Hey Desi. Don't come in here, we might scare you away with big kid talk. Apparently, this is scary or something XD

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To me this is completely invalid reason to force a victim of rape to carry a child but I do not believe in the Christian, Muslim, Jewish or Catholic god.

I honestly think the decision should be left in the hands of the woman who was victimized not government or a book written 2000 years ago. If I were a woman when I was assaulted I would want to know I didn't have to carry the spawn of someone who defiled me.

what was worse was my Neice ashely looked at me and asked why they had to go away.. it broke my heart.. I'll admit it I still haven't forgiven my sister for that.. for one thing i found my NEICES picture in one of those 'adopt a child 'magazines.. i have it in a clip book cause its the only'new' pic i had of her.. but yeah.. makes me want to murder my sister..

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This is something that is completely unacceptable. It really isn't. One, she needs to get her children out of there. Two, since she hasn't, she needs them taken away and not be allowed to put more children in that horrid situation.

can you let me know if it really DOES taste like marshmellow? i found out theres a new Musketeers bar that is supposed to taste like marshmellow to..couldn't afford the bag.. at seven bucks no..and they didnt' ahve any of the 'large' candy bars up near the check out or in the candy isle so i just by passed it.

@Eiri - Is it a seven minute frosting? I find those taste marshmallowy.

Agreed. Even if you believe in god, there is still free will. That god does not control our every action or there would not be rape (unless he's a jerk god). So women should be able to decide if they want to carry these babies, if they'll be able to support these babies and look at them every day or nourish them, etc. I don't find that adoption is the answer either, because we have so many unwanted kids in the system already. =/

@Star - D: D: D:

Well, cookies didn't cahnge the subject hard enough. This topic... Angers me, so I shall leave now.

@Desi - Good :D

Cause see, serious stuff scares people away.

I know Menewsha is supposed to be fun, but sometimes discussing the serious stuff is cathartic.

one of star's dreams is to become a famus author.. and then adopt a Gazillion kids and give them a happy home.. I was put into foster care once.. when the state took me and my brother away from mom because of dad.. she had to fight to get us back.. it is NOT fun being in a house where your just considered a pay check.

star also has a few lasting mental..problems from it..it took me ten years to stop flinching when someone raised their hand..drove my mom nuts..and hten when she tried to get the state to do something about what we went through they didn't..

agree to disagree??

Mmm. Cookie doesn't want children, but if she were to have one, she would adopt, because I don't want to carry a baby at all and I know there are lots of kids that need a place to live and people to love them! Right now my only child is a dog XD

Star has a friend who's offered to carrie any kid i want.. cause frankly me and the whole 'boy and girl thing you do when married' so is not happening.. the THOUGHT makes me wanna throw up 'frown' not that im sure why.. 'shrugs'

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I would not birth a child. I would not bring a child into this world. PERIOD. I may adopt if I am able to support the child alone but if I had the organs I wouldn't bring a child into this world. It is far too messed up and there are far too many children who need homes.

Asexuals exist. *shrugs*

And then there's Hollywood, who all adopt their babies from other countries when we have just as many needy children here! Adopt in America people!

I'm as close to Asexual as you can get without actually being it.

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Yes, they do. I am not one of them but I will not have a child I can not support on my own because you are not promised tomorrow. Neither is your significant other. They might walk away or be abusive and if you can't raise the kid on your own what do you do then?

I have multiple significant others and I still don't adopt because I personally can't pay for a kid on my own.

actually come to think of it star doesn't think she WOULD have a kid.. she's not..emotionally stable enough for a baby or even an older kid so why put some poor baby or toddler or child or even a young teen through that?

I KNOW.. you see it on tv all the time and its like 'um.. hello what about here in america..why go to other countries when we're also swimming in kids?'