I don't even know how you go about getting them haha, like I have no charming ways of luring people in xD

Neither do I. Part of the reason I don't have one. Although apparently I accidentally flirt a lot.

don't worry about getting one
they are just a hassle >.<'

Don't even get me started on flirting haha. I'm not receptive to it at all and don't know if someone (or even me) is flirting I always just assume that they/I are being friendly. xD

i'm the same I don't know when i'm flirting or not xD

Can't be as bad as I am, bucket. I went two whole years getting it from the same person. I didn't realize it until someone pointed it out bluntly for me.

Im nice to most ppl i meet, and like i said yesterday, ive been in school for 2 days and ive already got 2 guys hitting on me

I've been in college two weeks and so far it's only other girls that have spoken to me xD Though a friend is a friend so I'm not too fussy xD

I never get hit on xD

I only ever get hit on by creepy forty year old Indian men if I go out, or women (I'm like a serious lesbian magnet haha)

I choose bad S/Os my last boyfriend was mentally abusive and cheated on me a lot. and the one before that was a drug dealer who was never not high
and once he sobered up decided he wasn't gay
(I made him go to rehab, helped him quit smoking, got him a job, signifigantlly improved his life, but after all that
*nope I'm not gay*

I get called cute alot... but i'm never hit on, i don't think...

Oh yeah, I forgot the other reason I don't have one. Until just then. If I'm falling for someone, They're usually falling for someone else. Usually my best friend at the time.

@Ted: Aw, sorry to hear that! D;

@GG: Same here! xD Though being called cute is never the same. >.>

@Tnt: That is the worst! Everyone I like always turns out to like someone else (last time it was my fault though because I never noticed he was gay haha)

I usually try to be friends with someone first
i can't just walk up and hit on someone
because if I don't know if they're gay or not they get offended
at gay bars 95% of the guys are taken, 4% are creeps and only want to have sex
and the other 1% is either not interested or too shy to do anything...

Being friends with someone first always comes with the danger of being put in the friendzone though. I basically live there xD

Haha, I'm the freaking leader of the friendzone. I've yet to see anyone leave it.

Once you get in you can never get out! xD

@Ted aww that's really unlucky... arseholes like that don't know how much damage they are doing....

@Bucket yeah i don't get why, i don't think i'm cute... i think...

@Tntk that has happened to me before it sucks balls.... except it was my best friend who i fell for then she went with some arsewipe who a few months ago i attacked.... :/ she ignored me for like 4-5 months and then she spoke to me again on friday as though i had only seen her the day before...

@GG: I know that I only get called cute because I have a fairly high pitched voice and end up saying things that people just go "awww" at, I don't think it has much to do with my looks. The only time it possibly did was when I dressed up as a cat xD But I'm sure you are, no-one ever sees themselves like others do :)

It is sad, it's like a trap.

Oh damn, that sucks, Goose. I never understood why girls go for the assholes.

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I've been called cute, but I think it's got more to do with my lack of knowledge about social interactions. For some reason, people find that cute.

Im often called pretty....chris is the only one that said im the most beautiful girl hes ever met. I was in the friendzone with my best friend that ive known since i was 12, but then we actually dated like a year ago. Im in the friendzone with most guys, and then there are those guys that want to do nearly every porno scene theyve ever saw with me, and then there are those sweet guys that are so nice and like me for me. Ive met 3 guys like that. An ex of mine thats now in the marines, my last fiance that died in a car accident that we both should have died in, and now chris, my current fiance.

The vast majority of girls dream of having a total badboy that is nice only to them, that's why they go for dicks. Though then it total backfires

@bucket hmmmm I guess your right... but i don't see why people see me as cute... that just say it and then don't say why..

Socially awkward always comes across as cute for some reason xD