anyway yami is gonna go to the shoppette and chow hall so be back soon

that's good rad-kun, yami lost her virginity to curiosity :sweat:

I don't really have much choice. xD

@Rad
Some older women dig that, :o

@Yami
Me too! *high five* xD;

Cas doesn't regret losing her virginity, nor does she regret who I lost it to. I regret how easy I became after, though XD;; I mean, I only regret one of the three guys, but that one guy... x_X

I like older women. :0

Yeah, I don't regret anything I've done. It has helped me to shape who I am nowadays.

And being easy isn't always a bad thing. Just as long as certain precautions are taken.

yea.... yami's gonna go get food stuffs now >.> *wanders out after noming cas-chan*

well after your first time it's kinda seems like not such a big deal.... at least to yami it became that way, but yami's only had 2 partners still :lol:

Yami's partners weren't very good though, or so she said, :O

I know I must be godly in bed, cause I'm Rad.

I'm glad I waited as long as I did, or I'd probably be a mom by now... or... or have something o_O

I waited until I was... 19. And it was with an older guy. He's sweet tho <3

@Rad
No, :stare:

To be good in bed, you need a through understanding of female anatomy, as well as an understanding of how females think differently of sex than men do.

And I was 19 when I lost mine too, xD;

o.o No, I just want Tylenol to pay me for talking about them. >:D Free Money man, awaaaayy!

Way to shoot my ego through the egoheart. :C

@Rad
It's not quite as hard as it is made out to be. The first thing you want to do is build anticipation. Guys like to go straight for the naughty stuff. Don't. Start with kissing and massaging. Kiss her over her whole body and all that, but ignore the sexual bits for quite some time. Then when you do start messing with those, start around the outsides and slowly work your way in and all that. Make it about her, and all that jazz~

o.o I'm scared, I have no gun/ weapon.