:( people would forget about me
 

I have a feeling that people would forget about me if i didn't talk to them.
(this is about online)

I was talking to my friend and she say that different people talk to her, and that she always is talking to someone.

And im very social and being tolled by two of your friends that the "cba" to talk in your conversation make you wonder "am I boring" "do they want to talk" "have I done anything". I always find myself having to start the conversation, always.

I just done a college year (England) doing IT with a class of boys (which I dont really like talking to as they are gamers, agreed I do play games but i get so fed up with them that i look out the window and think "what am i doing" I have started to doing volunteering work so i have something to do with the 6 weeks off :( I am also gunna start cycling with a group(ohh.. and I like romance films))

that seems to be me in a nutshell.... wow! one paragraph, their are a few more things.....

Do you ever feel like on one wants to talk to you?
( i always feel better after writing these things)

(sorry for grimmer and spelling rush typed, as i wanted to get the information out of my head on to this)

nope.
I make sure I'm a presence. I walk into a room and by sheer confidence, I command attention. Online I'm a little more laid back, but still the same idea. No one rejects me from a group, I leave because I want to. If people are talking, I'll either let them talk, or if I think they wont mind the company, I join in. But I never let myself feel excluded. I have way too much pride for that ^.-

I recently lost someone who I thought was a good friend, but i turned out to be the last resort to talk to... she was nice and everything and we got along well, then GCSE season BAM! ignored... I always had to talk to her first and text her first, then Sixth Form induction still ignored me... so I confronted her about it and she acted all innocent and unaware of our lack of communication, her excuse was "because we're not in the same classes any more" I call Bull, Shit! She had just as much power to talk to me as I did to her, so she can go f*ck herself for all I care.

But yeah I sometimes feel like i'm the last resort for people to talk to but at least they have the effort to talk to me first every once in a while, unlike said bitch at the top of my story.

Actually, my friends, even in real life, usually forget about me. I'm not really sure why. I mean, I'm pretty loud, very odd, and I'm always laughing or accidentally drawing attention to myself. No one ever texts me unless I text them, and I always have to plan things.

However, my friends are also ungodly mean to me so I just hang out with myself instead.

I have three friends in reality. Literally, three. One man, and a woman and her daughter, who is my goddaughter. They definitely don't forget about me, because they tend to stalk my house when I don't come out to town for more than a couple days.

Online, I'm terribly easy to forget. I prefer to be spoken to rather than speak otherwise; I suppose it's the passive way I am, even in reality. However, while most forget about me, I never, ever forget about anyone I speak to. Mainly on Menewsha, since it's my main website. Well, that I actually talk on the forums on. I recall names with startling accuracy.

I feel like that a lot. Not that they would forget about me, but that they don't really want to talk to me and they just feel sorry for me or something. I tell myself that I'm being silly, but that doesn't always work.

I feel like that sometimes. I also feel that if people don't contact me then they're not worth the time getting upset about. I just move on and make new friends if people are like that.

I feel the same way on a lot of sites.

I don't know why, but I always kind of fail to make friends on forums. I suppose it's probably because even online I tend to be pretty quiet and wait for other people to talk to me first instead of initiating the conversation.

Either that or there's something majorly wrong/annoying about me that I don't realize...

I do the same thing...so I'm going to say it isn't because you're secretly annoying. It's hard to reach out to people, even online, especially if you haven't been great at it in the past.

When I talk to people online I always think "am I too annoying?" :/ you just have no idea how the person on the other end will react :/

Online, if people don't like me then i can always find someone else who does so I tend not to worry about it as much as I used to. I do still worry a bit about being annoying, uninteresting, or otherwise people just not wanting to talk to me.

My friends always seem to forget about me as well. Which, I really don't mind. I've always been more of a loner anyway.

Ah... I can relate to a lot of these posts.

IRL (and probably online too), I mostly come off as unapproachable. I'm pretty quiet, and won't talk much unless spoken to. I kind of have a hard time being friends with people because I often feel like I annoy them, or I just have no idea what to say in a conversation, so there's a lot of awkwardness.

People would definitely forget about me. It doesn't bother me too much though.

Honestly, it sounds like you are depressed. and the best cure for that is surprisingly enough exercise. grab some music, walk an hour a day. it should help.