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Boys... RAWR!
Okay, so there's this one guy, let's say his name is Kevin.
And my Friend, let's say her name is Britney. Soo I have like Kevin all this school year, he's funny, and I suppose fairly good looking. Britney started liking him, when she found out I liked him! So she always tries to interrupt me when I'm talking to him, contradict what I'm saying. You know, being a basic bitch about things. Well it turns out he has a girlfriend that he likes a lot. So I decided to play safe, and keep my distance, knowing him he wouldn't stay in a long relationship to save his life. Meanwhile Britney obsesses over him. He's seriously perverted, he sent me a message on myspace, telling me how he got a boner because I was sucking on a pen. Kevin isn't a Christian[which I am, and I would prefer he was], he's seriously stupid, but seriously funny. Kevin is an all around player, so I'm losing interest fast. Yesterday he asked for her cell number, and well I gave it to him. It'd be rude of me not to, right? Anyways I'm really afraid that this will just lead her on, and make her more obsessed with him. Why am I worrying about this so much? Should I just drop this guy? Is he worth it? Worth the wait? What should I do about my bitch of a friend? Have you had similar experiences? |
Talk to Britney. Tell her he has a girlfriend if you haven't already. Tell her the things about him that make you lose interest. If she can't respect what you say, then she's not worth it. As for Kevin, if he has a girlfriend, forget about him. What if you were that girl? If he's a jerk anyway, you shouldn't bother. and you should definitely tell his girlfriend about that message.. |
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Yeah I guess I should forget about him, it's sort of a lost cause I suppose. Telling his girlfriend about the message would ruin his and my relationship as friends, and I think I'd like to keep that. |
Boys.
It sounds like this guy wouldn't be a good boyfriend to begin with. You say he wouldn't stay in a long relationship, so why bother? He's already got a girlfriend, but even if he broke up with her, how long is he gonig to be with you? And it's really not right of him to tell other girls he got a boner from their picture and ask for yet another girl's phone number when he's got a girlfriend. So he sounds like bad news no matter what. I just wouldn't bother with someone like him because even if you ever got in a relationship with him he would probably be flirting with everyone else behind your back anyway.
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Thanks! Good point, he flirts way too much, and he admits it too. He's pretty tricky... I suppose. Yeah now that I think about it, he would be a terrible boyfriend in a relationship. Thanks!
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You should talk to your friend. Tell her that he has a girlfriend, and that she should keep her distance.
Plus, a guy that doesn't stay in long relationships doesn't really seem like an ideal boyfriend. |
kevin doesnt sound like that great of a guy. definitely not worth the wait. both you and your friend deserve better
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Nooooo...don't give your friends phone numbers away!! Especially if you don't think he would be good for her, or you don't know for ONE HUNDRED PERCENT she wants him to have it. You know what? Even then you probably shouldn't have. Make him get it from her himself. I know you are in high school, but don't let him play high school games. He has got to grow up sometime.
Oh yeah and drop this guy. My boyfriend just read this and thinks he sounds like a choad. |
It sounds to me like "Brittney" isn't a true friend. A real friend wouldn't act like that. The guy sounds like someone to stay away from, he is probably just out for sex and I have suspicion that's not what you want. I think it's disrespectful of him to send you an email telling you he got a "boner" watching you suck on a pen. Find a decent guy who will respect you and forget about the loser, as far as your friend, you should drop her too, she doesn't have any respect for you either. Oh yeah, like Verucca said, never give out your friends phone numbers without their permission.
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Talking generally helps with any problem that I have encountered if its to do with friendship. Go to her and say hey do you really like him or is it just coz you think he's popular? then hopefully you can say how you really feel and she just might back away. Hard situation to be in though but a very common one also as it happened to me a little while back. My friend did it coz she thought that the guy I really liked was popular and so she wanted to try to be popular as well by acting as if she really wanted to go out with him, in the end I found out that he was a jerk and a totall waste of time as all he wanted to do was get in my pants.
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'Kevin' sounds like a total idiot to me, not really a person to take any kind of relationship seriously. One of those people whose going to fail at life if they don't start to grow up. You need to get your friend 'Britney' to understand this fact.
I know how hard it is when your friend is falling for a guy who you know isn't good for them. The sort of same thing happened with my friend- she started chasing after this no- good guy. It ended horribly (I'm not going to tell the exact details) and a lot of rumours, some of them sadly true, were spread around the school. Just get this 'Britney' to see this 'Kevin' for the jerk he is. Once she sees him for who he is she'll wonder why she ever liked him :D |
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