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kelseydee 04-28-2017 11:58 PM

Gender bending???
 
Do u like gender bending? R u transgender? Gender fluid? Or just curious about us. Let's talk.

---------- Post added 04-28-2017 at 07:04 PM ----------

I identify with women, I have outdoor plumbing and so I'm a guy. I often feel female. If I had heard of transgender syndrome 40 years ago.... Maaaaaaaybe. How's about u folks?

---------- Post added 04-28-2017 at 07:05 PM ----------

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Originally Posted by the Cheshire Pisces (Post 1773887112)
Do u like gender bending? R u transgender? Gender fluid? Or just curious about us. Let's talk.

---------- Post added 04-28-2017 at 07:04 PM ----------

I identify with women, I have outdoor plumbing and so I'm a guy. I often feel female. If I had heard of transgender syndrome 40 years ago.... Maaaaaaaybe. How's about u folks?

Did I mention I have small boobs

hummy 04-29-2017 12:53 AM


I've always been a tomboy
And I love the 'outdoor plumbing g' line =3

kelseydee 04-29-2017 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by hummy (Post 1773887134)

I've always been a tomboy
And I love the 'outdoor plumbing g' line =3

U know what I hate? Gender designations on clothing. I love flowered tops and capries and cute shoes, but NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO boys don't wear those.... Pouts

kelseydee 05-01-2017 03:18 PM

I'm surprised that there's not more input. Not even from complete trannys.... Ohhhhhhh weeeeeell.

kelseydee 05-02-2017 10:56 PM

Ohhhhhhh wellllllllll, another dead end thread. [stare]

pinkypisces 05-07-2017 01:59 AM

I'm interested. Being a transgender avi

KushyKissez 05-07-2017 12:26 PM

My avi is a girl if i had some nice guy clothes i would probably switch to a boy for a while :D i have some transgender friends who are awesome

Amane 05-07-2017 12:48 PM

I'm so firmly feminine I can't even wear clothes from the boys' section at the store.

However, I don't mind being called "man" or "bro." Those words don't scream MALE at me.

pinkypisces 05-07-2017 03:34 PM

There r so many people now who don't fit the classic gender profiles. I wonder if it's because of natural selection

Bearzy 05-08-2017 12:12 PM

oooooh I only just saw this thread but I'm agender, and I'd love to see a wee trans community on mene. I present fairly femininely, but when I go to work and have to use she/her pronouns and be a good waitress I call it "being in drag" because it's so not me.

pinkypisces 05-08-2017 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Bearzy (Post 1773903306)
oooooh I only just saw this thread but I'm agender, and I'd love to see a wee trans community on mene. I present fairly femininely, but when I go to work and have to use she/her pronouns and be a good waitress I call it "being in drag" because it's so not me.

They them pronouns????

Kaderin Triste 05-08-2017 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Grannypink (Post 1773903340)
They them pronouns????

They/them pronouns aren't really the norm yet, so in situations at work, most customers probably base their pronouns on appearance and use she/her(waitress) or he/him(waiter) instead of they/them(server). It's unavoidable currently.

pinkypisces 05-08-2017 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaderin Triste (Post 1773903423)
They/them pronouns aren't really the norm yet, so in situations at work, most customers probably base their pronouns on appearance and use she/her(waitress) or he/him(waiter) instead of they/them(server). It's unavoidable currently.


Thanks. Despite my often fem feelings I always call myself he in real world and Pisces in cyberspace.. I'm not fussy about it. It galls me when people call me ma'am and then act like I did something wrong.

Bearzy 05-08-2017 11:12 PM

Yeah that's the exact reasoning I use Kaderin. Also I work with a bunch of really ignorant chefs who take every difference as a chance to bully people so there's another reason to stay in the closet at work.

pinkypisces 05-09-2017 02:01 AM

I'll try. Really. I know bullies. They don't scare me anymore, but they get to ducking me.

Bearzy 05-09-2017 05:06 AM

Yeah the guys at work don't scare me but I do know that they'd get on my nerves enough to get me to quit and I'm determined to hang around this workplace until I graduate

Kaderin Triste 05-09-2017 05:31 AM

I have to say, I'm still pretty bad about using he/him or she/her instead of they/them, but I try.

I hope the next place you work at ends up being a better place, Bearzy.

Bearzy 05-09-2017 06:24 AM

Thanks [heart] And oh my god I slip up on people's pronouns all the time. The important thing is to try and to self correct when you do make a mistake, without making a big deal about it. Just be like "he-sorry-they" not "he- oh my god I meant they I'm so sorry I'm so bad at this"

Kaderin Triste 05-09-2017 06:28 AM

I mean, except online, I haven't really encountered (to my knowledge) many people that use pronouns other than what I would expect, but I feel like using they/them pronouns really needs to be more common.

Bearzy 05-09-2017 07:37 AM

Huh. I'm so insulated in my little university-town-queer-circle that I feel like half the people I know use they/them pronouns [lol]

kelseydee 05-09-2017 03:51 PM

I'm just a Pisces. We never know side is gonna b in charge.

Ava The Vampire 05-11-2017 10:03 PM

I have always used they/them pronouns.

Especially with people, but I think it became a common thing for me because I used to be around a load of animals and I could never tell by looking at them if they were male or female and I absolutely hate calling an animal "it" so I say, "they/them".

Bearzy 05-11-2017 11:05 PM

Oh yeah, that makes sense!

pinkypisces 05-18-2017 01:41 AM

I was watching a you tube vid about voice training for trannys. The girl, Trans giving the lesson sounds great, but then her boy voice wasn't deep. I tried what she said and I sounded like Dr dufusmertz from finius and ferb on Disney. But then I am by nature a baritone. Sure, born all hair, eyes and legs with a baritone voice and outdoor plumbing. Ohhhhhhh wellllllllll. I'm old and fat now so no matter.

Bearzy 05-19-2017 07:11 AM

Oh yeah voice training for trans women is apparently the worst, because estrogen doesn't help at all, unlike the testosterone for ftm folk.


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