This week was insane. O.o But the weekend is here, finally!!

*hands Clockie some medicine for her head*

*cuddles* What's wrong? :(

Awww! :( *big hugs*

Dan and I spent most of the weekend trying to figure out how to approach my parents about him moving in with Norah and me. We've come up with nothing. We don't want to have to wait till November to move in together. *sighs*

At this rate, that's the only option we can come up with, but they won't be happy. I know that much.
Do I go against my parents and risk them getting angry at us, or just wait… which we don't want to do?
Is it wrong of me just to want to tell him to move in, and we'll deal with my parents later? :/

Yeah, I just don't want to risk them just walking away - because they've been so huge with support and they are my family. But having the extra help here at home, and not having to call my parents or my brother for help when I need it would be lovely, plus the fact that coming home to both him and Norah would be something I truly would look forward to. Blah, life, why must you be so hard at times? Being an adult sucks sometimes, it truly does.

Yeah, I just have to find the courage to actually bring it up with them.
They've always been so out spoken with not living together before marriage, for as long as I can remember.
I'm honestly shocked that they were ok with Dan staying here when I was sick - mom did mention that she didn't like that he was here, staying with us, but what were we supposed to do? I was so sick I was unable to actually take care of my daughter and he offered to help. And because of how out of it I was, I really wasn't capable of staying no. Ya know? I needed the help! And also I'm 25 years old - I should be able to do whatever I want, right? As long as I'm comfortable with it, and it's something that we all want, in the end, it's our decision, right?

Oh, I know that he will support me in whatever I do decide. And I know that having both of us living together is best for her, having the stability of two parents in the same place, without one only here part of the time, that actually is a good way to bring it up to them and see if that helps them understand why this is something that we need to do - other than the fact that I honestly hate having to say bye to him every sunday. :( It's so hard. I hate it! They actually think that he's only here for the day on the weekends, but he's here Friday night through Sunday as late as he can stay.

I do know what's best for all of us is that he moves in, he's said that he's willing to move here so we don't have to find a new place - we will, just not right now. :)

I just need to talk to them, and try not to let my nerves show. Dan has told me that whatever happens, he is here for me - as he knows how hard this is going to be, because I have never been good with going into these types of situations. I'm normally the one to back down and try to make everyone else happy over myself, but I'm tired of being that person. This is what I want, and I'm going to get it. [yes]

How's everyone been?