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Kukon: I don't think that's necessarily sexual if it's just a peck. *shrug* That's just what I think, though.
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@Morwyn: It wasn't a peck though, it was atleast 5 seconds long.
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Hello there I'm back. Sorry took so long I went ahead and put her in bed as well.
Morwyn- I posted some examples in your thread. :3 |
Broken: Yes, I see them! <3 They're amazing!
Kukon: Yeah... that's kind of gross... |
@Morwyn: Kissing family on the lips at all is sick.
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Thanks! Oh and on the incest thing. Me and my brother where extremely close growing up but not like that. That's just gross if your that desperate you have problems.
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@Broken: How close..?
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We never like kissed on the lips but the cheek we did. We did sleep in the same bed when we went to my dads house but that was more to protect him from my dad beating him than anything. When we went through the store we did hold hands but I'm 21 months older than my brother so everyone said it looked cute. It all stopped when we got around 12 but when I see him I still hug him and give him a kiss on the cheek. But I also live over an hour away and I only see him like once a month.
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@Broken: No problem with kissing on the cheek, especially that young.
Sleeping the same bed is ok until a certain age, once you hit puberty its a no no. I never see holding hands wrong. |
A lot depends on the culture you grow up in too, though... I can't think of any examples off the top of my head, but what is and isn't considered incest or acceptable behavior varies widely between cultures, I think.
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Kukon- We still sleep in the same bed when I visit but that's only because it's that or the floor. He has a king size been though and he stays on his side and I stay on mine. Fully clothed and separate blankets is required though.
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@Morwyn: Like in the UK sleeping in the same beds with friends is acceptable.
@Broken: Thats still nasty, i'd rather sleep on the floor. |
Kukon- :: Shrugs :: It's called a wall of pillows between you. Me and my brother are so close because of my dad. It was my job to protect him so I really don't see the big deal in sleeping like that. It's not like we are in our pjs under the covers together.
Morwyn- Culture does make a little bit of a difference I guess but there is still a limit. |
@Broken: I must assume your dad did horrible things to him, and for that I am sorry.
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Kukon- He was abusive to all of us but my brother got it the worst. I would take everything for him to protect him but that was along time ago. We are still just as close as we where then but nothing relating incest. Hell bout three years ago when I still lived at home the computer was in my room. He would be up at all hours on it when I wanted to go to bed. I would tell him I'm stripping and grab my shirt like I'm about to take it off. That was the quickest he ever moved to get out of my room.
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Yeah, I don't see the big deal of sharing a bed with your brother... especially if you're not cuddling. Up until a couple years ago I used to share a bed with my sister or my cousin whenever we traveled places. I had to stop sharing a bed with my sister just because she moved too much in her sleep and I'd get no sleep at all O.o;;
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*giggles* You guys are all cuuuuuuuute!
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Sleeping in the bed with a relative or friend, hell no to me.
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Miki: *Glomps teh Miki* Cute? XD
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Everyone feels differently about who they can sleep with, and I mean sleep sleep, that's just the way it is. XD
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Kukon- It's not a big deal to me it's not like your cuddling or feeling up on eachother.
Rampy- Howdy! How you doing today. |
@morwyn: *glomps back* Cuuuuuuute you is! XD
@Kayla: Pretty good. Just got home a few minutes ago and looking for snacks. >_> I'm bad. XD @Kuky: *hangs on you* I bet if you got the chance to sleep in the same bed with a bunch of girls you would. XD |
Rampy- Snacks are good. >.> I should eat something before I get the snacks I've only eaten noodles today.
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@Broken: It is a big deal to me. >.>
@Rampartte: No I wouldn't. -Steps away.- I have a girlfriend, even if I didn't I wouldn't. |
lol, well, I can see this discussion is going nowhere... it's all about what you're used to, what you grew up with as thinking as being normal and such. I've slept in the same bed as my friends when having a sleepover, you know, like staying up til 4 in the morning watching movies and such. I don't think it's a big deal, but I respect the fact that Kukon is uncomfortable with that. That's his choice.
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