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ladysephiroth 05-23-2007 05:32 PM

drinking and driving
 
we had the pre-prom presentation on drinking and driving so I decided why not discus it here and hear your opinions

slickie 05-23-2007 08:54 PM

I think people drink and drive because they tend to forget how much power they have beneath their foot.
there should always be a designated driver so that there won't be as much risk.
driving normally is dangerous.
People need to think more about how drinking can really effect their driving.
Also they need to realize that bieng in a car is like bieng in a death trap if handled irresponsibly.

CrinkledStraw 05-23-2007 10:30 PM

I don't think anyone is really Pro-drinking and driving, so I'm not sure what we're supposed to be debating here.
: /

ladysephiroth 05-23-2007 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by CrinkledStraw
I don't think anyone is really Pro-drinking and driving, so I'm not sure what we're supposed to be debating here.
: /

actually... i dunno either but it was an idea i had even sence

stilettolover 05-23-2007 10:52 PM

Driving is very difficult. We take advantage of how comfortable we become behind the wheel--we feel very small when in fact we are very large.

Driving when fully awake is hard enough--driving while under the influence of any mood-altering drug (caffeine included) is just not smart.

I don't think I've ever met anyone who was pro-drinking and driving, but I have known people who think the limit is too low.

Which I disagree with--as it is you're over the legal limit if you've had more than one drink per hour. Even though I have a very good tolerance, I know if I have more than one drink in an hour I start to get overly relaxed, not 100% aware of my surroundings, even if I'm still lucid and alert.

Dahli 05-24-2007 05:06 AM

Honestly, its about responcibility. It is possible to go out, have a few drinks and still be able to drive home, as long as you give yourself time to get the alcohol out of your system (that's one hour for every serving of alcohol.) Having your own breathalyser kit to tell you when its safe for you to drive is also a very good idea. I've gone out many times with friends and our designated driver will have two drinks at the beginning of the evening, then go on to soda and water so by the time the bar is closed and we're ready to go home they're perfectly sober. Mind you, it takes a lot of responcibility to be able to but yourself off so I wouldn't suggest designating the wild party drunk as your driver that night.

But I have seen many a person go out, get wasted, and then get right back in the car thinking they're fine. Alcohol makes many people feel extra good about everything they're capable of, so driving is no biggy... even though it is.

GainaSpirit 05-24-2007 09:08 AM


I don't really understand how people could put other in danger that much just by driving like that. I never try as I don't drink but I already know that driving when tired is already hard so completly drunk, when you don't know how to put a foot in front of the other is completly senseless.
I heard some place offer some breathalyser before taking back the care and some call taxi. Though the best way is to design someone who won't drink during the rest of the night. In france there is a lot of commerciale about that O.o though there is still lot of mortal accident on the road. Mostly because of young people. I think it's something like 15 death by week.

Folken 05-24-2007 04:08 PM

The only time I would ever consider driving under the influence (of one or two drinks, not fall-down drunk) would be if I were in my own neighborhood area coming from a friend's house.
Since i live in a rural area, there's like 4 other houses besides our own, and the only thing i could hit would be a tree or a deer or something.
But I don't think i've ever even done that.

Driving responsibly means driving sober. Especially if you have others in the vehicle with you, because it becomes your responsibility to keep your passengers safe.

Clara 05-24-2007 05:16 PM

I think just plain driving is dangerous in itself. @[email protected]
People who drink and drive obviously should have their right to drive taken away. Driving is a privelage, not a necessity.
(Sorry if I'm spelling things wrong. I'm really tired. xD)
I just recently started driving and I see so many people doing stupid things while they're driving.
I admit, I do dumb stuff too...
But bah.
You just shouldn't drink and drive.
(Sorry if I rambled. @[email protected] )

Ellendar 05-28-2007 08:58 PM

Personally I don't really care if someone decided to get drunk and drive, as long as they wrap their car around a pole and kill themself, rather than killing off someone else. If you do something stupid and get yourself killed that's about as close as the human race gets to natural selection. It's when they kill other people that could have actually contributed to the greater human existance that I begin to get pissed off.

If your going to kill yourself find a way to do so that you die alone, rather than killing some innocent person. It's like running around with a revolver with only one bullet in the gun and spinning the chamber and pulling the trigger at random people wondering if the bullet is going to fire or get lucky and miss the hammer.

ladysephiroth 05-29-2007 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Ellendar
Personally I don't really care if someone decided to get drunk and drive, as long as they wrap their car around a pole and kill themself, rather than killing off someone else. If you do something stupid and get yourself killed that's about as close as the human race gets to natural selection. It's when they kill other people that could have actually contributed to the greater human existance that I begin to get pissed off.

If your going to kill yourself find a way to do so that you die alone, rather than killing some innocent person. It's like running around with a revolver with only one bullet in the gun and spinning the chamber and pulling the trigger at random people wondering if the bullet is going to fire or get lucky and miss the hammer.

you should know in most cases it's the person who dosen't drink and drive that usually gets it not the person who does drink and drive

Zye 05-29-2007 03:16 AM

I drink (at school) but I always walk to my dorm and don't drive at all. I think there should always be a sober driver or the bar could have a responsibility to call a cab company for those who have had a lot to drink. It is ridiculous how many innocent people die from those under DUI.

ladysephiroth 05-29-2007 10:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zye
I drink (at school) but I always walk to my dorm and don't drive at all. I think there should always be a sober driver or the bar could have a responsibility to call a cab company for those who have had a lot to drink. It is ridiculous how many innocent people die from those under DUI.

i agree

j00lian 05-30-2007 01:05 AM


  • I think everyone here is going to agree that drinking and driving is wrong.\
    Tests have shown that even one glass of alcohol impairs the drinker's reactions to stimuli. What if the stimuli were a young child in the middle of the road who had chased a kicked ball?

`Mel 07-07-2007 11:56 PM

I hate the fact that people drink & drive.
A few months back me & a friend of mine hung out and well, sad to say had some liquor.
We were driving to a party and the bag of liquor was under the seat that I was sitting in. Well, half way through us driving to find the party she decided she was thirsty and wanted something to drink. I offered her something from my house since we were close by, but she decided to get some Liquor. The damn thing was, is that she was driving.
You don't even know how many times I yell at her to put the fucking bottle down she was about to be driving again * We pulled over for a bit*
She said she was "Fine" and could drive.....we had Vodka.
I kept yelling and swearing and telling her if she turned that key I would JUMP out the car..
Well, she never listened & I called some friends to come pick me up....well they went to my house instead of what they needed to be.
In the end I got her to stay their for a good hour or soo till I felt comfy to let her drive again.
She only had a drink not like half a bottle, plus we had some food in the car so I made her eat as well to soak up some of the alcohol.
I'm still extremely thankful I made her sit there & eat to make sure she wasn't getting drunk or anything. I don't want to think of what could have possibly happened if I just let her go.

xx_adverb_xx 07-08-2007 06:08 AM

Drinking and driving, the lovely topic. Someone here just got in trouble for driving drunk. Funniest thing on that which shows how stupid some people are is that the guy in the driver seat was completely sober. Anyways, time to make comments to other posts here.

To Slickie/Stillettolover, I myself don't find driving that hard. I'm careful, but don't find it that dangerous. Really, if one is too cautious doing something they can mess up just as likely as one who is far too relaxed.

Dahli, that is a freakin' odd and in my opinion stupid idea. What would bringing with your own breathalyser do? It can tell you if you are past the legal limit or not but that is it. Different people react to different amounts of alcohol and so if nearly everyone did that someone who personally was too impaired while still under the legal limit would not be safe to drive.

Gaina, yes, stupid and all. But alcohol does impair your thinking and so that is why most people do it.

Folken (I can't help but think of Escaflowne from your name), that might be even a stupider thought then Dahli's in my opinion at least. Mainly for most car accidents occur within 1 mile of the home. Most likely for people feel more comfortable driving in those areas that they are less cautious then other places. Add in alcohol in basically any amount and you're asking for even more trouble.

Folken again, car accidents also occur more often with numerous people in the car then without as they distract the driver even more from the road then if they were alone. Though, I don't really know if you were trying to state that with people you thought people drive better or not >.<

Kris 07-08-2007 10:25 PM

It's illegal, as it should be.

Where's the discussion again?

Queen Fool 07-09-2007 04:09 AM

My dad got to bail my aunt out of jail at 2 am for DUI (DWI in other places, I think). She drank a whole bottle of red wine and then tried to driver over 100 miles to her house from my grandma's. If she had hit someone *shudders*.

Julianna 07-09-2007 08:22 PM

  • ♥ » we had a presentation on drinking and driving when a student at the school i got in the middle of a wreck by a drunk driver.

    i don't really see a discussion here but there's no point in drinking then go out driving.
    call someone you trust to pick you up from wherever you are.
    its not smart at all to drive when you think you've only drank a little.

    the prestentation we had showed these people after drinking and driving,
    and it wasn't pretty at all. horrible things had happened to them after getting in an accident.

    so yeah, don't drink and drive. <3

Shankster06 07-10-2007 01:39 AM

Ummmmmmmm heck no!
Drinking and Driving is wrong!
MADD which stands for : Mothers Against Drunk Driving!
I am personaly never gonna drink and drive!
Hundreds of peole die over drunk driving so........ plain and simple...... DONT DO IT! pleeeeease!

Vanity 07-10-2007 04:51 AM

  • You take a lot of risks, when you consume alcohol and decide to drive. I personally, have no problem with a guy hitting up a bar after work, drinking a beer, and then heading home for the night. I often hear from my friends and read in the paper about all the DUI's and such and I think the dangers are being greatly over exaggerated.

    Everyone tolerates alcohol differently. Some people maybe be able to drink five or six beers, and not be impaired at all. Where as someone else could be completely thrashed but consuming that many bottles. So where do you draw the line? I don't know. But I don't think cops should be taking away people's driving privilages for drinking one beer, and going home.

    Where I am from, if you consume more than 4 ounces of beer, you are considered legally drunk, and can be throw in jail over it. That's less than half a beer.. And they can cause many problems in someone's life over it. Such as loss of job, because of the inability to have transportation. this is all case by case, because they do allow some work driving privileges.

    On the other side, some guys get 5 or 6 DUI's and nothing happens to them. I don't know where to draw the line, I just believe the laws where I live have done it wrong. Drinking while intoxicated can be dangerous, so I understand the intention. but still. It's a law that has gotten out of control.

cleric sarah 07-12-2007 04:24 AM

There was a Show on how people think they can drink but in actuality are over the alcohol limit

I've had a few drinks and driven home but I KNOW my limit, I usually have ONE drink if I have to drive a short distance home, NONE if i am to far from home, or have a desginated driver...

my friend/sister/best friend set up a system for when we drink, one of us is ALWAYS sober so that we can watch out for the other two <333

momus 08-02-2007 11:53 PM

Drinking and driving is really frustrating and depressing, especially since when accidents result from it, the drunk is usually perfectly fine.

I understand that people handle their liquor differently, but I still think it's not worth taking the chance and driving after a few drinks, even if you can "handle it".

I heard an interesting idea from someone once- driving drunk should be considered attempted manslaughter. I like that idea.

ladysephiroth 08-03-2007 02:03 AM

i agree with you and sorta have a story about weh me, my mom, my mom's friends paul and my friend justin went to the beach a guy arrivied drunk there he swurived all over the path got out of his car and left his car radio running all while he was away from it and we didn't see him when we left so my mom told the gaurd shack

Kawaii-kokoro 08-05-2007 03:54 AM

Drinking and driving... well it's just horriable. I mean I have friends with people drinking and driving.

One situiation is where someone was drunk right? Actually, two people were drunk going to some kind of sporting game. The one girl got into the car and was driving. The other girl, drunk as she was, sat on the car hood thing and they were driving like really really fast as the girl on the hood slipped off of the car, cracked her head, and died. Stupid drunk drivers and drunk people really.

I don't really know this story, but one of my cousins's best friends were walking across the road, and was hit by a drunk driver and killed.

I am STRONGLY against drunk driving. I don't know why people do it. Are they too drunk to think? Is there no one around to drive for them? Why even bother knowing it kills people? I just don't really get it.


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