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Eddie Dee 11-21-2007 01:32 AM

Have you being heartbroken before?
 
Just wondering care to share if you being heart broken before? how mane times... if you want! can you tell us what happen?

Well I, myself, havent fall in love with anyone, so no... no yet, maybe

But again I repeat, If you want!, post what you like, what you think that its ok to post

neur0mancer 11-21-2007 01:38 AM

Yes- and just once. Ive only ever dated one person. xD

he lied about some pretty low stuff, then when he had another girlfriend he tried to get back with me (Or, uh, just make out with me) while she was in China. x_x

I have no problems talking with him, i see no use in holding grudges (he says hes changed since then, and it really does seem it). Not to mention, we have so much in common, I can see us having very intricate conversations that engage the mind. n_n

Akkiko 11-21-2007 01:38 AM

Can't say I have.

I have yet to find anyone who makes me feel for them in that kind of way.

KNOX 11-21-2007 01:43 AM

i never have, i don't get conected to people very often
its a good and bad thing
i have been homesick though
so i guess heartbroken is like that but on the next level.

fuyumi_saito 11-21-2007 01:48 AM

You can get your heart broken by so many people. Not just someone you fall for. My heart broke when my biological father decided not to talk to me, ever. There was also the time my mom yelled at me.

Just family and friend stuff really..

H_e_a_r_t 11-21-2007 02:07 AM


  • Okay, time for soap opera :lol:

    Back in middle school when i came to U.S. (yes i fell in love young), for the first time and so far the only time of my life i fell in love. I knew it right away i loved him. There was nothing more darling than looking at him, talking to him and seeing his smile. It was a sweet feeling. I wanted nothing from him, his mere presence was pure happiness and for all eternity i wanted to hold him. Of course, i was really young at the time so i felt -no- lust :lol:. -sigh- Innocent little me :lol: ( i did not even know about sex in that time, yush, i was sheltered)He was just happened to be handsome and flocked by other girls. For most people he was just a player, going after girls after girls after girls. He was quite alright to me. It was like he knew i was this innocent untainted child and he kept me that way. It must be new for him to see a silly and sheltered little girl >.>;;; I was scared though, i knew he's not someone to be hanging around. I = too goody girl. But i never had so much fun with any person since then. I deliberated push him away and not even accepted him as a friend in the end. It would had been a really nice friendship. I guess i doubted too much, but i doubts have reasons. From afar, he's really nothing more than a messed up guy but he wasn't that bad. I think deep down, he's real.

    Of course this story had been stretched by imagination, :lol: but the basic story is still the same. I regret pushing him away like a disease now still. I hope he got everything together and is living a good life now.

Emerrett 11-21-2007 02:27 AM

Heartbroken...you mean like getting dumped? I did have feelings those were kind of like heartbrokening, just some depressing time, but it's not like I got dumped...I barely dated anyone, yet. xD

[L]ove[H]ate 11-21-2007 03:14 AM

I've been once, and that was in sixth grade.......I'm still getting over it and I'm in tenth grade. It's depressing...

` Baby Face 11-21-2007 03:29 AM

i have been heartbroken before he was like my first boy friend and well i really really like this boy and yeah me and him would stay up till like 5 in the morining talking to each other and well i was always happy when i was with him.and now he is like a total player yeah i still know him and i look at the way i like really really like him and i think of myself as a stupid like sixthgrader who fell for the wrong guy... yeah that is my story...

ciara cyanide 11-21-2007 03:52 AM

Life is all about living and losing
of course. your bound to be heartbroken atleast once in your life. yes I have been many times.

Majinkoz 11-21-2007 03:52 AM

No, I really don't think that I've ever been heart broken...I don't know, sure I've had crushes on people and I've found out that they don't like me or something...but I don't consider that having my heart broken. D:

I'm with my boyfriend right now, if he called me up this second and told me something like, "I hate you, I'm breaking up with you NOW" Yeah...then I would be very heartbroken.

Dystopia 11-21-2007 03:54 AM

Not really. I haven't really fallen in love so there's no way I could have experienced true, devastating heartbreak. I have been shot down, as they say, when I've asked someone out. But that's about it.

BrokenHearted 11-21-2007 04:20 AM

I was sneezing all day....turns out ya'll have been talking about me. :lol:

Obviously...*points to username*...I have been brokenhearted. More than once. More than people, situations can break your heart as well. *nods*

Shrimp_Man 11-21-2007 05:36 AM

I've been in love before and unfortunately for me, he wasn't in love with me back. We were really close so it was both a good thing and a bad thing for us to be so close. I wouldn't have given up being around him for anything, but it also hurt to see him get together with other people. I finally got over him about two years ago, but I saw him again a month or so ago and all of a sudden, the hurt of not being able to win his love hit me all over again. TT_TT

Marguerite Blakeney 11-21-2007 05:42 AM

  • Oh GOD, who HASN'T been heartbroken!?

    In sixth grade, I met this boy named Alex, and we were instantly smitten (yes, really). Eventually we became the talk of the class, and then of the whole sixth grade class of my school because somebody knew someone who knew someone who was a friend of myself or Alex. People started trying to get us to hook up (granted, I'm 11 years old at the time, and he's 12), and both of us liked each other a LOT. It took us forever to become little-kid boyfriend & girlfriend. In the second semester, our moms met during a class event and were talking about how cute Alex and I looked together. Shortly after that we DID hook up...but the relationship only lasted a month. I don't know why. But you know what? The loser dumped me on the PHONE! I'm pretty much over him already since he's gone and moved off to some new state.

    And then there was my most recent crush. I met this guy in sophomore year of high school, and we became really good friends (we still are). He and I liked each other a lot and I kept trying to ask him out. He refused, even though he still was interested in me. I'm not trying to sound like a clingy girl but I know this guy has feelings for me because he used to take the time out to text me a LOT (which led to my $500 cellphone bill and the cancellation of my phone number, but that's a different story) and I texted him back, and we expressed our feelings to each other. We saw each other a few times in 2005, and I spent the weekend with him for his birthday. In 2006 we went on an actual date, then a month or two later, all of a sudden he asks me how a girl would want to be asked out. I myself have never been asked out, so I assumed he was talking about me...then I give him all these suggestions. Then the guy tells me that "it's not for him, it's for his friend..." but I knew he was lying. I just didn't know how. Suffice to say, he eventually tells me it really WAS for him and that he wanted to ask some other chick out because they've known each other longer.

    That wasn't fair.

    I cried for weeks on end, and I don't remember when I stopped, but I was devastated, angry, and hated him. Problem is I was still friends with some people that were close to him as well...and that didn't help.

    I DID meet his girlfriend in the end...and trust me...it was hard to pretend to be nice, but I did it.

Lolly 11-21-2007 05:50 AM

I've only had two true loves in my life so far.
Oddly the both share the same name.
xD
Anyways,the story was simple.
Josh,the first Cx,bumped into me one day.
We got to talking.
Soon we were chatting all the time.
We became inseparable.
We shared laughs and shared hard times.
But we loved each other.
One day,he told me something that seemed to have torn my heart.
He was leaving.
Moving away.
We broke it up there.
Long distance relationships just don't seem to work.
I was young,my first love was gone.
The only thing left I have is a ring he placed on finger one evening.
He said it was his promise ring.
u___u<3

And now,my dear Josh.. the second.
Is my love in my life.
He's just as amazing as the first.
The sweetest man.
Snuggly,and handsome.
Polite and intelligent.
I can talk to him about anything.
And Everything.
I don't know if he's the one.
But he's my one right now.

Fabby 11-21-2007 08:14 AM

I have, quite badly actually. Ugh.

There was this guy named.. BEAU. The ominous Beau.
We went out in 7th grade. And I really really liked him. I might say I almost loved him. I can't even remember why at this point, I'm so tied up with hating him.
Anyway. He lied about EVERYTHING.

He had apparently gone out with me because he thought I was pathetic, led me on the entire time... and then he dumped me because I was cutting into his Warcraft time.
I still don't know what he told me was a lie and what wasn't...

Anyway. For, like, A YEAR after that he would just fuck with me. He'd tell me that he liked me and all that shit just to tell me he didn't like me at all two days later. It was horrible, because I just let him. I kick myself for not walking away, but.. I didn't.

Overall, it took at least a year to get over him, if not more. T_T That's WAY TOO LONG for some stupid 3 month relationship between 13 year olds. Ick.


AND HE NEVER SHOWERED!

Loony Lynn 11-21-2007 08:44 AM

Err. I don't think I've ever been heartbroken.
I might have broken hearts though...But I think I was being reasonable.

There are only a few times which I have crushed on anyone. I blame it on the lack of cool guys where I live. Really, I met the coolest guys ever and they live across the ocean. >> It's really sad thing to know and everything, but I've never been heartbroken.
As for the guys where I live. Crushed...twice? One moved...the other became an idiot. :] I have WONDERFUL taste don't I? xP

I wonder how I would act if I was ever heartbroken...Or dumped and etc.

Sagitar 11-21-2007 09:37 AM

oh so many times. :3

like when I was 12, there was this mister S. I had a huge crush on him, but he played with my feelings and told lies and then would laugh at me behind my back..

then when I was 13, another guy wanted to fool around me and played with my feelings, I was sooooo in love with him... it really crushed me.
him I forgot when I met another guy..

at the age of 14. He was a real slicky one. He had many other girls than me, but since he lived in another city I didn't know about them until later.. yep he cheated on me million times. We were then quite a bit on/off -.-

at the age of 15... 3 guys in a row dumped me, and waaaayy goes down my self-esteem.

16 - I met this wonderful guy, popular, good looking, fun, sexy, good humour.. everything nice :3 BUT he wanted to have sex with me, and I wasn't into it on that age.. I wasn't ready! so he left me because I didn't have sex with him after 4months.

At the age of 17 I met my fiance.. ^^ I was still dating another guy when I first layed my eyes on him, but at that moment I knew he was a guy I would like x) especially when I heard him talking... <3
I played around with him and talked to him and we laughed a lot :P
I dumped my boyfriend, but he was already gone.
I didn't get to see him until 6 months later! I actually met him online again, and before he came back to our school, we were together xD <3
We've been dating for 3 years now, but I've had my share of broken heart in this relation ship too.
Love isn't always that easy you know.. had some on and offs, but we're okay now, engaged, live together again and everything.. (:
he just has this weird hold of me that I can't even explain xP

xXcarly_sqzrXx 11-21-2007 10:01 AM

no :] because i dont have a boyfriend yet, so...

Prozac Bunny 11-21-2007 11:01 AM

A couple times by the same person. But it usually passes. And it's never his fault really. I get myself into messes and then he'll yell at me. It makes me really sad, but then I realize that he just wants me to do good. :3

neon666 11-21-2007 12:21 PM

i fell in love...ocne upo na time...nah i int gonna go into a heartfelt story but jealosuy is a mean creature and can leave you heartbroken for unexpected reasons

i too have expearienced this and also i feel another case coming on now

i never felt much heartbreak with my first boyfriend because after a while i just think i feel out of love with him...

oh man i am so cruel!!!
love eh? who needs it only ever ends in hurt :cry:

goldfish67 11-21-2007 12:24 PM

i got my heartbroken my best friend..i dont know what happened with him..i only wish i couldve done something sooner..he's still like this even though its been 2 and half years..he doesnt even go to my school anymore

MayLily 11-21-2007 05:36 PM

I have no heart to break. Lol. Let's just say I've never fallen in Love. Gone out and that. But never true love. At least I don't think so. I've never been attached to a person. And I've made a stalker that way. Lol. No seriously I have a stalker. Whihc is dead annoying. But hey. I've been called heartless and I don't care. I'm me. And I'm starting to learn one of the only people you can truly trust in yourself.

Muggles Running Amok 11-21-2007 05:59 PM



In 7th grade, before I liked my boyfriend, I liked this gorgeous, SMART, tall 8th grader, who had a girlfriend I didn't know about until later. He flirted with me and I flirted back and I liked him, but I never told anyone. He wrote me a note saying that he did like me, but he had a girlfriend. We talked on AIM and he said that if he was single, he'd ask me out. Looking back, that was a horrible thing of me to ask, and that was a horrible thing of him to say. I did tell him, though, that I just wanted to be friends and I would be RESPECTFUL of him and his girlfriend, that I wouldn't flirt with him, but word got out that he told me he liked me, and he immediately got over me because his relationship with his girlfriend was threatened. He said we shouldn't talk any more. I was devastated for a couple months... That's when I got really close to my current boyfriend. But I really think that's the closest I've been to heartbroken, even if I didn't really love the 8th grader.

In the past two years with my boyfriend, we've had some major fights, and we've come close to breaking up. so I think I've had little heartbreaks, but who hasn't? We've always been able to heal.

The idea of a real, aching, sobbing for months kind of heartbreak scares me, and I know I'll experience it sooner or later, but I think it's important to know that eventually, everything will be okay.



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