From me or something at you experienced at home?

My life is kind of this whole stupid cycle right now. De ja vu is the norm.

everything is a never ending stupid cycle here too.

*hugs* Llonka, I can't tell you how nice it is to have someone understand where I'm at right now.

Seriously, they are like the same person, I'm assuming, so I know how much of a jackass he probably is. and how freakin stupid. Your brains tells you to leave, but something else wants you to stay.

God yes! Like it's SO DUMB! I know how bad he is for me. I KNOW THIS IS ABUSE. I know what I need to do. Aaaaand I'm staying. Because I'm apparently completely mentally retarded when it comes to this dude.

D: Sounds tough! :( And sounds like what my sister was going through with her ex - and the reason that she no longer goes to school in Southern California - to get away from him. [yes]

Well what is it that makes him abusive? People are always telling me my hubby is abusive verbally. He can get pretty down right rude and horrible at times with his words and tone of speech. I think maybe he doesn't realize he does it. He's not a bad guy, he just wasn't raised to be a good boyfriend/husband.

He insults, he forces me to do to and/or agree to things I don't want to do, sometimes physically, sometimes by withholding affection and attention until I agree. He expects things from me that he won't give in return. Other things I'd prefer not to mention.

My sister's ex tried to cut us out of her life and isolate her - that's when she realized she had to break ALL contact with him, and move back home -and we've all been supportive of her choice to move back home. All in all, she's showing no signs of wanting to date after all of that mess - she's thrown herself into school, and seems to be doing better emotionally, but it was rough for awhile.

He works at the same school. And I tried to date someone else, like, less than 12 hours after I broke up with him just to keep myself from going back. It didn't work out so much.

Pardon my French, but holy shit. This man is a time bomb and he shouldn't be around people. He certainly shouldn't be in a school. Seriously. Does the school know anything about this? Could you fill out some sort of police complaint that can at be documented?

I agree with Biggles - something needs to be done, because so true, he shouldn't be allowed around kids if this is how he acts. [yes] Such a good point there!! The school needs to know. [yes]


Also I'm highly annoyed with sleep tonight, it's decided not to play nice. At least it's the weekend and the hubs is home tomorrow so hopefully *fingers crossed* I can somewhat kinda sorta sleep in.

He has a WHOOOOLE lotta power in the school. He brings in a ton of grants and he's very politically savvy. He's kind of sociopathic. He's pretty terrifying that way.

Wow. Now I really do want you to have police protection D:

Yeah. I'm going to start seeing a therapist so hopefully I can get away from him.

[hug] I do hope that you can get away from him!! Supporting you from here! <3

I'm sorry to say this, but he sounds worse than hubby. Hubby wouldn't make me do anything I wouldn't want to. But I can say that I know how hard it is to get away. You have my support too.

*hugs* Thanks guys. Yeah, it's....it's hard. And every time I fight I lose more and more.