TD- That's the age where it's at. and come on I've dated a 40 year old. 36 is nothing.

Momo- YAY WHISKEY! *downs the rest of the coffee* mmmmmm

Lavender- that doesn't sound good at all....

Well, if you want to hear just tell me... x3

That reminds me of the time when a guy with children my age wanted to date me. *sniffs and sobs* I could have been in my very own soap opera.

Choco: You're just a graverobber ;)

TD- Yes I am... and Damned proud of it! They need a little joy in their life before they die!

Lavender- I do wish to hear... but don't wish to make uncomfortable.... oooooh you should have had your own soap opera it would have been fun!

Well, you will find out that I live in a nuthouse sooner or later...
At the time, I was both intrigued and put off by having a step son a few months younger than myself, but then I started thinking rationally... I would make the man's children uncomfortable, so he would have chosen them over me in the end.

Lavender- oooooh yea that makes sense. Good going with your gut feeling, as well as thinking it through. You will find someone and then it will be a hella good craziness

We will see what I will find. My friend finds a new guy right after he gets over the previous one. I do not have the luck anymore. I used to be like that.

Lavender- awww that's sad. I don't have that luck, and I never really did. But You will find a guy soon, just takes time. But chin up, you're a wonderful guy and any guy would be lucky to have you.

o.o I think we changed 5 topics in the last 5 minutes. x3 But thank you, it means a lot to me, and I hope so.

Lavender- we probably have, but that's all good. And no problem! It's all the truth afterall =)

I am the type that can be alone, so not finding someone is not that big of a disappointment. As long as I have friends, I will be fine.

That's a really good outlook on it. Which just makes you all the more special, not everyone thinks that way. I don't even think that way.

Oh, sure, I get lonely. Watching yaoi makes me sometimes needy and sad, but I get past that.
I saw some amazing people end up all alone, so I know that not everyone gets their fairy tale. I guess I just want to be prepared for anything.

Wow- you are full of so much wisdom, please tell me you are older than me (i'm 23) then I won't feel so bad. lol. Though it is true not everone will get their happy ending. But some people deserve to get it. I think that most people with or without someone get lonely at points in time.

I will be 25 soon. I am not sure I would call it wisdom... I know, and those people deserved to get it. It is not like a partner is a magical solution for anything at all.

No it isnt and sometimes it's more hassle than it's worth. See now I don't feel as silly for not having this kind of knowledge... and it is wisdom, wisdom about human nature that takes some people years and years to figure out.

I was always good at figuring people out... I never even dated anyone for real

Really? I totally wouldn't have guessed that. You have the knowledge of someone who has had at least 2 long term relationships. Figuring out people is a talent. *jealous*

I figured all out from behind my computer. x3 I told my best friend that a guy would only use him and would never be really interested just from what he told me, I never met the guy.

Nyvok- I like that idea. I think you would do really good at it. Especially if you are passionate about it.

Lavender- that's very cool, and talented. I can read people but I don't think I am nearly as good as you, since I need to be there to see what's going on.

I do. I could be the main advice giver.

I think I get it from my grandmother. She was great at reading people without fail.

Lavender- that's wicked cool.. I didn't inherit anything from my grandparents.. I don't think. But then again I don't know my paternal grandparents.

I think both of you would be really good at it!