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I would find that highly annoying. I'm sorry for that.
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@Cherry Flavored A- I had an almost similar situation, but instead of my boyfriend's friend's hating me for being with him, they hated me for not returning his feelings right away. He was my best friend first and so I only saw him as that, when he told me he liked me we tried going out, but because I wasn't in love with him we broke up. I was scared of him hating me for not giving him the love he was giving me so I had to leave him. So his friends started talking about me and I found out later on. His friends aren't really bad people or anything and I understood that they were just sad for him, but it's none of their business and it's not just his life it's mine, too. I chose not to be with him until I was sure of my feelings which I finally cleared and we got back together again and we've been quite happy to this day which I believe wouldn't have happened if I had rushed things. I did talk to his friends and I flat out told them that I was sorry, but I just wasn't going to be with him until I was sure and that it was my life just as much as his. They didn't have much to say about it after that.
I think that the girl who keeps suggesting other people for your bf might be jealous or something. If she treats him that way she might be insecure about their friendship, like he's choosing you over their friendship, same goes for the other friend. Not sure, but it's just a thought. |
Hmmm well i guess my situation is a little like your yours in some ways. You see in fourth grade I was friends with these two girls but one of them was kind of a love/ hate situation. You see the other girl was like our best friend in the world (or at least in that class which was our world in those simple times) so we would naturally clash for attention of her. I have no clue why we couldn't get along but I think there was always that understanding that we just didn't like each other... Anyways fourth grade ended and I was never in that girl's class for again for the remainder of my elementary years (which for some odd reason is to sixth grade here...) Well middle school rolls around and I start seeing her all the time except this time me and her are competing for my best friend who i have known since I was four and the scary part is she was actually at my birth o_O. Well anyways so i finally get the chance to hang out with the both of them outside school and I found out the story of this girl who I have been hating for the past three years and I found out that she had had a rich abusive father who took everything from her. Needless to say i felt horrible about this petty squabble we had been having and I found that i just wanted us to be friends so she could have someone else to be close to. Now we're not exact;y friends but we don't hate each other either. I think it's just more of a situation where we understand each other which I'm find with for now. I mean we all have to start somewhere right? :roll:
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Gah! I feel like that all the time. For me, I don't talk as much in school because it feels like when I say something somebody is going to start talk about me behind my back. It's really scary. Some people even ask how I do I keep so quiet. >.< My real personality is really loud and abit funny.
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