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Life is really hard for me. [Somewhat Mature]
I don't really know how to begin.
Well, you see, I have an older brother. He's always bugging me about sexual acts I haven't committed (I wanna save "it" for my future wife. You know? I just think it'll feel right.) He constantly saying a have a small... you know. I mean, has he been looking? Besides that, I can't even go to school without him using me as some kind of tool to "up his status". The saddest part is, I know how much smarter I am then him. But if I even try to confront him about the way he treats me, he gets aggressive and usually performs the Chinese nutcracker on me... I think he messes with me because of our different social status'. In order from Popular to least popular.
Because of him, I can honestly say I have a lack of friends. (Maybe three?) Some examples of what he says to me... "Get away Fire Crotch. (Everyone laughs at me after he finishes)". "I don't know how we're related, you look like you got ran over by a semi and sat on by a fat chick (laughing again)". He has honestly ruined my life. He's destroyed my self-esteem, made me flinchy, and he made me begin to stutter (it's not bad... yet). He's spit on my face, pissed on my pillow, kicked me repetitive times, given me a black eye, broke my leg, broke my arm, shoved a THUMBTACK in my EYE, stabbed pencils into the back of my neck, hit me with a baseball bat across the head, and used his male organs to unload on my covers. Now, I to this day, have no clue how to deal with him. I've tried fighting him, but he has muscles and a killer left hook. I tried talking to him, but he kicks my below the belt (as stated above). How should I go about him quitting all of this childish nonsense? [Before you mark this as "This is so dumb and useless, it's absolute garbage to the LD", you've got to understand this is all true. I'm honestly stuck here, and I could use a bit of advice.] |
wtf...this made me almost piss myself laughing
u should be a writer |
You're a jerk for rating Goths so low. :/
I'm horribly offended. |
Wow...That's so horrible!
What about your parents? They don't do anything? I really don't know what to say...Could you try avoiding him at school? Lock your bedroom door? I honestly don't see why people act like that. There's no reason for it. I'm sorry I couldn't help more ): Edit: *clicks tongue* It's people like those above who make me fear for the future of the Life Issues forum. God, please don't let it turn into the gaia one o__o |
As I stated, I posted the list by how PEOPLE AT OUR SCHOOL FIND OTHER PEOPLE. Some goths are okay to talk with, I don't really have a problem with them.
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Please remove it and just say he's one of the most popular and you're somewhere in the middle. I'm really offended. :|
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Then be offended by my SCHOOL, like I am.
I'm not going to change it just because you asked. |
Try talking to your parents about it. But honestly I have no idea. If he makes fun of you that bad then parents, like I said would be a great idea. If not then just try and get under his skin. If he gets aggressive about it then Just use psychology. Say to him when you have a lot of people around at school. "If you make fun of me, why is that? You're just so insecure about yourself you take your mind off of it by making fun of me?"
Or you could go my way. Make the whole school turn against him. Psychological warfare >:O |
Do your parents know about this and allow it? I feel like the best thing would be to enroll in an out-of-state boarding school. Somewhere where people haven't been influenced by your brother and where you are safe from him. He sounds like an absolute psycho. I'm sorry, but your parents are idiots. Your brother needs to be sent to a reform school or given his own private little padded cell. It's disgusting that a monster like him has been allowed to do what he's done. I mean, breaking your bones is beyond sick as is other stuff he's done. In the meantime. Find someone to talk to. Maybe a counselor. Someone needs to be aware that your brother is dangerous before you wind up dead. It only gets worse from there. Make sure that whoever you talk to knows that talking to your brother would put you at risk. In the meantime, see if you can't acquire a cup. That much repeated damage to your reproductive organs is bad. |
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Prime example. |
I've attempted the psychology clique before. Let's just say... my head met a dirty high school toilet.
My parents believes he's all rainbows and sunshine; they don't believe me. |
That's why your brother picks on you then. You're MEAN.
Just because It's done at school doesn't mean you should bring it on Mene and offend/harass people. |
They think he's all rainbows and sunshine? Get proof, if you can! Tape recorder, or set a video camera up. If you have any friends at all, use them as witnesses. I don't know. Try exposing your brother for what he really is.
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Kego, your complete lack of moral sense is causing me to agree to what James said.
"When people do not respect us we are sharply offended; yet in his private heart no man much respects himself." - Mark Twain @James: As for that, I've attempted it. He found my camera and broke it in half. He convinced my parents it was "run over". |
Lol seriously? Parents shouldn't chose one son over another. If your parents thing your lieing over something this serious. I'm not kidding. One night with all your family there. Call the police and say you are being abused by your brother and your parents aren't listening to your cries for help. Something will definitly change.
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Kego- I can't believe you would say that to someone who has been hurt like that. What kind of bitch do you have to be? He's had fricking bones broken by his brother and you're whining over a list that is the opinion of other people not him. That's really low. Don't stay there Hero. Find someone to report this to. Beg your parents to be enrolled in a boarding school. Get away from him. |
But see Climax, my parents don't really see us like that.
It's more like, he's older so he MUST know more. I may give the police thing a shot though, but mom and/or dad aren't usually home that much. @Sanctuary: Thanks bro... and about the boarding school thing, my parents will only send me to Military school; my dad gets a strange discount because he worked there as a Headmaster for about 11 years. |
Kegokec--Don't hijack someone else's thread. If you're offended by the truth of social hierarchies then, well, you should probably stop paying attention to most of the world. This isn't about YOU this is about Guitar. Stop being so selfish, please. Egocentric behavior does nothing for your stereotype/label.
Ahem. On to the OP-- You need to talk to a parent, an administrator, a school psychologist or any adult whom you trust. There are youth outreach hotlines/sites/etc. You are being seriously abused by this situation. I hardly need to tell you that, but you need to act. However long it's been going on, it needs to stop ASAP. Some things are just male bravado--such as your brother insulting the size of your privates, all guys do that regardless if they've seen it or not. Other things are serious. Including the physical and mental abuse. In the end, if it causes damage to your self-concept it is abuse/harrassment and needs to be treated seriously. If your parents won't do anything, maybe an administrator or a teacher will. If you have a school psychologist or guidance counselor (see the former first, if you have one) they can intervene. This has gone way beyond you taking it up with your brother. |
I'm not ACTING offended. I AM offended. I'm sick of being thrown in with emo kids and stuck somewhere down in the 'unpopular' list.
If I wanted to cause drama, I'd do it in real life, not online. Whatever happened to "Treat others as you want to be treated"? I asked you nicely. You acting like your brother doesn't help anything, kid. KARMA. Arilu - Like I said, he doesn't need to bring it online even if it is what people do in real life. |
Okay well I'm going to bed. Just make sure your brother and one of your parents are home. I suggest your mother because moms are ususally more caring. Your dad might get mad for calling the cops.
But a mother would see that you weren't lieing about it if you went this far. But while the police are there, tell them you want your brother to go away. Make sure your parents have a contract saying something will change. He will go away. You will stay with a relative, something. G'night I hope you have the courage to call the police. When ever you feel is right. |
Kego, I'm sorry, but your posts are pure lacking of helping me out here.
I'm going to ask you to leave. Maybe you should try listening to Sanctuary and Arilu. |
He sounds horrrible...
Either A. You tell your parents. If you have and they do nothing, then you should get out of there. Tell a teacher or someone, bad stuff might happen, like you being taken away from your parents for not doing anything about it... and etc.... You could also tell your parents you won't talk to them until they set him straight, and go live at a friends house. Explain to their parents the situation, and I'm sure they would let you stay...depending on who they are of course. Talk to the mother >_< |
Do not call the police! It will end up causing more problems than good!
Unless of course your brother hurts you physically again--then by all means call the police ASAP. As long as there is physical evidence of abuse. Domestic cases are very, very, very tricky. Laws vary from state to state. In some they will arrest everyone--you included!--for domestic disturbance. Police are the last last last resort. |
Havoc. Lol, I'm still confused on how to go about this.
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On Monday approach a teacher you trust or go see your school psychologist. Or even go to the nurse and tell them you don't feel safe.
Any teacher/administrator is a mandated reporter. If you tell them your brother is abusing you they are required to follow up. |
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