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The Wandering Poet 12-14-2007 08:10 PM

How do you feel about...
 
This thread is going to be based on how you feel about random topics.

I'll start, but feel free to ask your own ^^.

How do you feel about kids? (Having them, as in giving birth to and raising one)

V!rtual Insanity 12-14-2007 08:26 PM

I didn't used to like kids very much, because it seemed like I wasn't silly enough to entertain them, and they were just too much for me to handle.
But now that my baby cousin is practically my best friend, I do feel kind of different about them. I'm still not sure I'd want to have one though. Even though I'm good with most of them, and think they're cute, I still don't think I could handle one of my own. :(
Plus, giving birth doesn't sound too fun either.

The Wandering Poet 12-14-2007 08:32 PM

You know anything at all looks like the most wonderful thing in the world... they're actually more hard to NOT entertain... lol

Majinkoz 12-14-2007 08:59 PM

I definitely want to have children when the time is right for me, I'm only 19 so obviously I'm not going to have kids now, but I think in the next few years I will definitely have children. <3

I am a little bit afraid to give birth though...I've been told some scary stories.

The Wandering Poet 12-14-2007 09:03 PM

So have I >.< every single birthday my mom tells me how incredibly much I hurt. (I didn't want to come out... lol)

fuyumi_saito 12-14-2007 09:53 PM

I would like to have kids some day. I'd have to adopt, but that's alright. ^^'

The Wandering Poet 12-14-2007 09:57 PM

Nothing wrong with adoption... it's actually kinda sweet, since most people make their own, but someone's gotta take care of the orphans right? ^^

Fabby 12-14-2007 10:11 PM

Eagh! I hate kids. Dirty little bastards, they all are.

I might possibly maybe consider having one.
Maybe.

But at the moment I hate them and want nothing to do with them. XD

Majinkoz 12-14-2007 10:57 PM

I think adoption is great because then it gives people the chance that cannot have children to still have someone special. ^^

Mynx 12-14-2007 11:48 PM

I love kids! I can't wait to have some of my own^^ 2 to be precise~ Hopefully a boy first and then a girl, no more than 2 years apart.
I don't get annoyed easily, and I love teaching and playing with kids. I don't know, I think I'll be a good parent when I'm older^^

nescia 12-14-2007 11:55 PM

I definitely want to have children.
That's far away in the future though.
hehe

Aurora 12-15-2007 01:16 AM

I don't want to have my own kids, i'd rather adopt.
Theirs so many children out their who needs homes and people who care for them. <333

Lolly 12-15-2007 02:07 AM

I'd love to have my own children one day.
But I do get the jeebies from stories too. e_____e;
My mother almost died from having me, and she said the pain was like a truck hitting her in the head.
Doesn't sound like something I'd wanna go through.
I could probably deal with regular birth pains but nothing of that sort.
But I do want to adopt a child as well.
Although I'm not the best with kiddies but nor were a lot of women I know who have their own sons and daughters. I guess you may grow into it.
/:
In the situation I do have kids I'd want one little girl and then a boy. Not at the same time.
u____________u;;
And then adopt a child. Boy or Girl. I don't think I'd care.

bobopeachfuzz 12-15-2007 02:31 AM

i feel great right know cause i have winter break i feel the air :P :P :P i am glad :P :P :P

Marguerite Blakeney 12-15-2007 02:41 AM

  • I DON'T want them. I don't want the responsibility of them and I don't want them to end up acting like my four year old cousin, JJ. He's so mean and he always pulls my hair. Plus...his dad taught him how to cuss. I kid you not.

    Everyone's like "well who's gonna take care of you when you're old?" I don't know, and frankly, I don't care! I just don't want kids!

Orla_Yakushi 12-15-2007 03:22 AM

I want them, but only when I am older
and with my husband that is willing
to help. My love that purposed to me
the other day, well we talked about
kids and such before hand. I sujest
if any of you are heavly thinking about
being with some one ask about that and
other things first.

Orla_Yakushi 12-15-2007 03:53 AM

I want them, but only when I am older
and with my husband that is willing
to help. My love that purposed to me
the other day, well we talked about
kids and such before hand. I sujest
if any of you are heavly thinking about
being with some one ask about that and
other things first.

CHHKZFan 12-15-2007 05:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aurora
I don't want to have my own kids, i'd rather adopt.
Theirs so many children out their who needs homes and people who care for them. <333

I'm not so sure...
If I want to have kids of my own, I mean. Most of my friends are afraid of having kids. We saw a video and studied a bunch of stuff for... echem... this kind of topic. So.. now every girl is afraid of it. I'm... I'm still deciding.. but hey... I'm only 13... so... I don't need to worry about that for a long time. And... since the boys had to see that video too... They like to rub it in our faces that they don't have to go through any of that. Dirty rotten boys. So... My friends want to adopt when they grow up... well... that's what they say right now. Who knows, some of us might change our minds. But, I like your reason for adopting better than mine, of just adopting so that we can have kids without acutally "having" them. All kids need a home. ^^

Intoxicating Envy 12-16-2007 06:27 AM

Actually I would love to have children.

I may adopt a few too.

How do you feel about acting?


I love acting.

fuyumi_saito 12-16-2007 07:41 AM

lol..Acting..Well I've been pretendng to be straight in real life for awhile. So I think I might be good at it.

I have taken one drama class. I did well at it. So yeah..I like plays and movies too, acting is good *shrugs*

Enamor 12-16-2007 01:57 PM

I really want kids. Like, really. DD: BUT I CAN'T

Since I'm not getting married, there's no chance of children there... and I wouldn't adopt because I'd probably ruin a child. It's so sad. I'll just hang our with my friends' babies all the time. <33

EDIT: Oh, and random topics are fine... unless they're stupid. THIS ONE ISN'T!

The Wandering Poet 12-16-2007 05:30 PM

@ Enamor - Why can;t you have kids? O.o

Karla 12-16-2007 05:51 PM

How do you feel about kids?
I think little kids are okay. I don't honestly have the patience for them, but that's just me. D: I get agitated really fast and so it's hard to deal with little kids. Then again, I have 3 younger siblings, so that's probably why I have those feelings towards little kids. XD Hahaha.

Giving birth to them? Mhm. I'm kind of scared of that. I guess I'll eventually have to deal with that. D: But for now, I just won't worry about it. There is so much medication now a days. XD I'm sure it'll be fin and what not. So yeah. XD;

Raising them... I'd probably a pretty strict mom. D: I don't know. Maybe not. I wouldn't spoil them though. I don't really like spoiled kids. Not that many people do. They are just so annoying, and they think they can get away with everything. They need boundaries.

Berginyon 12-16-2007 05:59 PM

Usually I'm quite ambivalent on the matter... but every now and then I see parents with their babies, or a family friend gives birth to a new child, and I think about how potentially great that could be sometime for me... of course, depending on whether or not the cute little kid grows up to be a little bastard later in life ^^

Menteur 12-16-2007 06:14 PM

arg.
Kids annoy the living crap out of me. I hate how they think they know everything, and when I babysit my sisters they're all like "you're not the boss of me"
adgl;kmdls;
Having birth... That's a scary thought, but I wouldn't mind having kids, because, being the parent, they'd listen to me. [At least, I'd hope so.] I really don't know if I want kids though, just the thought of them possibly hating me is kind of scary D;


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