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well, fortunately, rape isn't THAT common.
also, in most cases, if a woman gets raped, she's usually raped, then killed(i would say more than half the time) It is highly improbable for a woman to get raped six times and not be dead yet. Usually women who have multiple abortions are those using it as a birth control. I still stand firm that abortion should stay legal, but I don't like the fact that it's being used as a birth control. It's not that bad though because there is an extremely small amount of women that actually do that. It's quite an EXPENSIVE birth control, too if you think about it. $300 per abortion. hmmmmm... |
i agree 99%..
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If a woman did get raped that many times and not killed, you can bet it's a repeat offender. But you'd think she'd tell the police... or at least get on birth control.
And I hear that in some countries, abortion is free? I don't really know. But I don't see why you would use it as birth control. Any form I can think of is cheaper. :\ |
Yeah... wasn't there some kind of "implant" that would make you not have the period nor getting pregnant for around 3 years? o.o I bet even that thing would be cheaper than an abortion >.>''
PS: Abortion free? *shrugs* ... Italy? o_o |
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Well, come countries are really over populated, abortion can help control the population. |
No offence, but bullshit to that abortion isn't murder bit. It honsetly has to do with every individuals definition of living. Some believe it occurs at conception, others believe during a time in pregnancy (after so many weeks) and others believe life begins at birth. Abortion is murder. Dead things don't grow, they don't organize cytoplasm, none of it. Yet an unborn baby, a fetus, an embryo, does. Already, about 4-6 weeks in, it's got a heartbeat, and brain activity. Does that not count as being alive? I've got no issues with preventing pregnancy, but once you've become pregnant, you need to choose a responsible course of action. |
Living, just like parasites. Sorry if this doesn't sound euphonic enough, but fetuses at the begining are more like parasites than humans. No, I'm not offending fetuses, parasites live and feed off from other living things too.
Anyways, let me tell you whether abortion is murder or not, I think of it as the "least bad" option. It's better than bringing an unwanted kid to the world. We already have many of those. Overpopulation, flooded adoption agencies [if not in the USA, there are other parts of the world], and the economical situation, which not everyone shares, but most are always having trouble with this and that. PS: I would like to ask, what's the definition of a "responsible course of action" for you? |
I guess it would be the same as:
if abortion is murder, then is slaughtering millions of cows murder? Nope, that's just food. And what about exterminating bugs, mice, and rats? nah! they're just PESTS. Or stomping on the little spider that snuck it's way into your room? but, it was scaryy! human beings are pests. and they're effecting the whole planet. and yes, I know I am one of those ( I swear I'm not dilusional) |
So by your logic, Popcorn Gun, killing anything living counts as murder.
Murder is a person killing another person. Whether or not a fetus is alive is not up for debate, because it's pretty obvious they're living beings. However, whether or not a fetus qualifies as a PERSON is still open for interpretation. Which is why the whole abortion = murder thing hasn't been clearly defined yet. Am I making sense? /exhausted |
I think abortion has its place, its pros and cons, just like anything else. People who look at it as a black and white, yes or no topic, are foolish.
There are plenty of medical or other reasons for abortion, and I really think it should be up to the family and the individual to work it out, not a bunch of fanatics waving banners who don't believe in contraception yet cant keep their legs closed. People who suggest killing a pinch of cells is wrong, but think nothing of animal abuse or helping the homeless or adopting a child in need, etc etc. However I also think abortion should be taken seriously and made a worst-case scenario. Where I am in my life, I don't think I would be able to look at myself in the mirror if I terminated a pregnancy. I have a plan of action should I get pregnant. But in cases of rape, or pregnancy despite multiple forms of birth control, etc, I think Plan B or abortion should at least be an option. I really believe that in some cases waiting until you can give a child a good life is the best choice. |
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I'm leaving that up for interpretation. You gotta play the devil's advocate every now and then to get things heated, it makes things more interesting. But there are so many ways to prevent the slip up of having an unwanted pregnancy. If latex fails you, there are sugeries, pills (that can reduce how often a woman ovulates, and if all else fails, you can (while you're still carrying the baby, find an adoptive home for the child) and with this, you don't have to put the kid in an agency, you find the parents, check them out, and fill out paper work (probably more to it, but I can't type forever). @ slickie :: Yes, it is murder, it just goes back to human rights vs. animal rights vs. animal welfare. Murder by definition can, but doesn't have to be the killing of a human. Quote:
For a lot of states, when an embryo/fetus is considered human varies. Some places go by when it starts showing human characteristics, while other places go by weeks. In one state it may be after 12 weeks when a baby is considered human, while in other places it's after 16 weeks. Abortion = murder hasn't been defined by law. That doesn't mean people don't have their own definitions. If we just followed the standard, we'd all be sheep, and this wouldn't be so controversial. Ya get me? |
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I think everyone has the right to get an abortion or not.
I say, as long as there isn't a heartbeat or it's breathing, it's fine. Though, with this, you don't know if you are delaying the life of someone who has the cure for cancer or knows how to make water float. Or anything like that. We may never know. Yet, a child that is 13, gets pregnant, I think she should have an abortion. Why? Well, most likely the father will run because he isn't ready to be a daddy (the usual scenario to all those clauses.). Why should you have a child, and then go "Well you didn't have this because your daddy bailed out and ran for it." or "I'm sorry, you weren't meant to be, but you were a suprise! :'D" That would make a child feel awful inside.... or at least if I was that child I'd feel awful. Plus, even if you did give birth to it, then gave it up for adoption. What if the adoptive parents go "Oh yeah, you were adopted", and the kid wants to find you. What if you started a family of your own? Already had kids? What are you going to say to the child? "Oh yeah, I'm sorry... it was a hard time..." The kid is going to feel betrayed. And even if you DID mark "I don't want this child to find me" on the papers, they'll find you anyway since it's their right away. Come on let's face facts. ._. But anyway, I think everyone has the right to have an abortion. |
/2ynx, you do know that a heart is one of the first things it develops, right?
An embryo can have a heartbeat before the woman is even aware she's pregnant; apparently, as early on as the fifth week. |
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I do think abortion should be illegal. It IS murder whether you wish to admit that or not. Its killing a living organism that will develop into a human being. If someone is going to have a child and thats going to threaten their life, they can get a C-section to remove the child. I don't understand why you can't just have the child(If it's not going to harm you.) and if you don't want it, put it up for adoption.
@EvilKittenNamedAli Abortion isn't a way to take responsibilty if you weren't a rape victim you shouldn't have done it in the first place if you didn't want a child. |
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A woman with haemophilia wouldn't be able to have a C-section, did you know? She would bleed to death. And WHAT if the fetus had anencephalia? Would you make a mother have a child just to watch him die in few hours? I don't think it's fair.
Also, we kill cows everyday, which are living creatures. We eat caviar, and they could have been fish. Both are vertebrates, and cows are mammals, just like us. Should we have a holy right because we're "superior to each and every other way, form or shape of life out there"? Should we only have sex for breeding, just because "a God told us to", even though not everyone believes in the same God, if any? AND, believe it or not, it is taking responsability, as I stated some pages back [sheesh I keep quoting myself x_x]: Quote:
PS: Everyone should be born to be happy and make their parents happy. |
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And pointing out that if these creatures are so unimportant to us, then why is an unwanted human fetus so damned important? cows are living beings, fetuses are living beings. Get the picture? |
Isn't that sort of the point? An unwanted human fetus isn't that important (in my eyes, anyway). No more important than a cow. We consider ourselves better because we've developed top of our class, so to speak, but that's a different story.
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My body is not available for any living thing, human or not, to use for its own purposes against my will. There is no legal (or, in my opinion, moral) precedent for any thing, creature, or person to continuously feed off of my body without my continous permission.
I'm careful; I use protection - but if I do get pregnant before I'm ready to carry to term, I will definitely consider abortion. |
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i agree, its good to have a reasonable reason to have an abortion, such as the examples you have noted.
though i still believe it is the man and the woman's decision if they want to have an abortion or not because it is their problem and responsibility. |
Do fetuses with brain activity have the same rights as someone in a hospital on life support with brain activity? If they have brain activity, then aren't they thinking?
at what stage of development, do fetuses develop independant brain activity (ok, I know in the case of boys, it may be 18 years before they have brain activity, lol) I think therefore I am. I'm not taking a position, just wondering. I do know I would feel super guilty if I got an abortion, but that's just me. I'm just glad my mom decided to have me. |
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