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Vix- No love you can't.. maybe a baby doll toy but not a real child.
Nyvok- My goodness. okey what I would do is have him talk to her... with you in the room to make sure he is doing it right, since she seems to be his spawn. And if that doesn't work then take all the knives and hide them in places that there is no way she could get them, unless the boyfriend takes them out and gives them to her.. if that's the case you should really think about calling the cops... especially if you are lois. When are you parents coming home? maybe she will listen to them? Lavender- that's true, but i think (sadly) we still have a while to go with that... |
@Ny: Puerto Rican families don't put up with shit from kids. We beat them into submission.
@Violet: That you called hetero couples breeders <3 ---------- @Choco: Why not? |
Vix- cause I don't want you in jail?
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Choco: The parents aren't coming home :( That's why I'm the one stuck with her......... and Dill won't do a damn thing... he's always the one who has her and only drops her off back at the hosue at night when I'm the one who has to take care of her while he's out trying to keep me from being on the streets and homeless like I was before this damned ordeal
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I think I stopped understanding what you guys are saying...
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@Choco: I'm gonna wind up in there anyway.
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Vix- NO YOU ARE NOT!!!!
Nyvok- Okey.. if they are not coming back then she is acting out. Which in this case you may want to talk to someone about getting her in counseling. I mean she may be young, but it would be helpful. as for Dill i think you guys need to have a serious talk about this. because it isn't good for you or him. But if he is out at night, doing his job and such, then I think hiding the knives at night where you know she can't get them is your best bet for now. But this just seems like a really sucky situation. |
Good night... *drops to the floor and sleeps*
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*pokes* Lavender i don't think the floor is very comfy
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Who cares... Good night.
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Choco: Yeah... probably is my best bet... I was just going to invest in a child sized straight jacket for the little monster... or at least, she takes the same road as her parents do or somebody else decides to take responsiblity.
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I care! .. but goodnight!! <3
Nyvok- I think your boyfriend might teach her how to get outta the striaght jacket... and it's hard to tell with a child so young if they will truly take after a parent, especially since she might just be acting out. You can't give her up to the state or something if it gets bad? I mean not to pry, just wondering. |
That might be the option I may take in the end... she's way too much for me to handle and I know she's only 3 1/2 but she's driving me insane and she's not my child! I shouldn't have to deal with being scared in my own home...
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Nvyok- No you shouldn't. And it seems like you were just thrown into this. Which isn't good either. in the end it might be your best option, though a sad one. But no one should feel scared in their own home, especially by a 3 1/2 year old knife holding child.... it's like ... never mind that may be a scarier image.
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Choco: The sad part is when she was with her parents she was the sweetest baby in the world... since she was given to us as a responsibility she's changed a lot and I know it's Dill's fault as well as mine because well, I'm not good at parent crap
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Nyvok- Don't beat yourself up over it. You were thrown into an impossible situation, that you tried to make the best of. No matter where this child went, you... the grandparents.... the system she was going to act out. There may have been added factors to make her a tad worse than she would have been. but either way she wasn't going to be the angel you knew. And beating yourself up over it or feeling bad or mad isn't going to make it better -- as much as we wish it would.
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*wanders in* good morning. he didn't take the bait last night. *sobs*
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*Huggles llonka*
He sucks. :c The hell is wrong with him. My boyfriend says you should question his sexuality. :lol: |
bahaha i dunno. maybe it's we've been married five years?? even if your bf is really tired he still takes the bait?
*runs off to get dressed, water the plants and hubby and kaleb up so they can to the dr~* |
Ah I see.
Hahahaha. Well since it's long distance I can't really do much. :lol: But the power of words can turn my man on in a second. :lol: |
*wanders into the thread* Good mornin' everyone.
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Good morninggg!! :)
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Mornin' Diamond. How are you?
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Morning Dia and Coffee ^^
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I'm good! Just woke up and its already 11:30 :x I overslept I think...
How are you guys? |
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