Did she ask if you told him, or did you tell her that yourself after you'd already done it? I know you're open and honest (which is a good thing) with your friends, but most people immediately feel betrayed if secrets are told, no matter the reason.

I usually go by the, "ask if s/he minds before I say something" rule. Damage is already done otherwise. I can see why she'd be upset. This is why I say nothing if I tell Cole something. He and I pretty much talk about everything, but no one needs to know that as it doesn't change a situation, y'know?

She'll either get over it or she won't. I don't know why I feel so black and white today. It's not like me at all. x__x;

She said something to me after I said something to Aaron.

The thing is I'm not going to play this whole secrets thing bullshit with anyone. I'm not going to discuss her private life with anyone else, but with Aaron it's fair game. I trust him above anyone else and I know he wouldn't say anything to anyone.

But I've tried this 'little white lie' thing with my EX-husband and the truth and eventually I ended up spitting out the truth and he got livid with me. It's bound to happen, and it's just stupid. I trust everything to Aaron and he's told me everything I've wanted to know about him, and then some. I've been reading journals and love letters of his, and he's gotten into detail about past conquests. I've pried him. I'm curious as to his 5 girls he's slept with I have a total of 2...and well a half, cause I never did go all the way, but we got into it a couple nights. This is before Aaron and I blame Alcohol and also low self esteem at that point. Luckily I didn't swap any bodily fluids with him though as he was from South Africa. Talk about risky. :/

Anyways, go me I'm doing the paper!

And I just pulled the cake out of the pan. I should of waited longer to let it cool as it started to come off in pieces. Hopefully I can frosting over it and no one will know. I sort of lacked the patience to wait. Curiosity got the best of me. :<

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ohh Chi's gone naked with me. ;D

Wonder if Kin is going to join. We can form a whole nudist colony.

That's not what I mean though. I'm not saying "don't share with your husband". Like I said, I share everything with Cole. I have no qualms telling him anything because I know it only goes as far as his ear and nowhere else.

What I meant is that it's unfair for you to expect friends not to get upset with you if they tell you something in confidence, but you tell someone else. To the person having their private details discussed, they wouldn't see why you would feel you had to tell your husband. Just because he's your husband doesn't make the person feel any less betrayed or violated. That's all I mean.

And yes, nakie I did indeed go. I love these CIs. XD

I'm almost done with part 2 of 4 of this college stuff. The remaining two really shouldn't take as long. I'm kinda flying by the seat of my pants on this one. I really need to see what everyone wants me to do about collecting photos.

OK Well then I won't say anything more about it to her.

I just said yah no problem after she said it, but then I felt really guilty. I talked to another friend about MY dilemma and he just laughs and says he doesn't deal with girlie drama.

In all honesty the friend in question doesn't sound like she's happy with her boyfriend, but at the same time is reluctant to let go. She's got A LOT of personal issues SHE needs to work on and if she's going to push me away over this whole stupid thing I'm glad it's now and not later. I did divulge personal info to her, but I'm not too bothered. I can't see her doing much damage...and I'd tell someone if they REALLY wanted to know. You know me...I've got no qualms talking about rude stuff.

God ask my friend up north. We have TONS of fun dishing out the details of our sex lives. I know too much about her. LOL.

Save for about two people, I rarely say things unless I'd be OK with a broad population knowing. For some reason I've always been guarded like that. (But, as I get older, I realize I care less and less about what people know of me. Research Methods last year was mostly spent talking about sex and boyfriends/husbands in between all the work. :XD)

Go with your instinct. If she's going to push you away and let go, leave it be before you get into a position where you're more emotionally invested. That sounds almost callous, sort of like, "put yourself first, always!" but you know what I mean. People have to keep themselves stable before they can be stable for someone else, you know?

hello~ do you happen to have the Midas Touch/YinYang set to trade for? :)

If you toss a good enough offer my way, yep! :3 How many May sets were you thinking?

This is true, Chi...This is true...

Oh jeez, I think our oven is broken. I made meatloaf and the oven isn't warming. It cooked the cake just fine...

We're having problems with the washer too. :/ It's leaking somewhere and it's getting our floor all wet when I run it. Why can't ONE thing break at a time?? :XP

Oh no. The oven stopped working? ;___;

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Turn the meatloaf mixture into patties and fry them. That'll work in a pinch. ^-^

A very tasty pinch. :)

i only have 1 may ;O
do you think i can pay the rest with gold? :)

or else, i;ll try and find a way to buy another may with my items since i only have 1k left >w<

Welp, new CIs are going around 2k a set, and a Midas/YinYang is worth 4k, so I personally would consider two May sets a fair offer...

Yeah, I agree with Kin. (He'd do the trade with you. :XD I asked him if he wanted to and he said yes.)

I also agree with Kin. :)

We fixed it in the end - the pilot light burned out and just needed to pop the bottom out. Aaron had to help me with it and we ended up eating late, but luckily he doesn't have work. He loved the meal. It was a 5 course meal - Mexican meatloaf, mash potato, salad, cream corn soup, german chocolate cake with mudpie icecream. Oh my word I'm stuffed.

I also finished the paper. I need to tweak it and add in some citation here and there and page numbers but I think it's fleshed out and I'm done. Such a difficult topic to write about...

Tomorrow I'm gonna wrap it up and then wrap up the 5th essay which isn't nearly as hard...Hopefully I can get both turned in Tuesday, and my presentation goes well. Shit, I have a section in math to do. I love waiting until the last minute. :XP

Well at least Aaron is off the next couple of days so I'll pour myself into getting everything wrapped up.

Sounds like it's been a pretty productive day and night! :3

I just finished up with my project work, too. I promised myself I'd be done by bedtime. I just need to call my adviser tomorrow and see what all needs to be done still.

I've returned.
How is everyone?

Hiya. Been busy moving into the new place? :3

Yeah, all that's left is my room. Lol. First I have to make up my mind how I want my bed. xD

Ah... you'll get it done soon. :3

Yeah.. Too lazy now though xD

Yeah, I hear ya. I'm off to bed pretty soon. I'm just deciding whether I want to shower now or in the morning. :XD

Lol Yeah, I'm putting off the shower until tomorrow myself... don't have the energy to stand. xD I may put off my room until Tuesday.. xD I'm off Tuesday - Friday from work I'll need something to do. I just changed where my bed is again.. I decided the way it was originally made the room look bigger.. and bigger = better when you're claustrophobic.

I'd love to rearrange my bedroom, but where the closets are really doesn't leave much change allowances. ;_;

I'll catch you later. I'm gonna hit the hay. G'night!

Alright! Night.