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SaetonChapelle 09-13-2010 04:25 PM

Craigs List
 
Craigs list has entered the internet, and now it is virtually possible to find pretty much anything you are looking for minus the need for ebay, whether it be car parts or meeting your own personal needs.

I found something interesting the other day though. A friend of mine asked me to play the "Craigs List game" where we go on and we try to find the most interesting things in the personal ads. Mind you prior to this I had never even been ON Craigs list, so I had no idea what I was getting myself into.

Upon going there I see the "Females looking for Males" which was a nice collection of women of all ages looking for someone casual to date for a certain amount of time, or even some serious ones. The "Females looking for Females" was pretty much the same, minus a few. I saw "Males looking for Females" which had some men looking for women for both casual, something quick, and longterm. Nothing abnormal. Then I went into the same sex males section.

a lot of these were quite interesting. I saw some posts which had titles such as "Looking for son", which explained in details those looking for younger males and interesting activities (you fill in the blanks). I also found sections stating "looking for a good time. Meet in the back of the woods. Do not inform anyone, come alone." or "leave before 10. wife coming home".

This is not to say that only same sex males do this. I am sure if I looked hard enough or clicked the right links I would have found such posts for ALL relationships. I only looked at a selected few, and most happened to be on that one.

This is just in general. Do you think it's safe to go on such a site? even just buying a phone off someone, you are usually meeting up with a stranger and making a sale or some kind of transition. Someone you don't know, or who have intentions you are ignorant of. Especially these ones looking for more than just a simple meet up. When you do these things you are taking a very high risk. Is this risk worth it? Are you willing to put yourself through the danger for a simple fix?

(Once again, this is no bash to same sex males, same sex of any genders, relationships as a whole, or looking online for some type of relationship. All these are great ways to meet people, and can create fantastic relationships.)

AmyHeartXVIII 09-13-2010 05:33 PM

As for safety, it is highly unsafe. A friend of mine uses the site to date, and he always carries a knife with him when he goes to meet someone in case it does get dangerous. It is an easy way to find what you are looking for but, as with all "easy way out" schemes, there are potential dangers. You could be scammed if you're looking for a product, raped if you're meeting someone, even kidnapped or killed. But regardless of whether it is safe or not, people will continue to create and use sites like CraigsList.

Personally, I think it's a very useful tool. But with any tool, you must use caution.

Bippy 09-13-2010 10:47 PM

Craigslist can be a very helpful tool if you are looking for a job, an apartment, or furniture for said apartment (I'm looking to move is it obvious?) However I don't know how I feel about using the site for dating. It might be a good way to meet people, but I guess with any online dating site there are some risks involved.

SesshysMiko 09-17-2010 05:08 AM

I bought my iPod touch, a few swords, and two desk chairs from people on Craigslist. It's been normal every time but of course with any meeting someone online in real life, it can be dangerous. I've never looked for any relationships on there so I don't know about all that, I usually don't go near that part of the site lol I stay very near my area because it's a small community and people are usually decent. I wouldn't look in Charlotte (a biiiiiig city) which is like 1-2 hours away for something though cause that's just scary lol

Mystic 09-17-2010 02:58 PM

Craislist CAN be very dangerous. I've used it to buy pet supplies. I've also had some pretty weird people contact me. I had a job offer from Playboy Energy that tried not paying me. I reported them to the state and they had to give me my money. I had a lady that wanted to buy a hamster cage off me that then invited me to go to her house with her. I didn't go but she gave off this huge negative vibe. I also met an ex off there. She came to my house at 5.30 in the morning wanting to get back together and she pretty much stalked me. Luckily she stopped after about a month.

I also met my now very good friend off there and bought many things without problems. It all depends on your intuition and it's a case by case basis on creeps. You just have to be careful and know who you are dealing with. Never going to homes and meeting in public is always a good idea too.

SaetonChapelle 09-19-2010 02:12 AM

New update!

My friend bought a phone recently from Craigslist from this young girl, maybe 16 or 17. (okay, not young to a lot of you, whatever) Well usually when you give your phone to someone you delete your personal information. This girl chose not to. Suddenly we were attacked by her e-mails and my curious friend decided to take a look at the other things this girl was selling.

Apparently she was selling her panties. Okay, I know there IS a business which does this (you should see my town, you'd understand) Well apparently she will only sell them if she goes TO YOUR HOUSE and takes them off IN FRONT OF YOU. And she was charging something like $200 per.

Crazy right?

Maybe it's just my town...

SesshysMiko 09-19-2010 02:22 AM

@SaetonChapelle: Sorry but I just have to say............creepy/nasty/insane much?! That's just disgusting :/

SaetonChapelle 09-19-2010 02:28 PM

Isn't it! xDDDD I find it hilarious! I love people!!!!!

Poor disturbed child.

Mystic 09-19-2010 02:47 PM

Ew...yeah there is a huge market for used panties. She's an idiot for going to people's houses. That's just saying "rape me". Maybe she's a prostitute though and that's how she starts her deals. Either way it's disturbing to say the least.

Aspinou 09-19-2010 08:31 PM

Ok I just have to say that's disturbed! That girl can't be feeling very good... It's just a matter of time before she gets raped or worse! D:

Leenalia 09-21-2010 07:52 PM

She's probably whoring herself out already.

I go on craigslist only to find jobs and to find cheap electronics like laptops, but usually I don't find anything that catches my interest.

Vickicat 10-05-2010 02:35 AM

Craigslist.
 
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Originally Posted by SaetonChapelle (Post 1768305409)
New update!

My friend bought a phone recently from Craigslist from this young girl, maybe 16 or 17. (okay, not young to a lot of you, whatever) Well usually when you give your phone to someone you delete your personal information. This girl chose not to. Suddenly we were attacked by her e-mails and my curious friend decided to take a look at the other things this girl was selling.

Apparently she was selling her panties. Okay, I know there IS a business which does this (you should see my town, you'd understand) Well apparently she will only sell them if she goes TO YOUR HOUSE and takes them off IN FRONT OF YOU. And she was charging something like $200 per.

Crazy right?

Maybe it's just my town...

Ew, she is a total idiot. I've heard of this before, apparently middle and high school girls in Japan do it all the time. There's apparently a lot of perverted men there who want used panties from underaged girls. Really creepy. I've never heard of people doing it anywhere else, though it's not that surprising that they are. I have seen some scary things on Craigslist. A friend of mine once went into the section where people pretty much sell themselves... There were some pretty awful pictures in that section. I've never bought or sold anything on Craigslist... I've been considering it but I don't like the idea of having to meet some stranger from there... I've met plenty of people from the internet, but they have always been either good friends I've known online for many years, or people from sites like this, people who I know are most likely going to be pretty normal people. Whereas sites like Craigslist, I've seen firsthand there are some weirdos there. Still, meeting someone somewhere and making a transaction is in a lot of ways more convenient to me than having to ship something through the mail.

DariaMorgendorfer 10-05-2010 04:10 AM

LOL, I was playing on Craig's list the other day....I bought a lamp. Can I win for most boring use of Craig's list when compared with all the folks looking for sex?

Mystic 10-06-2010 08:01 PM

I used it for dating and met someone that seems normal right now. XD I've only known her for three weeks so far though. But it can be a good place to meet new people you just have to fish through and find a "diamond in the rough" so to speak.

Polarisld33 10-06-2010 08:13 PM

All things considered, how different is Craig's List than looking for the same stuff in the want ads in a newspaper? Either one can be a great resource as long as you're careful and use common sense. I bought my car off Craig's List and it was a better deal than I could have ever hoped to find at a dealership.

Keyori 10-06-2010 08:51 PM

If I were a high school dropout, I'd look for jobs on craigslist. There's a lot of catering and retail postings in my area. Perfect for finding jobs for someone with no education.

I've never used it though.

Also, I think this is more of a discussion topic than a debate topic.

Polarisld33 10-11-2010 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Keyori (Post 1768427008)
If I were a high school dropout, I'd look for jobs on craigslist. There's a lot of catering and retail postings in my area. Perfect for finding jobs for someone with no education.

I've never used it though.

Also, I think this is more of a discussion topic than a debate topic.

There are a lot more job postings for people with degrees than for general postions. Sounds like you have a very negative opinion of people without higher education. Sounds like you might have a topic for debate yourself. But I suppose there aren't many jobs for college grads anymore these days anywhere you look.

Keyori 10-12-2010 12:30 PM

Maybe in your area, but not mine. Most of the jobs posted are entry-level and training based, with few or no education requirements.

Feral Fantom 10-13-2010 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Polarisld33 (Post 1768458011)
There are a lot more job postings for people with degrees than for general postions. Sounds like you have a very negative opinion of people without higher education. Sounds like you might have a topic for debate yourself. But I suppose there aren't many jobs for college grads anymore these days anywhere you look.

Although the disparity between income of college grads and people without is still increasing

Polarisld33 10-14-2010 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Feral Fantom (Post 1768470589)
Although the disparity between income of college grads and people without is still increasing

I don't know if that will last. I didn't graduate college and I have a pretty good job, but I still talk to a lot of the people I went to high school with who graduated with a degree in something or another and they can't find work anywhere. Many of the ones that do make less than I do doing something that has nothing to do with their major. Not to mention all the money they owe from going to school (I know of many people who are over $100,000 in the hole from school).

Someone I work with was telling me how a friend's daughter recently graduated from med school, couldn't find a job, and is now BACK in school for accounting b/c there is no work in her field. I think a lot of people are wasting their money on school right now. College does NOT guarantee a job, but it does guarantee a large debt. There are a number of places out there that would rather hire someone with experience than with education. Besides, learning how to do something doesn't mean you'll be able to do it in practice.

Since I've gotten so far off topic, I'll stop now.

redrabbit 12-10-2010 07:26 AM

Craigslist to me is mostly for used furniture and suchnsuch, since it's so much easier than anything else online. Also I'm a huge fan of the 'free' category. It takes all the difficulty out of dumpster diving! Also, you'd be amazed how many people are giving away dirt.

Naahara 12-24-2010 05:22 AM

I almost got a prom dress on craigslist. I had to drop my offer, however, because I got dumped right before prom. But, back to the topic...

My dad's purchased a car on craigslist and it's perfect. He was able to check it out first, and the man even helped him get it home. You just have to use your smarts is all. It's just like newspaper ads.

Lightest_Africa 12-24-2010 06:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Polarisld33 (Post 1768475864)
I don't know if that will last. I didn't graduate college and I have a pretty good job, but I still talk to a lot of the people I went to high school with who graduated with a degree in something or another and they can't find work anywhere. Many of the ones that do make less than I do doing something that has nothing to do with their major. Not to mention all the money they owe from going to school (I know of many people who are over $100,000 in the hole from school).

Someone I work with was telling me how a friend's daughter recently graduated from med school, couldn't find a job, and is now BACK in school for accounting b/c there is no work in her field. I think a lot of people are wasting their money on school right now. College does NOT guarantee a job, but it does guarantee a large debt. There are a number of places out there that would rather hire someone with experience than with education. Besides, learning how to do something doesn't mean you'll be able to do it in practice.

Since I've gotten so far off topic, I'll stop now.

That is very true. Both my parents dropped out of high school and they'e doing alright. They own a pub and recently opened up a business selling garlic to both large and small businesses.

Anyway, as for the whole Craig's List thing...yeah, it can be pretty dangerous meeting people online but, the again, it can also be dangerous meeting people in real life too. My parents know a person who started dating this guy from her work and when they broke up, he began harassing her and wouldn't leave her alone. He did eventually though but only after she called the cops a few times.

x3Nya 12-31-2010 05:40 AM

I think it can be dangerous, but very helpful. For example, you might find something you've wanted at a good decent price. But some people you have to meet in order to get the item may be quite erm.. Well, dangerous.

P.S. That pantie thing up there was creepy. o.e

Explodey 03-06-2011 01:51 PM

I recently gave a kitten to someone on Craigs List. I did feel a bit iffy about it- a friend had referred me to their 'looking for' ad knowing I had kittens I needed to adopt out, but they came over and it was a woman with her daughters, who seemed nice and really took to the kitty, so that was that. Sure, it may have been an act and now they'll eat him or torture him, but they -seemed- nice and frankly, it's now out of my hands.

That said, meeting anyone is risky. But how are we supposed to live? Hiding in our houses, safety chain on always? I don't think I'd want to meet someone from Craigs List for a relationship, but I -have- internet dated, and so far am still alive to tell the tale.

Everything's a risk. You go out your door, there's a risk you'll meet some bully, or accidentally get hit by a drunk driver. You go to a new store, church, club, coffeehouse, there's a chance some psycho could come in and target you. Why live a life of fear?

Again, Craigs List is a bit sketchy, so I wouldn't use that if I could help it but why not use the net to your advantage to open doors in life? Beats being lonely (or sans the item you want, since someone mentioned buying stuff off it back there).


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