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soup 03-09-2008 11:15 AM

I dunno, I think if my bf cheated on me with a guy I'd be more shocked than anything. LikeWUT? I thought you liked girls~

NuRii 03-09-2008 11:50 AM

WEll I might be a little weird xD
because if he cheats with a girl he finds that he truly loves then I probably have a conversation with him , depending on his answer I will decide to weather slap him and beat him to a bloody pulp or not
IF he was cheating with a man then I probably wishes them best of luck in the this world xD because I like boy's love
and love is love you cant force it D:
of course if they are being cheeky to me and say something like "hah! you idiot I just thought it be fun to go out with you" I will not tolerate it I will sent them to the hospital and make sure they never wake up again :x

bumper 03-09-2008 12:09 PM

Slap the mess out of em' anyway

Caroline 03-09-2008 12:19 PM

I'd be a lotttt less angry if a significant other cheated on me with a guy instead of a girl. If it's a boyfriend, it would just be kind of like... "oh... I knew he was too good to be straight." I'm a pretty jealous person and I can't stand feeling like I have to compete with another girl; it makes me question everything about myself when I come in second place to another girl.

Sterling 03-09-2008 12:26 PM

I think I'd really be more upset if he cheated on me with another girl.
To me if he cheated on me with a girl, and he already has one, then there's something wrong with me in his eyes. If it's with a guy then I'd feel that it's not my fault, it's just he wants a guy.

Onoko 03-09-2008 04:35 PM

Haha, I'll still be pretty angery, no matter what's inside their pants!

I mean, I'm actually one of those few people who defend Gay Rights at school (even though I'm pretty straight. . .), but If I find out my boyfriend (don't have one though. . .) was cheating on me with a guy, both of them would be violently mauled, if it was a girl, she would be shipped to Africa right about now. :3

wispytearz 03-09-2008 04:42 PM

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I'd just be glad they're happy... either gender.

Love is being willing to let the one you love be with someone else other than yourself.

I figure, if they want to be with someone else I wouldn't be mad or jealous as long as they're happy <3

I told them this too... ^^

Well, it's one thing if the person tells you "I think I would be happier with so-and-so..."
But it's a completely different thing when they go behind your back and don't even have the decency to break it off with you before pursuing someone else. It just adds insult to injury. Because it's not only "You're not good enough", it's also "I didn't care enough to tell you this sooner. Like, before locking lips with so-and-so."

Well... I already don't deserve her... so I already know I'm obviously not good enough for her... I wouldn't mind seeing her kiss someone else... or marrying someone else... I can't really see me and her having a serious relationship... I'd just feel too undeserving of being the one to make her happy... >.<

Even if you think you're not deserving of this girl, that doesn't mean she should cheat on you either. People can be open and honest about being with multiple people and it can work, but if a person cheats, how can you trust them to be honest about other things? No relationship can work without trust, whether monogamous or polyamorous.

Cheya 03-09-2008 09:36 PM

I would be pissed off at either notion. Just being lied to... falsely being loved and told told I was the only one would make me want to kill so very badly.

Bombshell 03-09-2008 09:39 PM

A weird question lol but I'd be equally angry no matter what gender. Cheating is cheating.

Maria-Minamino 03-09-2008 10:22 PM

I'd be pissed if a guy cheated on me...period. Doesn't matter with who - I'd still be super mad. Good thing I found a guy who is loyal and who loathes cheating as much as I do :D

amyleto 03-27-2008 04:40 AM

Regardless of what gender the other party is, I would be enraged if my husband were to cheat on me. I guess that the only thing that would be different between whether the person he cheated with was male or female is that I would get a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach if the person was male. It wouldn't make me any more or less angry, just ill.

Schwartz Panda Kiri 03-27-2008 04:43 AM

I'm a girl, and I had a girlfriend once who cheated on me with a guy.

I think that might be worse. xD I dunno.
It was made worse when a few weeks before I found out, she asked me to get a sex change. >____> I LIKE BEING A GIRL.
xD

Purdy Possum Pie 03-27-2008 04:53 AM

I think I would be more hurt if it was with a guy. We have been together 10 years in August. If it was a guy it not only would be betral it would be lieing as well. That he would not have figured this out before then or tried to hid something from me. I would be very upset if it was a girl as well but more so if it was with a guy.

Wordstreamer 03-27-2008 04:57 AM

Ummm..... I wouldn't care WHAT the gender was, I'd care about the cheating. Either way, I'd be incredibly wounded.


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