@Ely: You know what's sad though, he will probably sit there and say I wasn't trying hard enough. -.-

@ser: But you are trying hard enough hes just not paying attention.

Eh, in the past he has higher standards than some men.

Oh well. He apparently isn't pissed at me or he wouldn't have told me he loved me when we hung up.

Ugh, I have work at 5. :(

@Ser: I think you're trying hard enough, though. Just have faith in that. All I've ever seen you do for your relationship is try your best. [yes]

@Otaku: Yeah, I hate that that's how it goes. The having to fight with your guy to get him to tell you what's wrong. I've learned, though, if you ask kindly enough, they'll tell you most of the time.

I have had a share in having to pick incessantly at people to get them to admit they have a problem.

@Ely: I had that problem with my ex of 3 years he never told me what was wrong so we'd fight. The guy i'm with now is pretty good about telling me if he has a problem.

@ser: Men are just weird sometimes

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@Otaku: That's good. I'm a little interested to find out if I'll ever find a guy who will talk to me who isn't gay. I've grown up with very quite and broody men, and I've got enough of them to spare, so I'm looking for someone who will actually talk to me once in awhile.

Yeah, I have asked nicely what's bothering him and he always gives me the "idk" response. And last night i did ask if it had anything to do with what we talked about on Monday.
I'm still trying to make up for what it was we were talking about on Monday and trying to find out what is bothering him. But, he won't tell me. -.- and he really isn't talking much. -.-

tooo hot why did I leave the coast *melts*

@Ser: WELL, if he tells you it's because you're a bad girlfriend and you aren't trying, smack him, because it's obvious you're trying.

@Birdie: Where are you suffering, Birdie?

@Ely: Oh I have things I want to say to him and I will... I am trying. Hopefully by Saturday we'll have moved on from this and he won't be a buzz kill this weekend. -.-
Or I will smack him.

As long as he's not as bad as he was in...April? May? Can't remember, but that wasn't good.

Yeah, that was really bad. I'm just getting to the point of I can't take his princess acts like this much. -.- I deal with people like him at work almost every day (fellow crew-members). I don't need to come home and deal with people like that with him.

I understand ya. My nutty friend from high school has made me a far less accepting person than I used to be--way less passive, too. I've gotten to the point that I've ignored her text messages for the last two weeks just because I've had enough.

This might almost be as bad as it was a couple months ago. Ugh... Of course I feel like it's my fault. oh well.

Why's that? You don't seem near as worried as you were then.

I haven't gone into too much detail about this situation on here.

@Ely: Men are just weird sometimes you never know what they want.

@ser: Sounds like he deserves a smacking after the way he acts. I remember when he was acting really bad I thought that was in february(could be wrong). Anyway you should give him options as to whether he talks about it or your not going to talk to him or something like that.

Yeah, I know what you mean. What I'm sick of is he is just ok or in an "eh" mood. But, I will ask him what's wrong. He'll just answer "idk" I'll try to pick it out of him and ask him if it's something, he'll just answer "not sure"

So, it's not like I haven't been asking. I did tell him that I'm there for him. If it has anything to do with me saying that and supposedly not being there, I will prove him wrong and will be there for him.

Well and your trying to be there for him now so he can't say your not. Is it really that hard to say what is wrong with you or whats bugging you? Seriously I bet he's telling someone else and not you which isn't fair either.

I don't even think he is really talking to anyone about it. I dunno if he is, but he probably isn't sharing all of it.
Sometimes he expects me to be able to figure it out. -.-
It's really hard to come up with stuff when most of the time we're chatting via messenger. This week is a bad week for him to be acting like this because we don't get a chance to see each other till Saturday. I work 5-10 all week and he works weird hours. Tonight he works till 5p, tomorrow 2.15-10.15p

Oh well, do try to find out and am there to talk to him. Hopefully on Saturday he'll be better and I can help make him feel better while we're getting ready for our friends' wedding.

Aw ok well I hope things work out for you i'm sure he'll come around eventually. Thats nice your going to a wedding are you excited?

Yeah. I'm one of the bridesmaids. I originally wasn't but there was a situation where most of the bridal party dropped out and they had to try to get people. I'm friends with both, but have known the groom for years and he asked if I could help out.
I'm hoping Mike will be better by then and such so we can have a good weekend.
I go back and forth thinking it'll be good or bad, till I go to bed and he tells me good night, he'll show some loving stuff there.

Anyway, how're you today Otaku ^^

I'm doing ok how about you? and its cool you get to be in a wedding thats so exciting.

I'm ok. Wish I didn't have to work the hours I work tonight. ugh, no chance to do anything. If I worked the hours I did last week, I would have seen about mike and I just hanging out since he didn't have to work till 2 tomorrow. oh well. -.-

Yeah, I'm looking forward to it.

Aw ok work does suck doesn't it? My hours aren't to bad but I have to make up time so yeah.