| yanyan13 |
08-25-2007 02:34 PM |
- good evening here twizzy :> we live in teh opposite sides of the planet XD ehehe :> of course, you know that already, right? :>
today, my fiancee and I went out on our weekend date, and, well... i dunno what went wrong, i was listening to her and stated my opinion, which got her mad, and it all went so wrong.. XD i think the main problem was that when we're talking, i look like I'm not listening to her, cuz I keep staring blankly at space like this @[email protected] XD problem is, I'm like that. It looks like I'm not at home, but I'm realy listening, and my mind is eating up every single word that comes to her mouth, and at the same time, I'm sorting out the stuff that can and can not be said as an opinion. (I guess I sorted out the wrong things this time XD) so, well, as usual, the conversation just got worse and worse until I lost the last drop of patience I had and told her, "you're noisy. we don't go out much in a week. we only get to go on a date on weekends. and there are plenty of times you can get mad at me except on this special day. can't we just NOT quarrel and talk about happy things?"
and then, it got even worse XD she was sort of implying that I wasn't listening well, and she thought that 3 years before, I wasn't like this, that I've changed. I used to listen with her and we enjoyed every moment we had to be just with each other.
well, we sorted things out somehow, and it all ended up with me voicing out why I'm like this now, that I was adjusting on how to deal with our problems, while considering the fact that she's the type that likes to start arguments (and she admits this, well, she does when she's not in "those killer moods" XD)
so tonight, I'm here at home and sent her an sms message. she said she was sorry, and that she was all messed up. I told her that wasn't true. I told her that all she needs is to listen to ME from time to time. that she can never change some things about me. that when i talk to people, i tend to look away because that's how i am XD and i admit that sometimes, I listen, and sometimes, I do not (when I'm not interested XD). BUT, that doesn't change how much I love her.
ehehe.. i told her that last time i checked, no one has invented something that can measure love XD
well, just sharing XD
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