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@Kukon: that's fine. I'm not telling you to drink alcohol after all xD
Ahah okay GH ;D Sleep well <3 I'll have one for you by the time you wake up <3 |
@Tetsu: Agian, I am sorry for being a ass yesterday and today. I've had lots of bad stuff happen lately.
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I'll hold you to that Tetsu!
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@Kukon: Apology accepted, however... Kukon, you should try to find other ways to cope with your stress. I have had a lot of horribly stressful things going on as well, but I'm not taking it out on the people I call my friends. As the old saying goes, "If you don't have anything kind to say, then don't say anything at all". v__v;
Also, we aren't just leaving because you're getting online, Kukon. It's not so late for me, but for Tori, GH and Kale, it tends to be rather late when you come on at night. Like GH said, it was past 4 am for him and the others it was 3 am. v___v We aren't running away from you, we're going to bed because we've had long days and we're tired, or some of us are even ill. Your lack of self-confidence and the self-pity you always seem to wallow in however I believe does make it hard to talk to you. Whenever someone says something to you and you're in a bad mood like today, you kind of shrug them off--and you seem to be in a bad mood quite often lately because of whatever stresses are going on in life. Like BlondHeart said earlier, she was just trying to be kind to you because you always say you want people to talk to you and you want to feel wanted, but whenever someone does try to do so, you either brush them off, ignore them or you argue with them over petty little things. I don't mean to sound like a jerk, and I'm sorry if that's what I make myself out to be, but I'm telling you what I as a stander-by and someone who has also experienced your persistent arguing over little things. Not to say you're wrong for having your opinion, but there is a point when it is time to drop a subject and move on to something new. Anyway, like I said, didn't mean to sound like a jerk or anything. Sorry if I did. |
@Tetsu: I don't really know anyway to cope with stress, i've never had stress in my life until recently.
I know that your not all leaving because I am on, I just said it because I was in a bad mood. And when i'm in a bad mood I say things without thinking. I have no self-confidence and I have self-pity because of how my life has been so far, its always how i've been and it's hard to change habits. Yeah, I do tend to shrug people off when i'm in a bad mood and I apologize. Yeah, I know Blond was trying to be nice. And, I know. When i'm in a bad mood I can be a complete ass even when I want people to talk to me. You don't sound like a jerk, at all. I completely understand where your coming from AND I agree with you. |
Well the good news is, I am pretty forgiving. :wink: Also if you need help working through the issue I can try to help you.
But I also want to give you a gentle reminder that everyone has stress sometimes. It's normal to lash out when you are troubled, but you have to remember that maybe the people you are not being nice to are dealing with stress of their own. So what's causing you all this stress hon? |
@Blond: Lots of things.
I don't want to repost it here, so i'll copy paste from a pm. My GF has go into the hospital tommorow for scoping and maybe even surgery and i'm on edge about it. Concerned,upset and stressed. My mom yelled at me today and she is close to losing the apartment we are in. I had pains in my side and it wouldn't go away for a long time. My dog seems to be getting sick. |
Ok well lets take it one thing at a time...first of all what is your girlfriend going in for?
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@Blond: Getting her gallbladder removed. Thing is, I can't be there for her.
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You know what, my Mother has to have that done on the 13th of April. The good news is that gallbladder surgery is pretty simple these days. It's microscopic surgery, and it's not much more serious than having your tonsils out. All you can do is be supportive and listen to her when she is scared...because surgery is scary. I had a big surgery a year ago last January and I was pretty scared, but I came through it just fine. Your girlfriend is young, and she is going to be just fine too. I am sure she knows that you would love to be with her and understands that you can't. But why don't you give her a phone call of encouragement before she has to go in.
K, now what about your mom and the apartment. |
Eh, I dunno what to do about my mom and the apartment, to be frank.
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Why is she about to lose it?
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Not enough money, crappy job, apartment owners are aholes.
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You should try to find the housing authority where you live. Many times they have lists of places that will help you pay the rent if you are below a certain income level. Wouldn't hurt to give it a try.
If your mom yells at you, you have to remember that she isn't yelling at you because she is mad at you really...she is just feeling the same kind of stress that you are right now. Also remember that sometimes things happen that seem bad, but in the end they turn out being pretty good because they open a door to a posibility that you wouldn't have had otherwise. Describe to me the pain in your side the best you can. |
Hmmmm, she has tried negoitating many times even with authority and no luck.
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No hon the housing authority isn't the people who own the building. It is a government agency. Every town has one. If nothin else call the chamber of commerce, they can point you in the right direction.
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Ah, I dunno about that stuff. XD Maybe it would help.
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It's ok if you don't know. Just call the Chamber of Commerce and explain what you want and they will help you.
Now tell me about the pain in your side. How long have you had it, does it hurt all the time or is intermittent? Which side is on. |
On the left lately, when i'm laying down its more common and hurts more. It doesn't last very long or anything, but when it does happen it hurts bad.
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Where is it at exactly
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Toward the lower middle.
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Here this is to the Oklahoma City Housing Authority:
http://www.ochanet.org/ Is the pain under your ribcage? |
No, not under my rip cage.
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Does it hurt more after you eat?
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No, but when I drink soda and stuff. Its probably a kidney or something.
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