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More mad if your partner cheats on you with a male or female
? <-Cause I can't stick that into the topic title. Px
So while I was showering today, I had this weird question above popped into my head. Some may not be in a relationship but imagine your potential partner. Would you be more mad if he or she is cheating on you with the same gender or opposite of his or her own? And this includes bi too! (For those bi, pick a partner gender you are more comfortable with) Since I wish to be with a guy partner, I would be more darn pissed off if he cheated on me with another guy. @@ But that's thinking he never told me if he is bi or gay. It would be weird just thinking about it. Your friends bring it up one day and would be like, "Oh, your boyfriend cheated on you right? Who was the girl?" "Guy... >_>" "Oh...><" Yea, it would be an annoying thing to remember compare to he cheated on me with a girl. But that is my way of thinking. So I want to know your opinions. :3 |
Either way, regardless of ANYONE'S gender, I would be equally pissed. I actually wouldn't mind if my partner had more than one partner, provided all involved KNEW about everyone else, but going and seeing someone behind my back? I don't care what's in their pants. That would really piss me off. (...talk about stating the obvious.)
I might be a LITTLE weirded out, though, if I was dating a guy who always said he was straight, but then I found out he was cheating on me with a guy. Or if I were dating a girl who swore she was a lesbian, and I found HER with a guy. That would probably piss me off more than anything because there's more than one lie involved. |
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getting cheat on. :]. i JUST had a boyfriend. last three. ALL bi ALL CHEATED on me [tonight would of been our 2 week x_x] It Does Hurt. 1st two Was a guy.. then the one i just had was a girl. Okay. guy and guy. it hurts alot. But Not as much as him being with another GIRL. >_>;; think of everything a girl and can do do, public, around friends, blah blah. with a guy .. Haha. no comment ^__^ |
I would be pissed of if the guy/girl I was with cheated on me, I don't care about the gender, That doesn't matter to me, Oh and by the way, I'm bi-sexual, So yeah. xD
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My boyfriend IS bi, so this has crossed my mind many times.
Personally, I feel more threatened by girls. It's more instinctual. So I would probably be more mad if he cheated on me with a girl. This would also invoke a lot of esteem issues, since I can be compared to a girl more than a guy. (I.E. "Is she prettier than me" and such) But I'd be pretty damn mad if it was a guy, too. That would invoke the issues of "Is he completely gay? Will he never like me again? Do I have no chance?" But then again, if he cheated on me, chances are it would be completely over. I love him to death. But I expect that in return, y'know? |
Thats a tough one. o.-
Right off the bat, I would be more angry if my hubby cheated on me with a girl rather then a guy. Though that doesn't really make sense, because if hes cheating on me with a guy, he must like that guy just as he would if he cheated on me with a girl. x_x So I don't really know why... |
Okay I'm single and straight so...
If he cheated on me with a girl I'd be really angry,sad, and etc.. IF he cheated with a guy then so many questions would pop into my head like... Has he always been gay? Am I that bad that he had to change genders completely? And not to mention that it'd be embarrassing if I was to come home and find my guy in bed with another guy like Chris Crocker O.O lol I don't know why he just popped into my head. But yes I don't think I'd even be mad at first I'd be like "Oh my god... O.O... Please tell me you guys are just really good friends." Then I'd have a million questions for him. But I don't think I'd even get mad. So anyways I think it'd be him cheating on me with a girl would be worse because if he's gay then he's been that way all along. |
I think it's basically universal for every straight guy to be O.K. with his girlfriend to cheat on him with a girl. There's even a song about it, "My Girl got a Girlfriend" or something like that. xD
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I would be more upset if it was female. If he was cheating on me with a guy, I would feel that there is a deeper issue that I can't resolve, because I'm female.
However, if it's another female...GAHH! I would submit to an emotional breakdown and compare myself to her. Is she prettier? Is she more satisfying in bed? Is she more fun to be around? Is he in love with her? Am I worthless? He would not get another chance. I'd boot him out of the house and send him a sex tape of me and another man. I'd pretend to be enjoying myself more than with him, and be very vocal. Just to make him feel bad. |
I would probably get pissed off either way. o.o;
XD Though I WILL admit that I'm a sucker for yaoi. *shot* |
tis is going to sound juvenile , but....do i get to watch , or not? XD
cause i dont want him cheating on me with a guy if i cant watch! XD |
Either way, cheating is UNACCEPTABLE. And I'd be pissed more then I should be.
But because I'm straight, I'd have more of a self esteem breakdown if my boyfriend (highly unlikely) were to cheat on me with a guy. To me it would feel like a slap in the face. This feeling of "I turned them off to females? ; ;" So I would probably lose a lot of self esteem. But either way, I'd be pissed and crushed. |
While I might might have a tiny bit more understanding of a boyfriend cheating on me with another man or a girlfriend cheating on me with a man- assuming we were in a monogamous relationship and so they were seeking the kind of attention I was phsycially incapable of providing- I would still be completely infuriated. Another woman though, and it's like, well what's she giving you that I can't?
However, I don't do monogamy anymore, but that doesn't mean that a partner can't cheat (in fact my last girlfriend is an ex now because she cheated, among other reasons.) In my relationships, cheating makes even less sense though because if one of my partners wants to be with someone else, they just have to say, "hey, Imma hook up with so-and-so" and that's it. When she cheated on me (and my husband and her other boyfriend) beyond just being pissed off, we were completely baffled because there was no reason to lie to us and hide it. Regardless of the style of relationship though, cheating is unacceptable and I won't even be involved with a person who I think is cheating because it always ends badly. |
I've been cheated on before, multiple times, and they've cheated with other girls. It'd be an interesting change if my guy cheated on me with another boy. :lol:
But seriously, I'd be extremely pissed off either way. Cheating is a soul crushing experience. If he cheated on me with another guy, I think the first thing that I'd think was "Holy hell, I turned him gay!" I have absolutely nothing against gay people, but I think it'd hurt me if someone went from me to doing other guys. xP However, if he was cheating with another girl, I know from experience that I'd spend days upon days comparing myself to her, and nitpicking at every little flaw I have, while agonizing over how much better than me she has to be. And that'd be no fun either. D: Its a hard question to answer, but I guess I'd hate him less if he cheated with a guy. :? |
The more lies there were, the more pissed I'd be.
Though, you cheat on me at all, and it'll anger me. |
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I'd be pissed-off and upset either way P: I think it would be awkward for me if my girlfriend cheated on me with a guy... I don't know. xD; I'd be like, "... Oh... um... okay. ... *ANGER*" you know? xD
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I'd be more mad if my boyfriend cheated on me with another female. If he cheated on me with a male...I think I'd just be shocked. I'm bi myself and am very open about it, so I think he would have told me if he were into men.
My boyfriend's really weird about that though. He doesn't care about me doing sexual things with another girl (though he'd probably want in on it), but whenever he thinks of me cheating on him with another guy, he gets really upset and his stomach starts to hurt. I only want to be in a relationship with one person though, so I wouldn't do anything with anyone other than my boyfriend. |
I'd just be glad they're happy... either gender.
Love is being willing to let the one you love be with someone else other than yourself. I figure, if they want to be with someone else I wouldn't be mad or jealous as long as they're happy <3 I told them this too... ^^ |
I'm pretty sure that I could tell if my partner is in the other road. And even if they cheat on me, I guess there is nth much I could do. I couldn't just tie them up and say they're mine. Better to love someone that loves you. I totally believe in that. That's why I never go 100 on any relationship, unless they show that they're giving me more than I'm giving them. I'm just selfish like that. I am the very insecure type. I have been scarred before, who hasn't? And I don't want to be that low again in my life, know what I mean? And if they cheat, I'll be happen to let them go, despite the gender of their lover. I'll hurt, that'll be sure, but I'll just have to deal with a broken heart right? ^^;
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But it's a completely different thing when they go behind your back and don't even have the decency to break it off with you before pursuing someone else. It just adds insult to injury. Because it's not only "You're not good enough", it's also "I didn't care enough to tell you this sooner. Like, before locking lips with so-and-so." |
Umm... depends. Assuming I had a boyfriend (which I don't...) and he cheated, I think I'd be more freaked out if he was cheating on me with a guy because I'd be like "WTF You're gay? o_O;;;". I'm not homophobic but hey, I'm a girl with a gay -boyfriend-?
If he cheated on me with another girl, I'd be pretty annoyed/pissed off/whatever too, but if it was a guy I'd just be more WTF than if it was a girl. EDIT: Or it could be "WTF You're bi? o_O;;;" too. But with less of a WTF factor, maybe. It'd just be more weird if my hypothetical boyfriend was gay. xD |
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if my fiance would cheat on me with ANYONE I'd dumb his ass Dx I do not tolerate cheating. I don't cheat. Therefor if my partner cheats on me, I feel horrible. I do take it as that matter that something is wrong with me.. but I still dumb their sorry asses.
Fortunately enough my fiance thinks as strongly about cheating as I do, he'd leave me in a cold winter weather in a heart beat if I was ever STUPID enough to cheat on him! and I sure wouldn't blame him. He's last girlfriend cheated on him with his BEST FRIEND. My guy hasn't been a friend to that guy ever since (like 4, 5 years) and although the girl spent like a year trying to get him back, he wouldn't. hahah! |
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