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I don't care if you like me but I don't want you to hate me
Is there people that you do not want to be on bad side of? Like, more of classmates and friends then family since you can't help but be stuck with them forever.
There is this guy in my class, I used to know back in elementary and he used to be very mean to me. I always disliked him but luckily he moved in after gr. 5. But then when high school came around, he is there. Dx Well, I don't hate him any more since it's long gone. Except I really don't want him to dislike me. He isn't mean to me anymore, but still is in his own way and I'm scared he'll suddenly come up to me and say something rude. x___x;; I wouldn't give a bleep if he worship me (well, maybe I will o.o) but I would never want to be on his bad side... Anyone else have something like that? |
Heh, yes.
There is a guy on campus who thought I was hot, and we talked a few times. Knowing that he thought I was hot and just waiting for me to break up with my boyfriend made me feel really awkward; since we didn't have much in common anyway, I just sort of stopped talking to him. Now whenever I see him though, I feel like he must hate me, which bother me. Like the title says, I don't need him to like me, I just don't want him to dislike me. Every time I see him, I start talking to him in my head, trying to justify myself... It's relaly annoying. D: |
There is this girl named Jacy in my class. That is one girl you do not want become enemies with. I'm serious. You argue with her, she spreads rumors about you.
Not something you and especially I want. Dx Yeah I'm a wimp even if it is words, words CAN hurt emotionally you know. D; Screw "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words may never hurt me" lol. XD |
Sadly, I've gotten to the point where I don't care any more. Sure I'll be civil towards the person if I have to deal with them everyday, but if they started crap with me, then I'll give attitude back.
I'm not a fighter, [never gotten into a fight], but I'm not going to be civil with someone who can't be civil with me. Not to mention, if it's someone who is mean to me for absolutely no reason, then I am not going to make the effort to be around them too much. |
I have this major crush on this guy, but I don't really care if he doesn't worship me. I just wish he would become my friend and like me as a person.
Sounds pathetic but the thing is he doesn't not like me. It is just that I have a hard time finding ways to talk to him. I am really upset that I can't seem to grab what courage I used to have and just tell him I don't give a butt if you don't like me I just wish you would reply back when I say something to you. Or email you. XDDD |
Yeah, I was like that a couple times in school. Turns out that everyone who was mean to me in grade school, weren't such jerks after all, I actually had one apologize to me. It was a little weird. But anyways, I've tried my hardest not to hate anyone. I dislike people at times, but I still try to be kind.
Also, there were the kids that made me a little nervous in highschool... You know the kind that seem right on the edge of being dangerous. ... Anytime I talk to them or they talked to me, I made an extra effort to be friendly. I didn't want to get hurt or anything... >.< (Okay, so maybe I was a little paranoid) But, I've never really wanted to be hated or disliked by anyone unless they were rude jerks, and then I just ignored them. |
Oh great topic I have the same but even worst.
I had this horrible classmate at highschool , he used to be a nightmare for me specially because he picked on me ALL the time, he hit me, he even burnt my folders and pencil case and my boyfriend's umbrella once T_T he was scary and I couldnt stop him no way...idk why...I was shy..maybe? or he was stronguer, thing is he was a nightmare for many kids, he picked on my best friend too, he spited on him =( ...disgusting i know...and called him horrible names in front of everyone ..pushed him and kicked him and hit him...then one day....after nothing seemed to stop him (the school authorities were sedated I want to believe >>) he poisoned a doctor's son putting drugs (idk what it was) on his sandwich...it was a huge dosis and the boy almost die...then i think he was expelled since we didnt see him anymore....but this guy was such a nightmare that I had dreams about him hitting me and I was scared because he always treatened me to know where I used to take the bus and often he waited for me to push me in the right moment the bus was comming...hey this is not a joke...my mom even called the police.... then I was so scared...but well time passed and i sort of forgot about him....then more time passed and I became an adult I got married and moved away to a lovely neighborhood.... then one day I see him...he had grown up but still it was him....and he waved at me....i was so horrorized i did nothing but entering my house.....o.o then another day i see him with a baby!!! o.o he waves again and smiles...i ...say hi and he says you are Anna right? ..(thats my real name) I say yes...and you are...(insert his name here) he laughed and said he would have recognized me anywhere....I said nothing... he showed me his little baby boy...I said something nice about the kid...couldnt believe he had two already ....he told me he had to leave the kid with his granny who lived right on my corner (i knew the lovely old lady but never ever thought he was conected with her) he asked for my life like we were old friends....12 years had passed since those years...I was like shocked.... I see him from time to time but dont talk to him more than a "hi" I ....dont know what to feel...i mean he has done too much to me to just act normal...still I dont wish him any harm...i jsut dont know...any advice? |
Hey! I had a situation like this myself! Only I was the one that moved away. XD This kid and I were mortal enemies in middle school and for the life of me I can't remember why. We would always call each other names and get really competitive on the playground and in sports like events but thankfully after 6th I moved away and went to a different middle school. But when Freshman year came around low and behold there he was! At first I was thinking, "that can't be him..." but it was. The thing is I don't hate him and he didn't hate me.
It was just a childish hate we had but since we couldn't remember why we didn't get along we were never mean to each other again. But I think it helped that we were never in each others' classes and only passed in the hallway sometimes. XD |
thanks, you know what ? after talking to my neighbourgs he is drunk he has no job and has 3 kids and cannot support them and he makes his "gf"'s life misrable....he steals his granny money for drugs.....people doesnt change .....not really
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hehe, yeah.
I know a guy like that, and I still hate him. I still do. I think he dislikes me though. I don't think he hates me, but he definitely does NOT like me. D: |
Yep, this happened to me! This girl, we got in an argument for some reason, and we decided to ignore each other. Big time. She disliked me, I disliked her. But everyday we saw each other. And one day, she came up to me and just started talking to me. I obviously ignored her. But then as the weeks passed, we slowly talked, and now we are friends again xD How awkward is that?
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I feel for you. I think think that is pretty awkward in general though. I can't imagine seeing someone like that after so long. I only had this kid who moved in middle school that was mean to me and now he is in my high school. I wonder if he even knows that it is me...I look different and dress more like the girl than the tomboy I dressed like and truly still am.
Does your ex-bully remember you? |
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Many times! No one is perfect! Like come on. I know a lot of people who say bad stuff behind my back! It is best if you just ignore it.Even some of my cousins say bad stuff about me!It's just best as you think of it as this,if someone is bothering you, you know someone is bothering them.
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Yes, those people that always seem like they are going to fight you if you say one wrong word... xD I don't want to be on THEIR bad side. I have to say I don't wanna be on My Mom's bad side though. >_> She holds grudges.
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I don't really have a story, or any specific person. I just don't like it when people dislike me, especially if they do not know me. That angers me. I'm just the kind of person that can't have people disliking them. It hurts me and I start freaking out like, "Why do they hate me?", "What did I do to them?" I'm very self-conscious, so I guess me being that self conscious has something to do with it.
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There's a guy I know and whenever we talk we pretty much end up fighting about something. We both know a lot about music and books, so we often end up fighting about that. Anyways, I used to like him but then he stopped eating and lost like 40 pounds really super fast, which freaked me out, so we started fighting even more, and it became less like friendly arguments and more like 'If your parents weren't right there I'd punch you in the face'.
We still fight a lot, but we don't see eachother as often. I don't want him to hate me, because I remember us actually being friends and me having a small crush on him, but I just don't see how we could be super close friends anymore since he's changed so drastically. |
I used to be best friends with the girl since 1st grade, we were friends for seven years! Until she became really popular and hanging with the wrong crowd and ditched me. She goes to my highschool now and I don't really talk to her, but I do my best not to make her hate me, just see me as another student at the school.
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I'm at a point in my life where for the most part, with exception to family, I can choose who is and isn't in my life and even with family I do have some level of control. If there are people who I just really can't stand, I choose not to be around them. My classes right now don't really require much interaction and certainly not on a personal level and the only situations I can't really avoid are my home life (which is renting a few rooms in a very large house- there are ten people living in the house and there are still empty rooms!) and my daughters' school (they are enrolled in Early Head Start which I am required to attend with them.) While both of those have people I'd rather not deal with, most of the time I can just choose not to deal with them any more than necessary and it keeps things calm and drama-free.
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I was friends with this one girl in elementary school, but she started to get really mean and almost abusive even. She wouldn't let me be with any of my other friends, and she would freak out if I wasn't there one day. Eventually the school moved the program I was in to a different school, so I didn't see her again for a few years. Then I saw her again in High school! Whenever we see each other in the hallway, we just ignore each other. It works alright.
Also there is a girl on my sports team who hates me for no reason whatsoever. I don't know what to say to here because whenever i start talking to her she just glares at me. So I just say nothing. And I always seem to do something stupid around her to make her hate me more, like the other day after we got changed in the dressing room, I accidentaly mixed up her jeans with mine. She got all mad and was like "OBVIOUSLY these are MINE." and she acts like I'm really really stupid. I don't know why she hates me so much. |
I have that same instinct, I can't stand having people hate me. I'm such a pacifist. Really, even if I had good reason to get into some kind of conflict I'll try my damnedest to get out of it or just slink out of it with a joke or something.
I know some people who are the complete opposite and LOVE to have people hate them, just so they can find someone to complain to. People love to play the martyr. |
oh well, i guess i do..
i don't know whether it's the same as in your situation. there's one guy, that i hated for so long...i also showed to him that i hate him, let him know that i haateee him.. but when i grow up, and highschool almost end..i started to change my feelings onto him... i started to hope that he won't hate me for hating him for so long... i'm still thinking about it though i've finished highschool >.<; |
I guess I sort of feel that way, if I'm understanding you correctly C: When I was in the first or second grade, there was this boy who caught me after school one day and threw every insult, cuss word, and malevolent sentiment he probably knew of at me, just for the hell of it xD; I went home crying, so my mom arranged a meeting with him and the principle and she and I -- But in the principle's office, when I was asked the determining question "Is this the kid who did all this? For sure?" I made the mistake of looking over at the boy and said "No," because he was looking at me with such a pleading expression >.>; I think he had a bad life at home too, so I didn't have it in me to subject him to that. Anyway, I met him again in middle school -- and although we didn't talk a lot, he didn't insult me again xD; I don't like people to dislike me, or be hurt because of me~ >.>
I have a lot of stories like that xD; Most of them end with me crying my heart out, letting them off the hook, and trying to forget it ever happened xD; It's a weakness *o* |
Hm, nearly a year ago a girl I thought I was really good friends with suddenly reacted really badly to something I said and started shouting at me and insulting me. I don't know how what I said offended her, I had just said something like the sound at the gig we'd been watching hadn't been that good. Even other people who were there say they don't understand.
We didn't go to school together or anything so I only saw her when we arranged to meet up. I sent her a message saying I was sorry, and did she want to talk about what was wrong but she never replied. We live in the same city, and I've even driven past her house a couple of times but I've never seen her since. I wonder firstly if she still even thinks about me to hate me now and secondly if she hated me while I still thought we were friends. |
I hate to be in bad side of most people, because it will be a hassle and will tire yourself out when you decide to be constantly on alert when you're near them. |
Maybe I am really optimistic, I wouldn't know if I had an enemy.
I'm pretty weird. I just laugh at everything and never take anything seriously. No one bothers me at all. I wonder why. |
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