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im farely new too add me looking for friends :)
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Yup, ^^ you're a quick learner.
Haha that's alright, I only know because she's one of my only friends. :) meeting her was a precious memory. Confusing time... gosh... I'll say "X years ago" for 5 years and still be saying the same amount of years ago like it's aging with me XD Haha... she's the gossip npc. Ooh you should post there. We're friendly, I promise ^.^ [drool] me too |
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is it a thread for people with disabilitys or something though? I actually have aspergers so thats why Im wondering there. I didn't really understand very well xD Thats a nice thing for you to say! :3! Everyone seems so nice on this site! ;w; are there even any rude or mean people here at all? xD So much time passes and so many memory are made it truely doesn't even matter what time the memory is made mostly! all that matters if the memory is true and it is great to you! Well.. I guess its true I can't do poems AND I can't sound wise ;w; also I guess I got this backwards but are there any other forum tricks you could show me? ^w^ ---------- Post added 10-24-2012 at 04:42 PM ---------- Quote:
but thanks for also showing me it would have helped if I didnt understand! You could show me other tricks on this site if you know them though! |
Sernen- Ask Poet lol He knows a lot more of Mene than me. ^^;
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I'm sure he will tell me as soon as he can! |
My thread isn't just for disabilities, but that is the primary focus. A place for people who are different ^^
I'm a suspected Aspie actually. Larele has been telling me she's pretty certain for years XD We all try to be nice. We can get a bit weird sometimes but we mean the best. There are rude people sometimes yeah. They submit to our kindness though eventually *evil grin* Yeah, though most of my memories tend to be useless facts instead of actual important details. Hmm... other tricks? Well not really sure... I tend to go a bit oldschool with the way I do things on here XD You sounded pretty wise actually. Being poetic isn't hard ^.^ I'm a self taught poet actually. |
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Don't be rude just get yo kindnesss on! that is the saying here.. but not really! I don't have any "true" memories because nothing really happened much in my life I suppose! such a boring life for me so far! ;w; Yeah though I guess the trick you just showed me with the The Wandering Poet: thing! stuff like that! I like sounding wise.. well I like BEING wise is a better way to say it ^w^ but as for poetry.. I never understood it ;w; just like writing incursive I can't understand either of those at all I can't write it and I dont understand when I read it |
Well from my research it is more of a spectrum than an actual "yes or no" disorder.
My problem is that, to be honest, I see aspie traits in everyone. I fit a lot of disorders though, so I'm just going to get officially tested once and for all someday. Well sort of is. In the years I've been here I've seen so many people learning English better and it makes me feel like a proud parent XD Not true, I'm sure you are pretty interesting ^^ Well poetry is easy once you get the basics down. It's just patterns really. What I did at first is the stereotypical poem. Make sentences that rhyme ^^ Then I adopted a pattern, I typically prefer each line to be 7 syllables or the same general length. Then I run to a thesaurus and make it look complicated [ninja] |
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I was tested for it 3-4 times now I think and well everytime its them saying that I do have it. But I am curiuos now how they actually define it anyway. It seems that aspergers is a mixture of several different disorders in one (not always the same though) no idea how it works though [drool] People come here from different languages? that must be confusing ;w; or did you mean that "well u dont no how 2 talk" kinda thing? I don't know weither or not I am interesting but I know for sure my life hasn't been ;w; I'm sure you are really interesting though! my brain hurts [drool] how about you just give me an example of a poem instead and I will study on it! doesn't have to be perfect just maybe shows alot of whats in a poem or something! you dont have to though! |
Haha, it does seem like several disorders in one XD
but honestly... I think aspies are normal people to me. Granted far more interesting o.o Actually yeah, people all over the world post here. I was mostly references to the people who talk as though they are texting on a phone. I try to help both though ^^ We'll just have to find out. Aspergers fascinates me though @[email protected] This is a poem just for you You can make one like mine too Just scribble and write away Let all your words out to play Do not worry of the time Just make sure the words do rhyme This is a poem so basic All the words a random pick Making my syllables fit And later I'll revise it |
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I can tell when someone is autistic in real life but I couldn't explain HOW I know that. its just something is I guess "off" about them compared to other people even when they act the same just I seem to understand that they are autistic cuz its not always a social problem that makes someone autistic but that is a main thing about it. Yeah I do wish people would talk normally instead of talking like they are on a phone but when I text (when I did) I usually say things in normal words instead of those text words I just like it better that way Yeah I am also interested in aspergers. I know I have it but I never truely understand it to be honest. I can tell I do things different then others but I never know if the thing is because of this autism or if its just because thats something different about me all together. if that makes sense. whoo.. uhh.. hmm.. okay I will try then! err well actually I forgot to ask last time but what in the world is a syllable? |
Syllables are... umm honestly it's probably better to just show.
Take the word Yes, that is one syllable, it takes one "rhythm" to say. A word like Hello is broken into two syllables, He and llo. It mostly seems to stop at vowels from what I've seen. A word like Education would be broken down to 4 syallables of E du ca tion [ninja] hope that made sense. It's not really that much of a disease to me. In see aspergers as a personality type, because it's not like there is a "cure" or anything. Depression? Check... OCD? Check... AD(H)D? Check. I know that often it's also associated with a behavior called "stimming" too. It's easy to tell people who are autistic. The primary thing I hear from aspies is that they feel like they are on the wrong planet. I do that too... it makes me twitch if I misspell things. I know the feeling... last aspergers test I took, I was looking through the questions constantly thinking "That's not normal?" [lol] |
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Like "Hello I got some cool stuff to say" would be 8 syllables but that doesn't rhyme but still I was talking about the syllables am I doing that correctly? yeah I am thinking it is just a type of personality but the personality involves you having quite afew other social disorder type of things you arent all the way autistic but you aren't quite in the "normal" crowd. what is "stimming"? but also I don't think the aspergers thing is totally defined by the symtems I think there is more too it but I just don't know what it is yet. and I know they are autistic before they even talk to me (which they usually don't anyway) but yeah I don't feel like I'm fitting in so well so far but thats the first time I heard anything like "I don't belong on this planet" Test? what test are you talking about? |
I think that's 9 syllables o.o not sure... *recounts* [ninja] I have to count on my fingers because I fail...
But keep in mind ^^ there's no such thing as bad poetry... I've tried... a whole class tried... and we all failed so badly XD True, but I find people with aspergers to be my ideal for friends. :3 They're awesome. Normal people confuse me too much. Stimming is... ermm hard to explain. It's a form of fidget for pleasure or enjoyment. I don't know either, aspergers is really deep o.o way deeper than most people think. [lol] It was about 6th grade that I was watching the other kids in middle school and it just dawned on me... I had no idea what was going on XD Oh, I have a list in the disability thread, ^^ it's 200 questions though. |
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and I always have to count with my fingers so nothing wrong with that xD I think I will be the first to make bad poetry! I will make history! Asperger type of people usually tend to be nicer as well but that doesnt count for every single one of them I learned sometime before But I still dont understand the stimming thing because I dont know what fidget is xD Yeah aspergers has awhole lot too but but I dont even understand it myself also I sent you those results from the test since you wanted to see ^w^ Im sure you noticed already though |
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Yeah typically nicer... though anyone can be a meany... [ninja] as for me personally I'm considered pretty mean because people take what I say wrong :( Yup ^^ I saw, got and have been replying as I see it. It's alright to post test results in the thread as well if you'd like, just be sure to put anything you didn't say yourself in quotes :) |
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I think anyway! I'm not really sure xD I'm not sure what I'm considered but I know people usually take what I say incorrectly like you! it gets frustrating at times and its even harder when your trying to help people and they are all mad at you cuz they think you are trying to smart mouth them! Okay I didn't know I should be doing quotes but I will remember that next time ;w; but you saw the other test results I saw! |
Hahaha! The smart mouthing. I get that so much. I got in trouble with that constantly when I was trying to "correct people" XD
I remember when I was little my mom got mad at me all the time for "using the wrong tone"... >.<" so I had to spend a couple years of trial and error to figure out tone. |
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once in a whlie they are right and I actually was mad but they still think its about them rather then thinking abotu the obvious thing I'm actually mad about I have never figured out how to change my tone correctly its always just random for me ;w; in the end I just kinda wing it and hope it doesnt happen that way! |
When I met Larele in person for the first time, there were problems with communication. She isn't the best with tones, and I'm horrible at body language. One thing I did learn though, is that you have to dig deep to understand someone with aspergers, to learn their world so they can communicate easier.
Well I tend to put emphasis on certain words mostly, though people sometimes think it's because I'm mad, but I use it like "bold" to emphasize a word or something. |
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and I used to try to change my tone to the right way but now I just try to keep myself umm dulled? I guess and I never understood body language either I dont know what people are looking at there xD but I know about it or something I'm not sure what you are talking about with that second part of your message you mean LIKE THIS? or you mean you actually quote or bold words? |
I dunno... real life friends are harder to trust... you can't trace there every step offline...
^^ Maybe someday you'll be able to make friends in real life as well. Granted turning a friendship offline from online can be very hard trust-wise. Honestly I just make up my own body language and hope for the best... Yeah.. like raising my voice to emphasize a word... but people tend to think I'm mad for some reason... |
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I have had alot of friends online too but I learned that are also not very trust worthy but I try not to get into their space as well. Not that it is wrong to I just dont wanna bother them or something. Well I dont understand whta body language is all together xD I dont get what people are looking at there Oh Okay I get it now but dont know what to say to it to much! |
That's alright, I have my non-talkative days too... >.< like today I've so drained from school...
I've not had many online friends... only a handful. Most of the friends I make usually just kinda vanish after they're sick of me. [lol] I don't really know what people look for in body language. I think it's... probably similar to sign language though o.o maybe? I can understand stuff like a thumbs up and waving and stuff... but I know when the flirting body language comes in I'm just confused XD I can't give or read it at all. |
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