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"JESUS MOM, I FREAKING HATE YOU"
I know quite a lot of kids who hate on their parents and it makes me wonder, why?
I understand that parents are annoying and most of the time they still think you're eight years old and shouldn't be allowed to go outside after 5 PM, but that's not a reason to hate them is it? I know this one girl who once said she wished it was her mother who died of cancer instead of her father because her mother got pissed at her for something, mind you this girl is about 15 / 16 years old and she only hangs out with guys from around 20 and all they really do is drink and do drugs or have sex. So I think her mother has the right to be concerned, but I don't understand that after feeling the hurt of losing one parent, you'd wish that happened with the other. :/ I do understand that there are a lot of parents out there who deserve to be hated like abusive parents, drugs/drinking addicts or plain selfish people. If your parents are like that I wouldn't blame you one bit for wanting to get away from them as soon as you can. Well, tell me about your experiences with parents: Are they nice ? Are they strict? What's the worst fight you've been in with them? |
Never had any problems myself.
And this is suppose to be a child friendly site. So alter the language a bit. |
I don't understand why some people bitch about how much their parents suck.. but I actually know several people who are COMPLETELY justified in doing so.
My best friend's mom is a complete and total crazy cuntface. She forces her to clean out the house with absolutely no help, won't get off the computer even when she needs to do HOMEWORK... Hell. Once I was in the back of the car and my friend was explaining to her mom how depressed she'd been... and her mom GROUNDED her. e_e My boyfriend's dad is also fairly psycho. I was out with him once.. the man called 20 times (literally, I counted), left two angry messages, and NEVER ACTUALLY said what he wanted. When my boyfriend got home, he got bitched out for now answering his phone, but was never told what was SO IMPORTANT that he needed 20 calls in the first place. |
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I get along with my mom pretty well. We have our fights but overall it's a really good and strong relationship. It's important for kids to have good relationships with their parents, as long as their parents aren't scum and what not. *sighs* Always saddens me when parents and kids don't get alone. LULZ this thread reminded me of the millions of emo threads on gaia. *screams* NUU flashbacksXD |
They're just stupid.
If their parents die and they become orphans or are forced to live with fatso Uncle Bob, then they'll regret it. I've never hated either of my parents, even though I really don't like my dad at times. I don't hate anyone or anything. |
Wow that's kinda sad.
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I can understand when you don't like your parents for good reason. Example, I dislike my dad a lot because of how he used to treat my mother before they got divorced, and what he's doing now. But I don't HATE him.
Like, if your parents are abusive and stuff then there's reason. But I know one girl who hates her mother because her mother wont let her go to parties. As in underage drinking parties. I think her mother is being pretty reasonable, and it shows that her mother cares about her. I also know another girl who hates her mother because her mother punishes her. Like, her mother makes her go to bed at 10pm if she doesn't do her chores and what-not. I think that's a dumb reason to hate your mother. ALL parents can be annoying at times. Everybody gets irritated with their parents at some point. But that's no reason to hate them. I think the kids are just acting like spoiled brats. |
My parents... are just idiots. I said that as a kid, and now I say that as an adult. I'd rather not divulge too much personal information over the net, but they're two of the biggest hypocrites I've ever met. I just wish they could SEE how they act sometimes.
It's like they're two overgrown teenagers sometimes. I'm definitely not perfect, but god, they're old enough to know better. That being said, I don't know what I'd do if they were gone. LOL |
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I know. Pretty much everyone one gaia hates their parents. "liek omigod mi mum is such a mean bicthc she told mi 2 clean up mi room OMFG" |
Me and my parents have the best relationship.
I've never had a curfew because I'm hardly ever going out late at night. I've only done that at least five times in my whole life. I've never had arguments with my parents about how I dress or what music I listen to because I don't wear shirts that show off my chest, and I don't wear skirts that are too short because I don't like it. I hate being the center of attention. And music -- I grew up listening to oldies, so I love the music my parents love. I've never had any problems with my parents about boyfriends, because I'm not into dating at the moment. And I still think kissing is gross. And I don't think you want to know what I think about sex. xDD By the way, I'm nineteen years old. Let's see, what else does the average teenager argue about with their parents... Well, I'm a Christian, and I go to Church because I want to, not because my parents make me -- and they don't make me. It's my decision. What else... I can't think of anything right now. *shrugs* |
My parents are alright.
Dads level-headed, but a bit too aggressive at times. I have no respect for my mother though. Once I asked her why we moved to Florida when no one wanted to, and she said "Because you're too young, your opinion doesnt count. You're not really a part of the family." =/ And if dad had said anything she would have gone on one of her "OMG YOU GUYS HATE ME" rampages and left the house for a week and a half. Not to mention, when I asked her why she got married at such a young age, she replied "because I wanted to get out of the house, I wanted to show my parents i didnt like them." Nothing about loving my dad. She wanted to spite her parents. Her mom I could understand, but her father was one of the most admirable people I knew. He was a WW2 vet with a loving heart and a love for people in general. I dont see how you could be mad at him. -_- but, anyways, I love her and all, but I just can't respect her at all. Shes getting mad at my little sister for not wanting to go into the medical profession because of the money. She wants to do something culinary, but she knows that doesnt make as much money as being a doctor, so shes mad. :roll: As for other kids, teenage angst just happens. Im not much of an angsty person though, but its natural to want to direct your feelings towards a seemingly-worthy cause at the time. Its just a phase. n_n |
My mother and I are like old friends. I'm just like her. I never understand why anyone would wish ill on their parents. Most parents are just looking out for you. Like the kids who run away from home and sleep in the woods. They'd complain it was because their mom punished them for being out all night, or their dad just doesn'tt understand them. Confuses me. I guess it was because i wasn't a rebel teen, my mom had limits for me but she was still lax about things.
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Psh, I love my parents. They're awesome. There are so many people out there, too, that have great parents and don't deserve them because all they do is whine about the few rules that they have to follow. With regards to doing what one's parent's say, with most good parents, it's way easier to do the right thing. I can't understand people who whine about being grounded for doing something wrong. I mean, shouldn't they be thankful that their parents care about them?
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I love my parents. They're not strict unless they need to be, and whenever I need something (food usually), and I don't have the money to pay for it, they will buy it for me. They don't try to pry their nose into my personal life, they give me my space. I love my parents, even though my mother drives up the wall sometimes cause she's kind of crazy, I still love her anyway.
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Wow, a parent hating thread. Nice.
Well, tell me about your experiences with parents: My experience with parents, eh? Well, I was born of two drug addicts who made a mistake and ended up getting married while Mama was six months pregnant. =/ Life was never awesome, but that's fine. They pretty much put us through 'hell' until my mother left my father. Then things were 10x worse until the state took us from her three years later and sent us back to him. Things were okay for a while, but then Daddy got back into drugs and we were homeless a lot and rawr, what a mess. -.o I guess my experience was never having parents. I raised my brother and sister, then my parents, and of course myself. I never had that thing most kids have though; curfew, grade standards, who I can and couldn't hang out with. I actually turned out pretty well too, I don't drink or do any drugs, I'm not into going out and being bad. I dropped out of high school, but that was to help Mama pay bills at the time. x3 Neh, I think you children with parents who care need to wise up and realize what you had. I was a straight A student and never even got praised because they didn't care. Kids think it's better if their parents wouldn't care and left them aloe, it's honestly not the way it would be; I know from my own life. Are they nice ? M'hm. Now more than ever since they're both apparently trying to get clean. My mother, as of today, had been clean for seven years. I no longer live with her because she booted me out when I was 18, but she's the same person she was high. She just cares a -little- more. My dad is missing, says he's clean and calls sometimes, but I can't tell with him. They're both nice though, I guess. Are they strict? Nope, not at all. I even tried my best to be a good girl just to get attention and got ignored. xD I can't say it was a bad thing that they weren't strict though, my freedom to do things made me actually look into what I thought I wanted to do and I realized it wasn't something I -really- wanted to do. What's the worst fight you've been in with them? Mother: A fist fight because she told me if anyone ever hit me that I should hit them back. After disappearing out of my life for a few years she came back and decided she wanted to be a mother again. Hit me when I mouthed off to her about wanting to step in after so long, so I hit her back. ._.; Father: After he got his tax check one year he gave me 2k and told me to hide it so he didn't spend it on drugs. Then he came to me one night begging for it because his friend only had a little left and he needed it. He ended up pushing me a few times and getting -very- mad that I refused to give him his money. =/ So I did. Yeah, enjoy your parents while you can. x_x After you have to grow up and there isn't anyone to look after you, it's no fun x10. |
Geeze, I can't say I agree with that girl's way of thinking. At all.
Anyhow, I'd say my parents are good at reasoning, and they don't do anything too...well, unreasonable. My only beef is that I feel as if I should be able to go out with friends, even if they just asked me a few days ago. Sure, I would plan in advance for convenience, and it's wise to ask in advance in case others had already made plans, but hey. We're teens. What are you going to do? I don't think I can single out a single worst fight, my mom has freaked out over quite a few stupid things I've done. xP As for why kids hate on their parents? Well, I think I could use some space at this time in my life. It's difficult for them too, I understand that. I'm transitioning between being a kid to an adult: I'm a teenager. If they expect too much of me, it makes me panic, becuase I might not be able to meet up to those standards. If they don't expect enough of me, that bothers me becuase I know I can be better and I wish they'd know that I can be better. |
I had typical arguments with my parents while growing up, nothing too serious, just squabbles about curfew, clothing choices, my addicion to video games, lol
I did however have a really bad time with my parents for about 4-6 months of my senior year in highschool. My BF at the time was the worst BF i've ever had, and I still wonder why I dated him. He was a pot head, lazy bumb, skipped school all the time, ect. My parents hated him, and I would hang around with he and all his pot head friends, thus my parents were upset at me alllll the time. I wouldn't come home some nights just out of sheer anger, they even called the cops on me when I didnt come home one night and I got dragged in kicking and screeming, It was a horrible experience and It took me a long time to earn my parents trust again, but amazingly I was able to once I cleaned up my act and dumped my BF. If my parents hadn't loved me so much they wouldn't have cared so much about who I was hanging out with. Kids get really ticked off when parents get like that, but it's only because they care, and better to have them care, than to not care at all. n__n |
My parents are very strict.
But lately they've been a little less strict. They are letting me go to concerts and go to my g/f's almost everyday. The don't argue to me if I don't do my homework. I'm kinda glad. But when they tick me off I kinda choose to ignore it cause I know what is gonna come out of their mouth. I mean I love my parents but they can be total A-holes at times. Especially my mom. She says she will do something and then she won't. |
Parents freakin adore me.
xDD I give off a lovely impression that I'm the most responsible child they've every known. Its not completely untrue, don't get me wrong. I'm a pretty straight shooter. But when I'm out from under the watchful eye, I just like to have a good time. Maybe get into a little trouble...And not get caught. xD So, questions. Are they nice ? -Yeah, My mom is super laid back for the most part. Are they strict? -No, she pretty much lets me do whatever I want. What's the worst fight you've been in with them? -I was failing Spanish class. My mom was pissed. |
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"WELL MOM UNLIKE YOU I'M NOT F****N PERFECT! SO SHUT UP AND DONT TALK TO ME!" I was grounded for like a week xD I forget why I had the fight though. But my mom really expects me to be perfect, like I got a 95% on my test and she asked why I didnt get a 100% :roll: but still I could never truly hate my parents, i may say I hate them but never really do. |
I don't hate my parents but I get annoyed very easily by them. I know they are just looking out for me and trying to keep me safe but, sometimes, they get a little bit overzealous. My mom gets on my nerves a lot more than my dad. She's really overprotective and I can't do half of the things normal teenagers get to do like, go over to friends houses and such which is why I spend so much time on the computer but then she complains about me being on the computer so much. It is sort of like nothing I do really pleases her.
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My parents aren't that strict. Sometimes I get angry at the things they tell me to do, but I know that it's for the best. They're good parents. ^^
Worst fight I had with my parents? They think I'm really smart. [Pfeh. >.> Not really.] I said they were pushing me. My dad wants me to do well at school, obviously. He doesn't want me to skive off like my sister did. xP So he's extra-pushy about schoolwork and 'Staying interested' with learning. >.< |
Are they Nice?
My parents are very loving people. But, like any other human on the earth, they experience emotion. xD Let us just say that you get what you dish out. :mrgreen: Are they Strict? Not most times. I'm allowed a normal curfew, most privileges that other kids my age have, and all my rights as a citizen of the USA. ...Other than cursing. I can't do that. ^^; The only times they cut down on any of my rights are when they really do know best, which I never doubt. I know they're right at least a quarter of the time. <3 What's the Worst Fight you've ever been in with them? I don't really remember the fights we've had... I tend to forget them. Fighting with who gave birth to you is quite a dense idea- seeing as they give you food, shelter, and nearly everything you have until you're 16+. But, I do think the worst fight we've ever had was when I was ten, asking to go to bed later than seven-o-clock. >> I won~ My bedtime was upped to nine-thirty, like a normal 10-year-old! xD |
Well, I am thirteen years old and am still not emo. -Score- But anyway, I feel that those people who wish their parents to hell or something, is very selfish and may need some help. Or their spoiled rotten. That said, I think sometimes that children who are abused, have more appreciation for their parents, then those who have to nice of parents, and basically do whatever they want. Now, my mom and I get along fine, we have a strong relationship because she is the only one I can really depend, I have a lot of Issue's I shall not talk about on ze net, but I will say this.
My mom and I always get into arguments, a lot because of my mood swings, but we still love and adore each other. Sometimes my mom can be very hypercritical but I just ignore it. But in the end, she is still number one on my list. <3 |
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